Chapter 152: Confrontation
If he always thinks crankily in this place every day, or maybe he brings some extra money to school, even saves all his food money, and then in the school, is there something bullied by his classmates or something.
This may happen, so there are many children who will have certain problems in their hearts, they are very immature, we will quickly combine his current age to make a match, such a aspect, I hope you as your own sister to persuade and communicate with him.
Let him find a psychiatrist and have a good consultation, and his treatment cycle may take a long time, at least I estimate that it will take about half a year, otherwise there will be no effect. Does he talk to you on a regular basis? Or how often does he talk to you?
When I talk to him, I almost always have to take the initiative to talk to him, and first of all, I have to be very clear and obedient, and I have been following his behavior to be able to communicate with you normally, first of all, he is not exclusive to you, you are advancing and retreating together, in this real sense, you can help him, you can learn to appreciate some very good advantages in himself in such a process, and I also believe in him.
It can't be completely that he doesn't have any merits, he must be very kind, this is certain, and I hope you can have a certain amount of patience, that is, he still has some confusing things, and this is what it looks like, how should his own husband talk about this aspect.
The place where the two people live is very close, and the intersection above, the two of them pass by every day, and before, he saw himself and his colleagues going out together, and the two have been married for five or six years. The current life is like a light and tasteless boiling water, and it has come to a state of strangeness, and he doesn't know why in this state.
He thinks that his husband is a very attentive man, you have such an evaluation of him, sometimes you will feel that your husband is still very good, but I don't know why I still make such a mistake, I don't owe him anything, and I feel sorry for him, but he has not done anything to the family now.
Or who have you given such an inquiry, such a feeling, why did you want to marry him in the first place, you don't seem to feel such a feeling, I said why do you want to marry him directly, maybe because you are very old at that time, you met him at that time and wanted to get married, and what kind of person you are, do you know in your heart?
Maybe you think you are a very honest and very kind person, so have you ever thought about the consequences of your evaluation of yourself? Do you have any understanding with your own husband, or what kind of point your usual communication has entered, no matter what it is, I always feel that he has been very close to a colleague during this period of time, and he and his friends know each other more thoroughly, or those people who have a lot of life experience have told you, especially with their good friends.
In a period of time, you must study well, because he really belongs to a vulnerable group in this aspect of learning, and now he asks him a lot of things that he doesn't understand and doesn't know, he doesn't know how to continue to live his life, there is such a contradiction between you and your husband, I don't know what the problem is, or so many things about you, I don't know.
How do you feel that you are a good character for yourself, for such a problem you feel, is a mystery, starting from a blind spot to keep telling him, not satisfied with this aspect, not satisfied with that aspect. Say that if you are not satisfied, don't get married for the sake of this issue, you also know this kind of practice, there is no use, have you not thought that two people getting married means that they are sharing hardships and hardships, such a life?
Because the two of you are going to live together for a lifetime, such a situation, we will feel married every year because of the age, and we will find one casually, just like buying cabbage, but after you go back, you find that the problem is not as simple as you imagined, why do you have to get married when you are old. I love
In fact, in terms of such a thing, it shows that we ourselves have a lot of things in the process of growing up, and we have not felt any shortcomings until today, for such an understanding, our own views and some rules of life are not very thorough, and I can't talk about how to do it, I don't know what I'm doing now, I don't know if you know clearly, this kind of point makes people feel very pitiful.
If necessary, I hope you can create some conditions and do some guidance for yourself in this area. I once asked you, usually you can have a good discussion with him, and then the two of you go out together, but he is still very picky about many details in life, and the two of us have seen some bad information, the most important thing, he is not willing to live with you now.
Maybe he feels that he feels very tired when he sees you every day, so he finds any excuse, any reason is because you make him feel impatient, and why does he have such a reason, have you found a reason in yourself, first of all, you are his wife, you are your husband does not like yourself, which in itself shows a very huge failure in your own life.
You can also try to go, it's okay if you don't like him, see that he doesn't like the eye, there is no choice, one of the reasons for this is because of age, in this way, it can be said that it is a very ridiculous thing, I don't want to entangle with you too much in this matter, I am now. You can understand it when you go back.
And my daughter's work has been graduating for several years, and she has been constantly rectifying, and she has taken a lot of money at home in the past three years, housing and living expenses near her work, but this aspect of her current work is fundamentally unrelated to the major she studied in school, and she was learning some things about oral treatment at the beginning, and seeing that his work has nothing to do with his own learning, I have communicated with him every time, and when he took the exam。
This year will get a qualification, he doesn't go to study every day, and he is not in school, read well, he has not been admitted to such a certificate for two years, and when he went home, he once told me that he would have to give me money for the exam again this year, but if he wants to do it in this unit now.
If he said or if he was going to study, I could give him some money to sign up, but he didn't give him any money for a job like this now, he felt it, and he was very angry, if he took out the money, he would not be able to pay the rent, and he wouldn't have a penny left in such a salary, and when he went back, he had no interest in the place where he worked, maybe this was a sign that he felt a sign in his life that he was not doing particularly well.
And the teacher didn't give him a very positive answer, and told him some things about food expenses. And I hope that your parents can help him with this, basically it doesn't work anymore, and my parents often quarrel when they are at home, from when we were young to now, they are very fierce quarrels.
So he still has a certain cause and effect of this thing, which will lead to such a state now, and all such a result is a result of a cause that he has obtained before, and there are many aspects of such a reason that he has to find out the aspect of this cause and then change it, because your brother must have a very deep understanding of this matter of his own, he wants to repent, and he knows where his mistakes are in order to be able to change.
And for these other things in terms of work, as well as the solution of some problems he encountered in the surrounding aspects, I believe that many of his things may be solved, very imperfect, can be described as a mess, and he has to take exams, maybe just to provide himself with a reason like you get more living expenses.
You don't need to imagine the things he does when he's bored, he probably wants to make his life more fulfilling. And there are a lot of things, I think he made it, there is no more practical meaning, I think the girl in front of me, her personality has a very huge problem, and she also has a lot of problems with her understanding of her own life.
And it feels like I haven't grown up, and I also explained to him when I came back before, and I also called you some times before, and I once told you that the two of you must get a good relationship and find a very warm and caring life for himself.