"Our college students are not young, so they especially cherish the opportunity to study, because it is not easy, you have not seen my classmates and roommates, twenty or thirty-year-old people have a family, their learning momentum is strong, get up before dawn to read, never put down the book when the lights are out, every day in such a learning atmosphere, it is difficult to study well. Liu Hao sighed with emotion, learning is also an atmosphere, the people around him are desperately learning and progressing, and they will be pushed forward involuntarily, and they feel uneasy if they want to be lazy.

"Yes, the hard-won things, the more cherished they are, and it's not easy for you young people," Yang Ping sighed, "The library of our Beijing University is already big, but it's such a big library, you have to line up to read and study every day, and it's full every day, which shows that the children's enthusiasm for learning is high, and it's not easy." ”

"Having said that, you still have to pay attention to the combination of work and rest, young people still feel that there should be the vitality of young people, and now they are so old-fashioned and eager to learn, but there will be no stamina in the future," Su Hongyi said with a smile, " Don't think I'm an old man, I'm also the experience of people who have come over, every age has something to do at every age, young people should be lively, wait for thirty and stand, and then slowly settle down, you are in your twenties and doing things in your thirties and forties and fifties, and even what we are doing at our age, so what's the point of your twenties......"

"Go, go, stop talking nonsense, when have you been steady? You have always been this virtuous from young to old," Yang Ping complained unceremoniously, "It's a good thing to learn more while you're young, and young people should be encouraged to make progress, so don't spoil your fun here." ”

"I don't want her to stay in the classroom all day, the school is true, so many young people don't organize some book activities," Su Hongyi nagged, and suddenly the conversation changed, "It doesn't matter if the school doesn't organize activities, you can go out with Lijun more when you have time to cultivate and cultivate feelings." ”

Liu Hao knew that Su Hongyi had good intentions, but as soon as he mentioned Zhuang Lijun, she blushed, and even she didn't know what she was blushing about.

"Do you think it's you who has nothing to do with the army, wandering around the school all day long? Now that the military training is over, he is in the army, the management is strict, and he is a cadre who wants to set an example, how can he come out casually? You see that Nansheng has not been at home for so many years. In Yang Ping's eyes, Su Hongyi is an old child who doesn't know the world.

"It's not easy to be a military wife," Su Hongyi sighed, "When Su Yun wanted to marry Nan Sheng, I didn't agree, it is great for a soldier to dedicate himself to the country, but it is too hard to be a military wife, a man is not at home all day long, everything has to be carried by a woman, it is too pitiful, as a father, I am reluctant to let my daughter suffer like this." ”

Although Su Hongyi is often angry with Su Suyun, the father and daughter are connected, and he still loves this daughter very much in his heart.

Yang Ping kicked Su Hongyi, this person is really unreliable, Liu Haohao is Zhuang Lijun's fiancée, Zhuang Lijun is their eldest grandson, he is good, here to persuade Liu Haohao not to marry Zhuang Lijun, to let Zhuang Lijun know, you have to turn your face with them, especially the two of them are in love now, what kind of blockage does he, a bad old man, add to the little girl.

Liu Haohao's face also showed a little confusion, she really admired Zhuang Lijun very much, but she was not ready to enter into marriage, let alone be psychologically prepared to be a good military wife who sacrificed and sacrificed.

Love and marriage are different, if love is calligraphy, painting, piano, chess, poetry and hops, marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, she is not sure that she has the ability to manage a marriage well, and she is most afraid that all the good things now will end up becoming a chicken feather.

She saw with her own eyes the marriage dilemma of her parents, although the two of them relied on their tenacity to get through their lives, but the process was too difficult.

So she also understands that after marrying Zhuang Lijun, she faced the most difficult and practical problem, which should appear after the birth of the child, when she was a child, her mother was unwilling to put down her busy work, and handed her over to her grandparents to take care of for several years.

She didn't expect Liu Changsheng and Cheng Zhaodi to help, they firmly believed that the water spilled by the married daughter could only reach out to her daughter to ask for it, and it was impossible to give her daughter a hand.

And Su Suyun's mother-in-law is obviously very disgusted with her, everything is aimed at her, if it is another girl marrying Zhuang Lijun, she may be willing to help, if she and Zhuang Lijun get married and have children, Su Suyun is afraid to avoid it, it would be good not to block her, and she would not help anyway.

So I can only rely on myself, let a person who is not good at housework and doesn't like housework, let go of her ideals and ambitions, bid farewell to her hobbies, and revolve around firewood, rice, oil, salt and children's diapers and milk powder every day, that kind of life feels terrible just thinking about it.

Every time she thought of these practical problems, her impulse towards Zhuang Lijun was like being poured with cold water, and she involuntarily faded a little.

But there is no one to discuss these things, after all, the social atmosphere is conservative, and she is a big girl who has not yet married, but she is worried that there will be no one to bring the child after marriage, which is really laughed out of people's big teeth.

Her loss fell into Yang Ping's eyes, and she glared at Su Hongyi fiercely, if it weren't for his nonsense, how could Liu Haohao and Zhuang Lijun be so sad when they were as sweet as glue.

"Okay, in fact, the military sister-in-law is not as terrible as you think, Su Yun is our daughter, and the living conditions since she was a child are not bad, she basically can't do any housework, but after getting married, she gave birth to three children, and she raised the children with basically no help. And myself, when I was a child, my living conditions were much better than yours, and after marrying your grandfather, there were several servants at home who took care of our diet and daily life, and if no one helped, I couldn't even take care of myself, where would I take care of the children. Later, in the midst of the war, he fled from place to place, and the conditions gradually deteriorated, so he had to learn to take care of his own children, and as a result, he brought up the children like this. Yang Ping was delicate, and immediately guessed Liu Haohao's concerns, and gently persuaded him.