Su Hongyi looked at Yang Ping with heartfelt admiration and gratitude on his face, "It was really not easy at that time, your grandmother was not in good health, she was taking the child with her, writing books and teaching, and she had to avoid the war, she was really an amazing woman." In our family, not a woman can hold up half the sky, she can hold up most of the sky in our family, if it weren't for her, the sky in our family would have collapsed long ago. A good woman is too important to a family, and there is a home when she is there. ”

Su Hongyi has always respected and loved Yang Ping for so many years, and he praised him when he took the opportunity, although Yang Ping was used to his childish nature, he still felt a little embarrassed to be praised by him in front of Liu Haohao.

Yang Ping glanced at Su Hongyi with disgust, "Those days were really hard, although the children have grown up safely now, but every time I think about it, I still feel difficult, it may be the most difficult time in my life." But I think it's worth it, this person is worth my dedication to him. ”

Liu Hao laughed dryly, and was inadvertently stuffed with two handfuls of dog food by the two old men, and she was stopped.

"I don't say this to ask you to sacrifice and sacrifice for the army, although we are his grandfather's, but we are not so selfish, I just want you to follow your heart, and your heart will naturally make the choice you think is worth it for you. ”

"My heart?" Liu Haohao's face was dyed with a little confusion and panic, her heart seemed to be more and more out of the control of reason, originally she rejected this marriage contract from beginning to end, and then gradually accepted to be friends with Zhuang Lijun, did not deny this marriage in front of people, and then moved her heart to him, so she didn't know what kind of choice her heart would make for her.

"Yes, the most important thing in marriage is not other objective conditions, but the feelings of two people, as long as they respect and love each other, all the efforts and sacrifices are worth it, because you will be willing to pay, and he will understand and appreciate every bit of your giving, there is nothing more important than the understanding of the lover. Yang Ping said with emotion.

Yang Ping is talking about himself and Su Hongyi, but Liu Hao thinks of his parents in his previous life, she feels that Li Xin's efforts are too painful and not worth it, but Li Xin has never felt like this, for so many years, her eyes looking at Liu Chi are still full of admiration and affection, and Liu Chi, who is cold and hard outside, returns home, and looks at her with such gentle and apologetic eyes.

It turns out that giving and sacrificing can also be joyful?

"Why do some people always complain in their marriage? That's because her emotional needs have never been met, we are a family, and I'm not afraid of any family ugliness, just talk about your future in-laws," Yang Ping actually sneered when he mentioned his daughter and son-in-law, "They are typical marriages without emotional foundation, when the age is reached, they feel that the conditions of both parties are still suitable, and they are not willing to have any in-depth understanding of each other, so they make a hasty decision on a lifelong event." At that time, we were also at fault, we didn't care enough about Su Yun, she and we were already in a very stiff fight, in order to escape from our family, she made a desperate decision, she was full of thought that the small family she had formed could go at her pace, and she could get the love that Nan Sheng did not get from us, completely ignoring Nan Sheng's character and the difficulties she would encounter in the future, let alone whether their feelings could withstand such a test. ”

Liu Hao Hao was a little surprised, he didn't expect Yang Ping to bring out these old things, no matter what, Zhuang Nansheng and Su Suyun are her elders, and she is a junior who listens to the gossip of her elders, I'm afraid it's not good.

Yang Ping didn't feel anything, and still said to himself, "Their union is not because of feelings, but because one person needs a wife and a person needs a husband, so they hit it off, and after marriage, Nan Sheng went to the army and continued to be busy with his career, except for paying his salary on time every month, he never cared about Su Yun." But as a father-in-law and mother-in-law, can we blame Nan Sheng? Of course not, he is an upright and good man, with a decent style, never two hearts, but he is a little more ambitious, and he doesn't understand the amorous feelings, he sheds blood and sweat for the country, how can we blame him? But Su Yun didn't think so, she ran away from our house and hurriedly married Nan Sheng, just to get emotional comfort from him, but unfortunately this point was something that Nan Sheng had not been able to give her for so many years, so she began to resent. The two of them have completely different temperaments and personalities, they don't have any common language at all, and neither of them can understand each other. Su Yun was annoyed by the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, and complained that Nan Sheng was indifferent to her and the child, but Nan Sheng didn't understand, he only felt that she was unreasonable, as a military wife, didn't she come over like this? Why can others do it, why can't Su Yun understand? Su Yun, who couldn't get understanding, became even more irritable, so a vicious circle was formed......

Although Yang Ping is not usually enthusiastic about people, she is very transparent in her view of things and people, and she sees her daughter's marriage very clearly, but the clearer she is, the more helpless she feels, Su Suyun and Zhuang Nansheng are not bad people, but they are not suitable.

Seeing that her daughter's marriage was in a mess, as a mother, she felt very uncomfortable, she talked to Su Suyun, let her understand Zhuang Nansheng's difficulties, and also talked to Zhuang Nansheng, so that he could understand Su Suyun's efforts, but unfortunately it had little effect, especially Su Suyun, and said a lot of ugly things, accusing her of partiality and injustice.

So she simply cooled her heart and waited for her daughter to fade away, but the gap between her daughter and them became bigger and bigger, her daughter was the meat that fell from her body after all, it was impossible to say that she didn't have heartache, it was because of heartache that she didn't want Liu Hao to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Liu Haohao never thought that Yang Ping, a scholar who is dedicated to academic studies, would have such a thorough understanding of marriage and family, let alone that she would teach it all to herself without reservation, I'm afraid she hasn't talked to Su Suyun about these words yet.

"I'm telling you this, or the same sentence just now, follow your own heart and don't rush to make any decisions. The road of life is not smooth sailing after all, no matter what path you choose, you must pay a price, even if you do not choose to establish an army, choose other men, you must sacrifice something for him. Even if you never marry for life, you may pay the price for your choices. No one's life is bitter to the end, and no one's life is only honey and cream. ”