Other people's wives, surviving people, and female teachers after class, these are the three most popular series of Dongying blockbusters, and many famous actresses have starred in the surviving series.

So Gao Jun was deeply impressed by this, especially Miao Hui's appearance when she was 'working', black clothes, white gloves, and sometimes wearing a white paper flower, coupled with her age, this appearance, and the melancholy and haggard temperament that a single mother has cultivated for more than ten years, which can always make Gao Jun have many associations.

Of course, saying it in front of Miao Hui is completely a joke, or even a joke.

But this made Miao Hui nervous suddenly, and quickly took off her gloves, and said: "I don't want to do this either, but after all, it's work, so it looks solemn, if you feel unlucky, then I ......."

In fact, she didn't know what to do, hesitating and nervous, Gao Jun hurriedly said: "Sister Miao, Sister Miao, don't get excited, I'm joking with you, of course I know that wearing black is to show solemnity, don't think about it." ”

Miao Hui was obviously relieved and didn't say anything.

Gao Jun's mouth has always been unguarded, especially for women, he always opens his mouth with three points of flirtation, if it is replaced by someone else, it is fine, if Tong Ling will flirt with him, if it is replaced by Zhang Jiao, Han Jingjing will at most glance at him, smack him, and never think about it.

But this Miao Hui is different, she will take it seriously, she will care, and she will even be afraid.

This is how a second-married woman reacts.

Usually, second-married women have two mentalities, the most common one is 'mixed', halfway couples are to live with a partner, and they will never be as single-minded as the original couple, especially the failure of the first marriage, which makes people more wary, if both parties have children, then they will hide their eyes and consider their own interests everywhere.

In this mentality, it is difficult for halfway couples to live a harmonious and happy life, and the divorce rate of remarried people is usually much higher than that of first-time marriages, because without trust and intimate relationships, it is difficult to last long.

The second mentality is like Miao Hui, in today's words, to put it ugly, this is actually the mentality of licking a dog.

This is a kind of self-placement in a lower position, always with a dwarf inferiority complex to get along with others, from the bottom of my heart that I am not worthy of the other party, I can only double, do my best, and even be good to each other without reservation, in order to level the gap between each other.

The other party's every move, word and deed will pay special attention, and even over-interpret, she looks at me like this, is she blaming me for not buying her that bag? She pouted at me, did she want to eat Haidilao? All in all, falling in love in such a state of suffering from gains and losses will not end well.

The advantage of this kind of person is that I don't think I'm worthy of you, but I still want to be with you, and I'm going to do everything to fight for it.

But he is usually used by the other party as a spare tire, an ATM, a follower and a handyman, and the final end is even 'you are not worthy of raising his child'.

In the past, there was a song that sang, why should women be embarrassed by women, and there are derivative works of why men are embarrassed by men, but now some people have developed to the point that they are fucking embarrassed themselves, which is really no difficulty in creating difficulties.

Any interpersonal communication should be based on freedom, friendliness and equality, even in love, most boys want to pursue girls, but this pursuit is only the difference between active and passive, there is never, and there should never be a distinction between high and low.

But it is because there is a licking dog in society and pursuing without a bottom line, so it makes some of the pursuers appear to be high, to put it bluntly, it is a habitual problem!

There are also a few people who use this to deliberately flaunt themselves, obviously don't look down on each other, they can refuse in one bite, but they play ambiguous and if they are separated, hot and cold, pull you over when you can use it, and throw the spare tire aside immediately when you don't need it.

Besides, Miao Hui, although it has not reached this extent, but there is such a trend, she thinks that she is old, she is a single mother, and she is still engaged in this kind of unfortunate profession, and she can associate with a young and promising university teacher like Gao Jun, she is congenitally shorter, so she is accommodating and tolerant everywhere, even if Gao Jun jokes about a surviving person, she will guess more heartily whether Gao Jun is unlucky.

Gao Jun realized this, but he didn't have much to say except for the apology and explanation, because this idea of inferiority came from her heart.

This is like many female celebrities scrambling to marry into a wealthy family, in fact, after entering the door, their previous aura will disappear in an instant, the more famous the family, the more they often look down on the drama, some of them are still turned away after giving birth to a few children, some are treated as canaries of caged birds after entering the door, some husbands are tired, and some go out to spend time and endure silently, and some even suffer domestic violence, and some even commit suicide before.

But these female stars, in order to maintain their current lives, often choose to compromise and endure, just because they themselves think they are inferior.

And Gao Jun knows his own affairs, how can a man who steps on N boats have the right to dislike others.

Just when I was at a loss, suddenly the performance in front of the mourning hall came out again.

