If you are really sober, the clumsy performance of a liar can sometimes be broken at a glance. No matter how cunning a liar is, because of his weak heart, he will sometimes panic when he asks, and reveal his stuff when he checks it.

"There are four major passes to prevent marriage fraud, if you hold these four gates, it is equivalent to holding the city gate and the heart gate, and it will be difficult for the liar to get into your body, and the ghost of the liar - the so-called love, will not be able to confuse your soul.

"What are the four major passes?" Guo Fengping became humble and studious, "You, let's put it simply." ”

Li Jianguo said: "The inspection of physical evidence is the most important thing. How can we trust a stranger we meet for the first time? Of course, we should not only look at his self-introduction, but also look at his reliable physical evidence. For example, ID cards, academic certificates, etc. You may be here, but what if a scammer uses fake documents to scam you?

"It doesn't matter, because there's a necessary consultation to get to the point. If you feel good after meeting a stranger and want to develop further, then you have to investigate the other person, that is, to go to the home or work unit that he calls an unannounced visit or overt inspection. This may seem cumbersome, but it is essential. Because you are going to fall in love, get married, start a family, not a game, a joke, how can you give your body, mind and money to someone you don't understand?

"I believe that as long as we really grasp this level, most of the scammers will be exposed and the lies will be self-defeating. Those liars will not run away and disappear on their own, you will tear through the mask and pierce the diorama. ”

Professor Shen said, "You're right. But I also inspected it at the beginning, why didn't I pass the test?"

Based on the story she told in the morning, Li Jian diagnosed: "That's because you were infatuated by him first, and you investigated later, and didn't really play a role in investigation." But even so,

"There is still a third level: that is, the love verification level. Some victims may say that some scammers are particularly cunning and vicious, and in order to deceive, they have made fake documents, and sometimes even ask people to help make them look like the real thing, making it difficult for you to identify for a while. This is necessary to identify the scammer and prevent being deceived by verifying whether the other party's love is true or false.

"True love is a natural outpouring of beautiful feelings from the heart, and the biggest characteristics of emotional liars are: contrived expressions, exaggerated movements, exaggerated words, insincere words, demented expressions, overly enthusiastic, and sometimes very impatient, only caring about themselves, not caring about each other.

"They often like to brag, love words, swear, and be overly enthusiastic. A real money scammer generally doesn't just lie to you, so he will often behave uneasy, act mysteriously, and sometimes appear thoughtful, restless, contradictory in his words, unable to justify himself, and often hide secrets in his phone and computer. As long as you are a caring person, pay attention to his eyes and expressions, and carefully observe his demeanor and behavior when you are with him, it is not difficult to find these abnormal performances of him. ”

Professor Shen listened with a look of regret: "Alas, Gui Xinhua really has these characteristics, but at that time, how could I ...... I was really fascinated by him. ”

Li Jianguo said: "The last hurdle is the money pass. In the face of scammers who are very well hidden, it may be difficult to avoid some victims being deceived. But many scammers approach your real purpose, not just to scam sex, they want to scam money. Some scammers cheat just to cheat money, so at a certain point, they can't help but expose it and start making up all kinds of reasons to ask you for money to borrow.

"At this time, you should be alert. Because whether it is a man or a woman, if they really have a good impression of each other, or have love, they will avoid the sensitive topic of money, and will try to show their best side to each other, even if they are really difficult, they will not say it in front of their lover, let alone ask their lover to ask for money to borrow.

"Really, under normal circumstances, if a person in love asks the other party for money to borrow, it proves that he has no true love. At this time, the party who has already moved his feelings must wake up, stop in time, and control the money to avoid being cheated of money. ”

Hearing this, Professor Shen took a deep breath and said sincerely: "The harvest of this trip is really not small. Li Jianguo, I gave us a vivid and profound lesson on anti-deception. Guo Fengping and I, thank you. ”

Li Jianguo cared about Guo Fengping's attitude very much, and turned his face to look at her.

Guo Fengping pretended to be indifferent, not squinting, but in fact, his heart was very uneasy. She admitted that Li Jianguo spoke very well, grasped the essence of the problem, and also touched the weakness of women.

He answered all the questions she had been thinking about but couldn't figure out for a while. Through this lesson just now, she felt that he not only has connotation and thoughts, but also is also very smart and persistent, kind-hearted, and responsible, and is a good man who is completely different from Gui Xinhua.

She slowly looked at him, and the lake in her heart, which was always calm, couldn't help but ripple. The body that was close to him suddenly felt like an electric current was connected, and for the first time there was a warm tremble.

After calming down, everyone was covered with drowsiness, and slowly closed their eyes and rested.

But the train was still jolting forward. "Wow-whoa-" whistled as it passed by the speeding train on the opposite side. It makes you feel like you're moving along with a speeding train.

As soon as the sky was hazy, the train arrived at Xuzhou Station. After they leave the station, they first go to the long-distance bus station to buy tickets. Buy your ticket and go to breakfast. Stepping on the long-distance bus bound for Gui Xinhua's county, as soon as they sat down, they leaned back in their chairs and dozed off.

When she woke up, Guo Fengping opened her eyes and looked out the window, and what appeared in front of her was an endless golden field. This is the autumn harvest season, and the land of northern Jiangsu is a scene of a bumper harvest.

Under the warm morning sun, the neat fields are like oil paintings, full of poetic and picturesque feelings. It makes people look at it, feel pleasing to the eye, and invigorate their spirits.

Northern Jiangsu has developed so fast in recent years. Looking at this charming pastoral scenery, Guo Fengping felt indescribable emotion in his heart. She came with her father once when she was a child, when the countryside in northern Jiangsu was still relatively backward, with narrow roads and small houses, and in some places there were still patches of adobe houses. Now you see, the cement roads are straight and flat, and the common people live in spacious and bright big tiled houses, and some families have even built small houses.

When he arrived at the county seat, Professor Shen took out the note with the address of Gui Xinhua's hometown and went to an intersection to call a taxi.

(End of chapter)