Chapter 914: Goodbye to the Dead
Just when Gao Jun and Teacher Han were flirting and scolding, the 'worker master' didn't know when he left, probably because he understood Gao Jun's words, and he couldn't stand this numbness.
The meaning of falling in love is like this, it is a process of allowing men and women to understand each other, tolerate each other, and even change each other.
They are all only children, they are all grown up as princesses and princes, and they all have their own little tempers and small personalities, so they need to understand and adapt to the process of falling in love.
There will be contradictions and quarrels in the middle, and it will be understood that one side will learn to make concessions, one side will learn to tolerate, and slowly make changes.
is like Han Jingjing, who is a rule-abiding person in life, but Gao Jun's personality is a little casual, even lazy, so Han Jingjing always forces him to wash, and if he doesn't wash his feet, he doesn't even want to go to his mother's bed.
And Gao Jun likes to eat coriander very much, and likes a little coriander to borrow any dish, but Han Jingjing has not eaten coriander since she was a child, saying that she hates the taste, but now, as long as she cooks, she basically puts coriander, and she herself calmly eats it.
This is the change that must be made after falling in love, both of them want to be together for the rest of their lives, and for the rest of their lives, you are in charge of small things, and I have the final say on big things.
So now Han Jingjing asks Gao Jun to be thrifty, and Gao Jun asks Han Jingjing to learn to enjoy life, which is not contradictory, and almost every household is like this, the wife encourages the husband to go out to earn money, and the master takes the money back and throws it to the woman to spend.
"Okay, okay, you don't have to educate me, cook more of your favorite food in the future, isn't it okay. Han Jingjing said loudly: "But you can call the shots in our family about this kind of decoration, and my parents should wait for them to come and discuss it." ”
Gao Jun nodded, watching the group of people outside the window leave quietly, and they came in a special tricycle, which was very vivid and vivid, and he was also relieved, as long as the drugs were taken away, it would not affect Han Jingjing's family, and the rest would not matter.
But in order to prevent accidents, Gao Jun still said: "Let's live in that old house recently, after all, it has just been renovated, and it needs to disperse the smell, and after the formaldehyde content is tested after spring, and the decoration next door is good, let's move in together." ”
"Two?" Han Jingjing keenly grasped the point.
"There are two when the door is closed, and there is one when the door is opened. Gao Jun hurriedly corrected.
Han Jingjing threw him a 'it's about the same' look, in fact, he still recognized it in his heart, other girls married far away, thinking they were married to love, but many of them were married to the hard days of leaving their hometowns and staying away from relatives and friends.
And she did it with her parents to marry, just like Gao Jun said, marriage is a family, this is a new home, and the husband and wife are a family, but this is after the door is closed, the couple drills the bed, they are a family.
But when you open the door, the opposite door is your parents' home, and then it is naturally a family.
This is probably every girl's dream, marrying a man who can help you realize your dreams and give you happiness is married to love.
"Okay, it's decided for the time being, change the water and electricity to pave the tiles and scrape the white, and return it to the gang just now, and I will wait for my parents to decide with the others." Han Jingjing compromised: "Since this new house can't be lived, let's pry open some window cracks for ventilation, let's go, you didn't say that you would make money, but you would also spend money, I will invite you to go down to the restaurant." ”
This is so true, you will make money, and you must also be able to spend money, so that it makes sense to make money, and you can't be a slave to money. Gao Jun said with satisfaction: "Where are we going to eat?"
Han Jingjing looked at the time and said, "I still have classes in the afternoon, don't go too far, let's just go to the gate of our college, there is a newly opened beef noodle restaurant, and the soup stock is very authentic." ”
Gao Jun almost fell on his head, and said helplessly: "If you have a lot of strength, you dare to finish eating beef noodles?"
"I can give you an extra ten dollars for beef. Han Jingjing said seriously.
Gao Jun smiled bitterly and nodded: "You have to work hard, you must have a son in the future." ”
"Why?" asked Han Jingjing puzzled.
"Because of your way of living, you can save a country, and you have to have a son to inherit it. Gao Jun said helplessly.
Han Jingjing pinched him, turned around and went out, Gao Jun hurriedly grabbed her little hand, and said, "This is leaving?" Anyway, it's okay now, and the room has been checked to see if there are no hidden dangers, why don't we finish the unfinished work before?"
Looking at Gao Jun's eyebrows, Han Jingjing's face turned red and said, "I'm hungry, I'm not in the mood." ”
"Don't you want your son to inherit the Jiangshan Sheji?" Gao Jun said flickeringly.
"No, the house is not completely clean, and there are no toiletries here, which is too unhygienic. Han Jingjing rejected very decisively, which is the principle she has always adhered to.
And Gao Jun also said this on purpose, in fact, he is still in a state of malaise, but he can't drink Han Jingjing's words, so he simply made a move to 'advance as retreat', he knew in his heart that Han Jingjing would definitely not agree, so he also maintained his tall and brilliant tough image.
