Although Yongle County is not far from Changfu County, Liu Haohao has not returned to his parents' home for several years, usually busy with work, in addition to being on duty in the county during the New Year, the other days of vacation is to fly to the capital in-law's house for the New Year, there is no time to go back to her parents' home, even the new house in the countryside has been built for a while, she did not go back to take a look.

"No need, after all, it's a married daughter, and it's not good to stay in her mother's house for too long. Liu shook his head.

There is a superstitious saying in the countryside of H City, if the married daughter often goes back to her parents' house, she will suck the good luck of her mother's family to her mother-in-law's house, although most people do not believe this statement very much because they feel sorry for their daughter, but Liu Changsheng believes it.

After getting married, she didn't have much time to go back to her parents' house, and only a few times a few times, although Liu Changsheng's attitude towards her didn't dare to scold her like Liu Tiantian, but he also guarded her like a thief, especially after Weiwei was born, he was afraid that Weiwei would suck Liu Xiangxiang's good luck away, and he didn't like this grandson, but fortunately, Liu Hao didn't have any sense of belonging to this mother's family, and it was enough to go back once a few years to show politeness and filial piety, and he didn't want to go there at all.

Of course, in her heart, she is still closer to Chen Shouyu's family, and every year during the Chinese New Year, even if the time is tight, she will go there for a day, for her, that is her maiden home.

Wang Dayu didn't know the inside story, and was very envious of Liu Changsheng, his daughter was about the same age as Liu Haohao, but she was just an ordinary worker, and she didn't usually go to work seriously, she revolved around her husband and children all day long, her mind was empty, and she didn't ask for money or things when she went back to her parents' house, and there was a difference of 108,000 miles from Liu Haohao.

If he has a daughter who is the same as Liu Haohao, he should have more face, I am afraid that he will wake up with a smile in his dreams, "You are so good now, your father and aunt must be proud of you, I wish you lived at home every day." ”

Liu Hao smiled slightly, noncommittal.

Although there was no official holiday during the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, at this time everyone was still required to arrive at their posts on time, which was obviously not very humane, and with the tacit approval of the leaders, the people in the organs had basically gone home to prepare for the New Year, leaving only a few people who volunteered to stick to their posts, and the originally lively organs suddenly became empty and very quiet.

Liu Hao had to go to the army for the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner this year, so there were no New Year goods prepared at home, and she didn't have any housework to do, so she simply stayed in the office for a while longer, and checked the situation in the office building inside and out.

"It's nothing today, you don't have to accompany me for the New Year, go home first, I'll go back in a while." Liu Hao said to Chen Tong, who was following behind him step by step.

"I don't have anything to do when I go home, I might as well stay here a little longer. Chen Tong smiled bitterly, she has been with Liu Haohao for four or five years, and the two have gradually become acquainted, and Liu Haohao is also very clear about many situations in her family, including that she and her husband no longer have any feelings, and live a married life in name only, she doesn't want to go home at all, and she can't wait to stay in the unit every day for three hundred and sixty-five days.

Chen Tong's husband is a local farmer, he is very strong, when Chen Tong was in the queue here, he has been taking good care of her, at that time she was still young, half out of gratitude, half greedy for someone to take care of her, and married without hesitation as soon as her brain was hot.

After getting married, I found that the cultural level of the two is too different, there is no common language, and the most important thing is that the personalities and life goals of the two are completely different, Chen Tong is a very motivated person, whether it is when he is in the queue, or after work, he has not given up his studies and progress, and has finished his undergraduate studies in the night college, but her husband and in-laws do not understand her, and feel that as a woman, she is uneasy to cook at home and take care of her children, work during the day and study at night, and she is not at home all day, she is not a good woman.

Although she didn't do anything to her, she scolded and was picky endlessly, Chen Tong's personality is also very strong, she was bored, she simply lived in the dormitory for a long time and didn't go home, her mother-in-law's family are ordinary farmers, and they are still a little afraid of the county government, so they didn't dare to chase after her and shout, and the days went on in such a mess, and she seemed to be safe and sound on the surface, but when it came to the New Year every year, she couldn't escape, and she had to go home, so she was also very depressed.

"Go home and accompany the child, after all, it is the child you worked hard to give birth to, so don't worry about growing up in that environment and affecting the child's future?" Liu Hao persuaded that after becoming a mother, it was probably empathy, she was not only distressed, but also couldn't see other children suffering.

"Anyway, they don't want me as a mother," Chen Tong said with a wry smile, "My mother-in-law instills bad things about me in them every day, and every time I go back, they either avoid me, or scold me like an adult, and even do something to ...... me."

She also used to love and feel guilty about her children, but her disappointments again and again made her love for her children gradually cold.

She is not a person like Liu Haohao, who is full of maternal love, she can't selflessly give her maternal love, and when the child doesn't respond to her, she also responds with indifference.

"The children are born to be helped by your mother-in-law, you usually don't go home, and the children's feelings are estranged, they are naturally provoked all of a sudden, although the parents and children have a blood relationship to maintain, but the day after tomorrow did not pay, the feelings will be alienated and cold. I've heard someone say before that whoever this child sleeps with at night is anyone's child, so our family has been sleeping with me since I was born, except when I was on a business trip. The time spent with the child is not too practical, as long as you insist on effective companionship, the relationship with the child will not be broken. ”

Liu Haohao is not showing off her successful mother-son relationship, but is really worried about Chen Tong, she believes that Chen Tong is not emotionless for the child, but she doesn't know how to solve the current problem, so she simply chose to escape, but escaping is definitely not the solution to the problem, but it will make the situation worse and worse.

Parents are the only profession that can be employed without training, and there are not too many child psychology in this era? In the books of education, not too many people pay attention to the psychological problems of children in the growth of education, everyone is groping for the way of fatherhood and motherhood, there are not a few parents like Chen Tong, just like Liu Haohao's college classmate Shen Qinghua finally divorced her husband ruthlessly, left the child to her husband, and flew abroad to pursue her studies and career without hesitation.

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