Chapter 153: Too Nervous
"Don't get entangled in marriage, how much do you love me, how much I love you, you see that couples with good feelings can generally play together, it is best if two people want this marriage to last a lifetime, love and love, it is best for two people to play together, the simplest you see how good you two have played in the past"
Two people drink some red wine bottles and foreign wine together, two people chase dramas together, and watch movies together, how good it is, you don't need it as a couple, how much consensus there is in other aspects, as long as you can play together.
This day will be very happy, but once you can't play together, do you think I can do my own thing, I have more fun, you don't play with him, if you don't play with him, he will be very angry, if you don't play with him, what are you playing?
I play games, I play with others, he looks at you and I want to play with you, that is, I watch the children all day, I'm tired for a day, can't you play with me for a while?
There's nothing else interesting, then that's what kind of relationship is wrong, I remember there is a famous one, she was almost 50 years old when she was interviewed, and the host asked him why don't you get married?
I ask that I don't find a person who can talk to me today, a person who can talk to each other, you say that if a couple communicates often, and there are endless words between each other, can the relationship be bad? The relationship is good, everyone hears it, can talk together, can play together, then this contains a few very important points, first of all, you have to talk together is to communicate often, how many couples I want to ask the father who is listening to the show?
How long can you not talk about your heart together, you don't communicate with each other, and even your relationship can be good? And if the last two people can agree on their views, then it's even happier, right?
You can talk together, and you can play together, and it takes the efforts of both parties to play together, you just say that you like football, I like to bake me, I like to make coffee, right?
I'm not very interested in what you play, but I'm trying to learn to play with you, I'm going to play with you, I'm going to watch football with you, I'm wearing this little red belt around my head, blowing a trumpet or something, I just don't know, I'm not laughing at him.
Meticulous and skillful, and you have to put a lot of effort into it, you see that Mr. is looking for this company to surprise his wife, right?
What a big psychology, but you didn't take people to play in the past, you snubbed her for a long time and didn't communicate, you couldn't talk together, you couldn't play together, I asked you what you could do if you didn't talk.
Can't be reconciled as before? No, but change to the same, but it's not too close to each other, sometimes she feels disgusted when she touches away, and at the end of the day, we also talked.
There is no way to deceive himself, he doesn't want to be because there is such a treasure around me, just because the child is making do with the two of them at night, he said that he doesn't want to change all his own life and his own thoughts because of the child, because he said that the child will have his life in the future.
It's not fair to me, it's not fair to you, young man, you didn't ask him directly. Are you sure you don't love me?
Now the only thing I have, because we are not divorced, is because after he said it, I reflected my psychology, and I was a little afraid of him, because we have been seven or eight years old. Flying
No, it was true at the earliest, after I felt that we were married.
I can slowly destroy him, she is completely disappointed in the marriage, he feels that the marriage himself is actually like that, that is, I feel that everyone's marriage has adapted, including his friend's wedding some time ago, the bride sat there drinking and chatting, and the groom carried the bride to talk very depressed, and the change was great, right?
Her marriage was not good, and she was unhappy. She's actually disappointed in her marriage, you're understating, but a woman who was once full of hope for life and marriage, what did he have to go through that made him so desperate, and really didn't love you anymore?
It's not that serious, but when he heard this, he was really desperate, because I could see it on my side. He belongs to him now that he has a broken tooth, you used to be me holding the child, and after we finished our family of three to accompany her to see her eyes,
But when I came back, I felt that he had said it himself, and since I just realized that my family's food has always been mine.
The first should be not friends, first of all, the first situation is to file for divorce, the second is divorced family trivialities, in the continuous accumulation of family trivialities, women are very emotional creatures, a little bit of accumulation of disappointment, and finally become despair, now what?
Divorce is not necessarily an affair that leads to divorce, divorce is often in the marriage feeling and experience is particularly poor, so divorce will be filed in this aspect, because of this reason divorced women are the majority, that is, we should no longer because many people are now guessing the difference on this WeChat?
Including now her mobile phone is going home, if I want to send it, I will send it casually, it is absolutely impossible, how do you say to save her now, I have to say it first? I like me as a person, I don't think I will say anything pretty, let's just say it, first, you have to be mentally prepared, because I feel that since he has a showdown with you and said that he doesn't love you, then he may really have no hope, and the basis is love, and as soon as your wife hears what he said, he is a personal feeling.
Personally, I think it's the kind of thinking that is very trendy, and he understands very well that he knows that he must first manage his life and emotions well, and then he can be a qualified mother and a qualified wife, which leads to his current situation.
I feel very tired to take care of the children with him, you don't communicate for a while you as a husband and father behaved quite poorly, it has a lot to do with it, there may be people who say what is the matter, regardless of the requirements of your marriage, your wife is obviously the kind of marriage that has very high requirements for the quality of marriage, everyone's standards are different, you can't say, my husband has started to hit me in the mouth, I haven't done anything, he is different from you, people feel bad in marriage, and they are not satisfied with her in marriage, maybe she won't do itγ
Then you may be beaten up next to you, and you still feel good. People have different standards for marriage, and your wife is the kind of person with a very high standard, and marriage makes me feel and experience very badly, then I will raise objections, I will not do this is the first point, you please Mr. must accept the fact that no matter what marriage or love, there is a day of birth, old age, sickness and death, if this world is from a philosophical point of view, the most constant is change, only change is constant, you must have heard this sentence, right? The second point is that he claims to be desperate now, but he hasn't mentioned it directly to you, that is, he hasn't gone to the court to sue you, and he hasn't dragged you to prove that you still have hope.
Prove that you still have hope, what is the point of saying that I am a little sorry for the child now, that is, because the parents take care of the child, you have to show a lot of care and love to the child now, and then at the same time to him, to increase the cold and warmth, but don't expect to get results immediately, so that everyone can let her child you personally feel what kind of experience and feeling?
It's still good to live like this, although the relationship is very thin now, but, you make her feel that after all, it is better than being single, and the child will not say that he has experienced the kind of bumps in the divorce of his parents, even if you first accept the status quo in her marriage, you don't retract it when you touch his hand, then you will be heartbroken, sir, please be stronger, how do you say to redeem it?
How can it be so easy to redeem, that is, you now let her feel that love is not so long in the experience of marriage, go to play with him, first work hard to play with him, two people can go out together, drink some wine together, go on a trip to play with the children, right, then all kinds of first let her not feel too uncomfortable in this marriage, and don't force him to change something, slowly, he feels not so bad in marriage, this is much better, after our years and a half of hard work there should be some improvement, if after such hard work, there is still nothing to improve, I want to go around a suggestion online, please accept that love and marriage also have the process of his birth, old age, sickness and death.
Because of the reason for having children, I just have children, so I have insisted until now, I am also thinking about whether I should be a firm divorce, and then the children don't want to be all on my side, we have no common property, and there is no house money for his parents, so there is only one child custody, with one is the custody of the child, I have no house here, no fixed residence, and then I have to go to school if I have a household registration on his side.