Originally, singing about my mother and singing some sad songs was the right time, but now the singer is actually present with the love song "Heart Rain", because tomorrow, I will be someone else's bride......

"I'll rub, is this lyric appropriate?" Gao Jun seized the opportunity and quickly changed the topic, saying: "This is an old lady who has died, right, tomorrow she will be someone else's bride, whose bride, the bride of Lord Yama?"

"Don't talk nonsense, don't let the family hear it. Miao Hui hurriedly said, this is her character, she is also afraid, she is afraid, she is as pessimistic as a depressed patient.

"They don't care when they hear such a song, do they still care about the evaluation of a passer-by?" Gao Jun snorted and said: "It's okay to beat gongs and drums, this is singing and dancing, what kind of funeral is it, and those who don't know think it's a happy event." ”

Miao Hui still looked at the family members over there in fright, and then said in a low voice: "This is a happy funeral, according to the custom, it must be lively, on the other hand, in fact, the family members deliberately do it for neighbors, relatives and friends to see, to see them bury the deceased in a grand manner, so as to show filial piety."

The old lady who passed away was not easy in her life, she was middle-aged and widowed, she pulled a cart with four children, suffered from cardiovascular disease in her later years, and was bedridden at home for many years, and suffered a lot of crimes, so the family wanted the old man to go in style. ”

"The scenery of the funeral and filial piety itself is not next to each other, and the dead can't see or touch, what's the use of spending more money, it's better to buy more food and drink when you're alive, and accompany the elderly more. Gao Jun said disdainfully: "Besides, the so-called 'joy and mourning' customs, pay attention to 'full blessing, full life, full end', Quanfu is said to be the family Ding Xingwang, he is the longest in the family, four or even five generations in the same house, known as the ancestor, enjoy the family fun of children and grandchildren."

Full life is the meaning of longevity, at least 80 or 90.

The end of the whole is to say that there is no disease, no suffering, natural aging, and the end of life.

Only the death of such a three-pronged old man can be called an old funeral, but this old lady, middle-aged widow, sick in bed in old age, and then look at the family members over there, the black armbands with flowers are grandchildren, all of them are girls, either granddaughters or granddaughters, a boy does not, how can the family inherit?

She doesn't occupy all three, what kind of joy and sorrow. ”

After hearing what Gao Jun said, Miao Hui said in surprise: "You are quite knowledgeable?"

"Of course, in order to have a common language with you, I have made up for it. Gao Jun said.

Miao Hui was a little surprised, a little surprised, and only listened to Gao Jun say: "And I think the so-called funeral customs are also not advisable, if a loved one dies in the family, it should be sad and painful, no matter how old it is, a loved one, from now on, Yin and Yang will be separated forever, and they will never see each other again, and they will feel sad when they think about it, where does the joy come from?"

"One person, one idea. Miao Hui said: "Besides, if we all think like you, we will all be unemployed." ”

Gao Jun waited for this sentence around and around, and immediately said: "What kind of career is this broken job, it's better if you're unemployed, I'll support you." ”

In just three words, Miao Hui's heart almost melted, and her nose was sore, and she almost cried.

I raise you, this is probably the love words that all girls are most willing to hear, this is a man's commitment, but also an attitude.

The little girl will be moved when she hears these three words, not to mention Miao Hui, a poor woman who has suffered an unhappy marriage and has been in a mess for more than ten years.

If there is another way out, who would choose to do the job of funeral service, it is really desperate and will not be able to open the pot and eat, so it will be so chosen.

Only she knows how difficult it is in this industry that seems to serve the dead on the surface, but actually serves the living, and how much Miao Hui has been wronged in it.

The reality is cruel, at this moment, how many women are tortured by work, tired and irritable, and everyone has had the urge and thought of wanting to leave it alone.

At this time, when a * comes out and says, if you don't do it, you won't do it, I'll raise you.

In fact, many women are not really at home because of this sentence and wait for a man to support, but when they are unhappy at work and irritable and depressed, they can have a guarantee, and these three words can make them get the greatest sense of security.

In fact, I raise you, it is an attitude, what I say is, I eat dry, never let you drink thin, there must be you if I eat in one bite.

I raise you with this, which is a kind of confession, and then tell women that I am a person you can trust and rely on.

It's just that most men don't dare to say these three words now, because many women will take it seriously, maybe after you say this, she will immediately pick up her phone and resign.

And this is also easier to misunderstand, what you are talking about is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and in the eyes of some girls, this raising is that you are responsible for making money to support your family, and I am responsible for being beautiful like a flower, shopping and drinking tea, traveling around the world, and swiping cards crazily......