"Hello everyone, my name is Chen Yan, and I am the only female student in this class. ”

"I think the 29:1 ratio of men and women in our class is really low. ”

"I think the biggest sorrow of our Chinese women is to lose themselves, in addition to your husband and children, you have your world, and your personal life, it's right to love your family, but you can't lose yourself. Only by contacting the society and contacting people will we broaden our horizons and ideas, so that we will not be so narrow-minded, and we will not be overwhelmed when the mountain rain is coming!"

When a woman steps into society and integrates into the workplace, when a woman leaves home to work alone, when she can only fight against setbacks alone: fragility by nature is often the umbrella of a woman's failure.

Women are often accustomed to classifying themselves as protected. When setbacks defeat her body and mind, a woman often pins her last hope on her husband in the future. It's okay, it's okay if I don't have the ability, as long as my husband has the ability.

Ambition just hand it over to your husband. Men are different, he has no one to rely on. The wife has to rely on himself, and the son has to support himself, so he can only rush forward if he dies.

We know that when people have an emotion called ambition, they will find that everything you do has the best fermented full of motivation, no matter how tired and bitter you are, you have an absolute reason to convince yourself, you have the momentum and passion to develop your own latent energy step by step, in fact, everyone has your immeasurable energy in your body.

But we have too many women because we lack ambition, so our class is now a 29:1 ratio.

This woman is very imposing, which makes the men under the podium not calm.

Someone raised his hand and asked, "Ms. Chen Yan, how do you think women should not be dependent on men, and how can they have a life?"

"I think only a woman with financial independence can talk about personality independence, and only a woman with an independent personality can have the dignity of love. You will not wait for others to choose you at home, but let yourself live a worthwhile life, because what you are waiting for is fate, and what you fight is life.

Men don't necessarily like beautiful women, and now surveys show that men are more likely to like women who like inner beauty.

Like women who are healthy, happy, confident, self-reliant, intelligent, assertive, thoughtful, individual, and energetic. It has nothing to do with age, men mostly like mature women nowadays.

Because they are mature, calm, and have a unique understanding of life. Every age has the charm and brilliance of every age. Therefore, don't feel that you are old, and you must always be younger than your biological age when your mental age is young.

Appearance is given by our parents, and we have no choice. But the inside can be cultivated, and we can choose to be a lovely woman. Men are not tethered, but sucked.

So I'm a smart, cheerful, and lovely woman now. That way, I don't have to worry about the man leaving you, even if he runs around for a lap, he will eventually come back to where he is. Because I am more attractive and attractive than others. If you want to do it, you can do it, no matter how the monkey jumps around, how tossing, he can't escape the palm of the dragon in the end.

Control the man in the palm of your hand, use your brain instead of your mouth, laugh instead of crying, and let go instead of grabbing.

The bird that perches in the palm of its hand does not catch or fly, and the bird will only fly when someone wants to catch it. People have a rebellious mentality, if a man is a kite, you make the line under the kite, no matter how high and far they fly, the line is always in your hand, at that time are you still worried that he will run away?

So I chose to be a smart woman. Constantly improve yourself, so that you will not only be dependent on men, and have the life you want.

To do this, we women must first be in an active position rather than passively being chosen by others.

As the quality of life improves, so do the requirements for things. I will set goals for myself, and the only way to do that is to go in a better and higher direction. Regardless of whether these can be achieved or not, we must move forward step by step towards this goal, and if we want to do it, we must be a person with quality, taste and level, and live a quality and grade life.

So I came to study.

Don't you think a woman who walks in wisdom and confidence is the most beautiful?

"That's it. ”

The men under the podium laughed.

Chen Yan continued: Sanmao once said that if you read more, your face will naturally change, and many times, you may think that many of the books you have read have become a cloud of smoke and no longer remember, but in fact, they are still in the potential temperament, in the conversation, in the mind of the boundless, of course, it may also be revealed in life and words. A woman's temperament requires precipitation of life experience and knowledge.

Because a knowledgeable woman will continue to increase her charm, increase her self-confidence, and know the art of love. Insight is a big word, all-encompassing, and a woman's mind and pattern are largely related to it. It is difficult for an uninformed woman to ensure that she can become more and more attractive.

Now I'm doing a cosmetics and beauty business, not as big as the big guys here, because I only have five or six stores, but I think that as I continue to learn, my career will get bigger and bigger.

"Ms. Chen Yan said it very well. Teacher Amy took the lead and applauded.

"I'm a woman too. Teacher Amy took over and said.

I think women are just like men, they have innate ambitions in their careers. Ambition, from the time you really step into this society, your physical and mental perception and social reality will collide with a change that will be stimulated**. Everyone has it, you and I are no exception. In fact, there is no general difference between the original molds of each person carved in his youth.

What really makes people different from each other is when you step into society, integrate into your work circle, and your different attitudes in the face of setbacks determine your later life. Setbacks are the turning point that determines a person's fate, because everyone will inevitably fight against it, and your psychological quality determines the height of your life.

Ms. Chen Yan is a very self-reflective lady.

There's a quote in real life that illustrates this best. The wife is always right, even if she is wrong, she is right. In my opinion, a woman's identity is not a symbol of having certain honors, women have a unique graceful temperament, if you can add your ability and temperament to stirring and refining, you have more advantages than men to reach the peak of success.

No one will follow you every day to tell you what you are lacking, and the only way you can know is to learn to reflect. Introspection is a process of enlightenment and understanding. In this process, a person is like a person who sits cross-legged and recites scriptures, and he will understand it over time.

Others will take care of your face and will not point out your shortcomings. The husband loves you, and men don't have a kind of truth creed that doesn't care about women. Therefore, even your husband will not point out your shortcomings directly. People who are full of shortcomings must be full of troubles, and you have to admit that people like to be friends with excellent people. You will feel that the society is dark and the world is cold, and you will be radical and carry a heavy shell of character flaws for yourself.

You know, people who never know what they are wrong often feel psychologically distorted that the whole world is sorry for her. Women will be trapped in an endless vicious circle of their own making. It may seem a bit too much to say this, but when a woman is alive, you have to wear many hats and roles. There is no director to guide you how to play this role well. In fact, man's greatest enemy is himself, his best teacher is also himself, and his most reliable friend is also himself.

When men are together, they like to talk about current affairs, and women often like to talk about trivial matters such as the east family and the west family. Everyone has shortcomings, and there is nothing to talk about. Maybe one day, a woman will overhear someone debating that you are a woman with a long tongue? I am a woman, but seeing the reality makes me have to admit that many women do good things. If you can tolerate each other's mistakes with a magnanimity, then in the eyes of others, you have a unique charm.

Obviously, our Chen Yan girl has a kind of magnanimity and a big heart.

I believe that with the systematic training of our MBA program, her career will definitely reach new heights!