However, when she went to great lengths to find the home of one of the women, knocked on her door, and told the truth, the woman did not believe it, but scolded her unreasonably, and even pushed her out of the door.

She didn't give up, and went to find another woman who had been fooled. But the woman didn't admit that she had been fooled. She went to find the third deceived woman, and after the woman was convinced by her facts, she went with her to the first deceived woman. But when they got there, no matter how they knocked on the door, the deceived woman still refused to open the door for them. ”

Guo Fengping gritted his teeth with hatred and said, "These hateful liars." ”

Professor Shen sighed and said, "We ourselves are really confused. ”

Li Jianguo said with some urgency: "As the saying goes, if the fence is tight, wild dogs can't get in. The reason why scammers have succeeded again and again is because we have loopholes in our thinking and flaws in our behavior. Swindlers cheat sex, not rape, and swindlers cheat money, not robbery. On the contrary, in many cases, it is our victims who believe the lies of the scammers themselves, and consciously give their money to the scammers voluntarily or in a daze.

"If we always keep a clear head, observe more when encountering things, and understand strangers better, we will not be easily fooled. Really, sometimes as long as we pay a little attention, or ask casually, or even ask more questions, we will find the strangeness of the scammer and the loophole of the scam, and we can nip a scam in the bud. ”

Guo Fengping looked at him stunned and said, "You said so soberly, then why did you fall for it?"

"I also bought these experiences with money. Li Jianguo said, "Once I was deceived, I had to write a diary and summarize the lessons learned." But sometimes, it is true that the authorities are fascinated and the bystanders are clear. ”

Professor Shen asked the students as if he were asking them in class, "So what do you think can be done to effectively prevent fraud?"

Li Jianguo smiled, he said that he wanted to tell them about this content, so that Guo Fengping could remember it and not be fooled again.

"I've learned about that," he said. From a woman's point of view, I think there are several of them, first of all, we must have a good mentality and material outlook. Many female victims have a common trait, that is, a materialistic outlook and vanity that dislikes the poor and loves the rich. This kind of mentality and thinking is often exploited by scammers, and then unknowingly falls into one scam after another.

"In real life, there are many women, especially some beauties, who yearn for and love the so-called successful people. Once they find the target, they can take the initiative to approach the target regardless of the reserve that a lady should have, or they can not want the chastity that a girl should have, or send ambiguous signals to the target, launch a love offensive, and even compete for them by any means necessary, and can't wait to commit to them. ”

Guo Fengping's face turned red.

Professor Shen also lowered his eyelids in embarrassment.

Li Jianguo still said without hesitation: "Sadly, there are not so many successful people in our lives, but more middle- and lower-class salaried people with mediocre incomes, like me." In order to achieve the goal of cheating sex and money, some of them have to cater to the vanity and materialism of women and dress themselves up as successful people.

"With such bragging and dressing up, they often don't need to spend any cost and effort, and they can easily succeed. This, in turn, fuels their audacity to brag and lie and their arrogance to cheat money and sex. ”

Guo Fengping slowly listened more and more seriously like a student who had made a mistake, listening to a teacher's teachings.

Li Jianguo was very happy to see her like this, and said more energetically: "There must also be a healthy view of marriage and love and sex." To be honest, I'm amazed at how easy it is to deceive some ladies and girls. Maybe my ideas are a little too traditional, and I always think that eroticism and money are two completely different things, money is something outside the body, and eroticism is the thing inside the body and the body itself. Money is easy to cheat, and eroticism shouldn't be easily cheated. However, in the marriage sex scam, many victims often give sex to the scammer before paying money, and some even pay sex before friendship.

That is, two strange men and women can go to bed as soon as they meet, and they can live together after dating a few times. I really don't understand why they are so casual about marriage, eroticism, and sex? Is this emancipation of the mind or sexual openness? Is this a conceptual innovation or a regression to primitive people?

"In my concept, love is sacred, marriage is a major event in a person's life, and the life of men and women is mysterious and scruples. Both men and women should be cautious and responsible for their lives, their families and their children.

"And once a woman is in love and sexual, she is the most likely to be cheated of money. You know, sex is the best weapon to conquer a woman. Many scammers know this secret, so they start by cheating on sex, and let the object of the photo fall into the mire of eroticism before they start to cheat money.

And if our sexual consciousness is not so open, our view of marriage and love is not so casual, we don't easily sleep with men other than our husbands, and we don't live casually with people we don't love, we can't be emotional quickly, and it's impossible to hand over our money to scammers. Therefore, an overly open view of sex and a sloppy view of marriage and love are the best boosters for marriage scammers to continue to produce, and it is also the best catalyst for scammers to succeed easily.

"If we talk about marriage on the basis of developing true love, the liar will not be able to succeed easily, and may be afraid of difficulties and annoyance, and will retreat and run away...... In this way, one scam after another will be eliminated on its own. ”

Professor Shen listened intently as if he were listening to a graduate student's defense.

Li Jianguo has written so many diaries and is familiar with these contents, so he said: "In addition, in order to effectively prevent fraud, we must also keep a clear mind and master certain skills." It is said that women in love will become stupid, but in fact, men are the same. Once you fall in love with someone, everyone will become unusually generous and generous, hot-headed but confused, bright-eyed but short-sighted, sweet but lost in heart. These characteristics may be understandable, and it is difficult to change, because love is human nature, it is the way it is, how can you change it?

"But before love, we can always keep a clear head, right? We should always understand and be familiar with a strange opposite sex, right? Marriage color fraud prevention is the most effective before love arises. Once love is generated, it increases the difficulty of preventing fraud. But it's not impossible, the key is whether your mind is really clear or not.

(End of chapter)