Sitting in the car, Han Jingjing suggested again: "Since you don't want to eat beef noodles, then go to the gate of your college, listen to the students, you have a dumpling restaurant there, and it is also very good, just like the dumplings made by my mother on Chinese New Year's Eve, I have always wanted to taste it." ”
"Don't go!" Gao Jun said like a deceitful corpse: "Don't go, it's a black spot, the ingredients are rotten, the taste is poor, the price is expensive, the boss is still a stinky hooligan, often molesting students who go to eat, sometimes even the teacher doesn't let go, it's better to stay away." ”
"No, I've heard that the reputation is very good. Han Jingjing questioned.
"Hearing is false, and there are many people who help her make false publicity, and I heard that the boss has an unusual relationship with a certain big person in the school. Gao Jun said ambiguously.
As soon as she heard this, Han Jingjing suddenly pouted, she was the person who paid the most attention to speaking with strength and hard work, and the most annoying thing was to ask for a relationship to go through the back door, and immediately said: "Forget it, let's go to the cafeteria." ”
Gao Jun secretly breathed a sigh of relief, sent Han Jingjing to the Institute of Science and Technology, and the two ate together from the cafeteria, because there was an experimental class in the afternoon, so she had to prepare experimental tools in advance, so she ate and left, before leaving, he asked Gao Jun to wear more clothes when he was on duty at night, the temperature was too low at night.
There is no sincerity, there is no tenderness, a simple sentence, but it is from the heart, and it is also the most practical care, and Gao Jun suddenly felt full of happiness.
This kind of life can be said to be the most ideal, even the most wonderful, both of them are university teachers, with high salaries, good benefits, and a fairly high social status as teachers.
He had this feeling last semester, and at the beginning of this semester, the feeling became even stronger, if only he could really live like this.
It may be because of the loss of hazardous chemicals before, so the side doors of the Institute of Science and Technology to other colleges are closed, Gao Jun has no choice but to walk from the main entrance, to go back to the Institute of Foreign Languages to go around a circle, just after a hundred steps after dinner.
Go back, pass through the residential area, and before you get close, you hear the sound of gongs and drums, look for the sound and look at it, it turns out that someone has passed away, and the sacrifice is made in the mourning hall, and the gong and drum team is specially invited, the silk string gongs and drums, and the noise is loud.
And now such a white gong and drum team is also advancing with the times, the introduction of electronic piano cooperation, not only gongs and drums, but also the music from the previous simple sad tunes and become diversified, but also added a lot of pop song elements, this sound sounded, immediately attracted a lot of old men and old ladies around, and thought that the square dance was about to start.
Some people have always watched the excitement and not think it was a big deal, and another skill is that they can watch anything as a joke.
However, Gao Jun is not interested in watching people set up mourning halls, if it weren't for Miao Hui being today's master of ceremonies, he would have left a long time ago.
The mourning hall has been set up, the golden boy and the jade girl are arranged on both sides of the mourning hall, the treasure chest cornucopia is at the door, a paper cow made of golden paper is outside, representing that the deceased is a woman, on the Huangquan Road, the man rides a horse, and the woman rides a bull.
Relatives from all walks of life who came to mourn were also under the auspices of Miao Hui, kowtowing, bowing, offering incense, and family members returning the courtesy, and everything was taken care of in an orderly manner.
Whether it is the host of white affairs or the master of ceremonies of red affairs, it is a very, very difficult job, to put it bluntly, it is the work of serving people.
On the wedding day, as the host, you must take charge of the overall situation, be responsible for driving the atmosphere, always maintain activity and joy, all kinds of rules, marriage allusions, the characteristics of both parties, local customs, etc., and the other is rhetoric, auspicious words, festive words, auspicious words, almost not at all.
Not to mention white things, relatives and friends from all walks of life are in a sad mood in their arms, rules, customs are more, as the master of ceremonies' attitude, tone, and expression have very strict requirements, almost family members may not be satisfied.
So what Gao Jun hates most is this kind of work with people, especially serving people, this money is not easy to earn.
For example, now, Miao Hui has also seen him, he hasn't seen him for a long time, and he will inevitably be a little excited, but he is working, he can't show the slightest personal emotion, and he has to be the same as his family, with grief, and handle everything.
Gao Jun lit a cigarette and watched from the side, after a cigarette, Miao Hui came over, the basic cooking on the scene was understood, and the rest was handed over to the drum band to start performing, these people were really working hard, and more and more people were attracted to it.
There are also singers who began to sing, because the deceased was an old lady, so a song "Mother", all the family members who sang it burst into tears, and the sadness of farewell broke out instantly, and the onlookers were also sad and sad.
And Gao Jun and Miao Hui got together, obviously there was no need to be sad, Gao Jun joked instead: "You are dressed in black, white lace gloves, and this sad expression, you are more and more like the surviving person in the Dongying blockbuster." ”