Chapter 817: Chinese New Year
"Secretary Liu, I know what you mean, but my children are all older, and it's too late to make up for it. Chen Tong said gloomily that not every pair of parents has the opportunity to make up for their mistakes, because children will not stay in place and give parents the opportunity to make amends.
As long as she doesn't go on a business trip, no matter how busy she is, an hour and a half after dinner will always be set aside for Weiwei, painting and graffiti with the child, origami paper-cutting and handicrafts, holding him to memorize the three-character scripture and Tang poems, and lying on the bed with him to tell bedtime stories......
After Weiwei falls asleep, she will continue to work, and sometimes she even has to rush back to the office for meetings, so even if she is often not by Weiwei's side, Weiwei still has a very deep relationship with her, and she is willing to talk to her about anything.
After seeing Liu Hao and Weiwei get along, she realized that her excuse for being busy with work and study in the past was so pale and powerless, as long as a mother has a heart, she can definitely still get the trust and dependence of her children, and the nature of blood makes children inherently defenseless against their parents.
But not everyone can do what Liu Haohao has a heart for, it's too difficult, and even have a good husband who always supports her unconditionally first.
She didn't have many opportunities to contact Zhuang Lijun, but it can be seen that the couple has an extremely deep relationship, although he doesn't go home often, but every time he comes back, he tries his best to take the child, she bumped into Zhuang Lijun several times put down the shelf, and took Weiwei to play crazy in the yard.
And her husband, who used to farm at home, now works in the factory, every day is muddy, except for going to work, that is, smoking, drinking and sleeping, everything in the family is left alone, let alone educating the children, all the trivial matters are taken care of by her capable mother-in-law, and there is no room for her to intervene, and now the children are not close to her, and there is nothing else to say when they see her except to reach out and ask for money.
Liu Haohao has heard before that the child is an important stage of cultivating parent-child relationship before the age of three, and the mother has an irreplaceable and important role in this stage, before the age of three, she is very attentive to him, and even overtime is working overtime while holding him, which gives him a great sense of security, so Weiwei is very attached to her, even if she is strict with him, he can be criticized in tears one second, and the next second he will smile and throw himself into her arms, because he is very sure that his mother really loves him.
And Chen Tong has missed the golden age of gaining the trust of her children, her children are deeply influenced by their grandmother and have become philistines and scoundrels, she needs to pay more effort to change them, Chen Tong thinks that she can't do it, so she chooses to escape.
Escaping this option is always the easiest option.
Liu Haohao just reminded Chen Tong not to leave regrets in her life, since she had already decided, she naturally wouldn't talk to her about this matter anymore, just nodded, "I'm also going to go home first, and I will pay you and your family an early year." ”
Chen Tong's face flushed, Liu Haohao was always so thoughtful and polite, and he was busy saying, "I also wish you and your family an early life, good health, and all the best." ”
Liu Hao returned home, Weiwei was sitting on his small chair flipping through the children's pictorial, and Aunt Qin was busy cleaning.
"Aunt Qin, I'm here to help. Liu Hao stretched out his hand and prepared to take the mop in Aunt Qin's hand.
Aunt Qin hurriedly dodged to the side, "No, no, you can take Weiwei out to play when you are free, I'll just come here." ”
Liu Haohao is not helping, it is simply adding to the chaos, it is not that she is not doing things well, but as long as she sees her holding a mop, she is sure that she will also shout for help, this little ancestor came to "help" just now, and as a result, the whole basin of water was overturned, wet from head to toe, making Aunt Qin in a hurry, and finally washed him and put on new clothes, the little ancestor had just stopped for a while, and saw that Liu Hao wanted to help, and began to move again.
Liu Hao smiled and took his son's little hand, "Let's go, little dangerous person, don't make trouble at home, let's go shopping on the street." ”
Today is the Chinese New Year's Eve, there are no people on the street at all, although the road is deserted, but laughter and laughter still overflow from the walls of thousands of homes.
Weiwei bouncing along the way, children of this age are the most curious, a stone on the road, a leaf on a tree can make him feel new and interesting, and he will not be bored at all.
Liu Hao looked at Weiwei distractedly, while seriously thinking about the planning and design of Changfu County, Chengguan has developed rapidly in recent years, especially the shops on both sides of the main road, and it will become more and more prosperous and even crowded in the next few years, and this blind development must be controlled.
She stopped at the gate of Changfu No. 1 Central Primary School, more and more students, whether it is a small or a middle school, the original campus scale is not suitable for development, the campus area must be expanded, and they must be moved to the periphery when planning, although it may be opposed by some people, but in the long run, these two schools can not be blocked in the city, otherwise the traffic alone will not be able to bear.
She looked at the cement road under her feet, this is the most magnificent road in the county, two-way four-lane, with the development speed of Changfu County, the luxury of the car will soon enter the homes of ordinary people, and now the magnificent four-lane road will soon be inapplicable, it must be expanded, and these shacks and storefronts on both sides of the road must be demolished, but it cannot be demolished too early......
She was immersed in her own thoughts, and Weiwei suddenly hugged her thigh, and reached out to show her with tears, "Mom, I'm bleeding." ”
Liu Hao was startled, and immediately squatted down and looked at his hand with some self-reproach, the wound was not big, and there was a bead of blood on his white and tender fingers, "How did you get it?"
"I wanted to pick a flower for you, but I got pricked. Weiwei pointed to a cluster of triangular plums on the side of the road and said aggrievedly.
This clump of triangular plum is probably wild, although no one takes care of it, but it still blooms presumptuously and brightly, and most areas of the southern province can almost be regarded as winterless, even if it is now Chinese New Year's Eve, the temperature is more than ten degrees, the grass and trees are still green, and there is no winter gloom at all.
"Mom told you you you can't pick flowers and leaves, right?" she asked, squeezing his hand, tenderly but patiently.
Weiwei flattened his mouth and nodded obediently, but his expression was still a little aggrieved, "I know that my mother likes flowers and wants to send flowers to you......"
"Mom likes to see flowers obediently on the branches, if you pick it, the flowers will hurt, Mom will be unhappy, and your hands will hurt, right?" she frowned as she looked at Weiwei's wound.