For most women, marrying is the best destination in life, and no matter how successful their career is, what if they don't marry, they will still be considered a defeated dog by this society.

Not everyone is as open as she is, so the choice of whether to marry is in the hands of the two younger sisters, and she doesn't want to use her own outlook on life to influence them.

"I want to study!" Liu Xuexue's eyes were full of tears, she knew very well that if she got married early, even if she was admitted to high school, she would not have a chance to study.

Liu Hao breathed a sigh of relief, as long as he didn't marry for the rest of his life, "Don't worry, I won't let you marry so early, my sister wants to pick her mother-in-law's family well, and she wants to marry our family to study so hastily......?"

Liu Xuexue seemed to be very frightened, even if she said this, it didn't make her settle down, "Back then, Ah Gong was also carefully selected for the eldest aunt, but it turned out that Gao Yimiao was not chosen, and the big flowers and small flowers were taken away like this, they haven't even seen each other's faces, I don't want to marry......"

In her time, fear of marriage was not uncommon, but in this era, fear of marriage was a very deviant thing, and even the most out-of-the-box Liu Tiantian looked at Liu Xue with an incredible face, which was not like the most honest and serious second sister in the whole family.

Liu looked at her honest and taciturn sister, and felt as if she suddenly didn't know her, or she had never really understood her, she should have said some words of comfort to dispel her fear of marriage, but the words came to her mouth and swallowed again.

"I know," she patted Liu Xuexue on the shoulder, "Don't worry, unless you are willing, I won't let you be forced to marry casually, even if it's a father and a mother, do you believe the eldest sister?"

Liu Xuexue relaxed at this time, and there were faint tears in his eyes, "I believe it." ”

"But you have to remember one thing, it was Liu Jinfeng who picked Gao Yimiao by herself, and she was also willing to connive at him to gain an inch, and it has nothing to do with Ah Gong, Liu Jinfeng She has the courage to fall in love with someone, but she didn't have the courage to leave him, so she made herself so embarrassed. At that time, Ah Gong wanted to teach Gao Yimiao a lesson and let Liu Jinfeng take the child back to her parents' house, but she resolutely disagreed, this was her own choice, and naturally she should bear the consequences, no one, let alone marry. ”

Liu Xuemu listened blankly, but Liu Tiantian listened with relish, and nodded incessantly, Liu Xiangxiang, a little fart child, was the most impatient to listen to this kind of mother-in-law and mother-in-law topic, and went to the other side of the stone to poke the ant nest.

"That is, if Liu Jinfeng had divorced Gao Yimiao a long time ago, Gao Yimiao's virtue would only be worthy of Widow Zhao's broken shoes. Liu Tiantian said with a big grin.

Liu Hao glared at her, Liu Tiantian knew that he had accidentally said dirty words and violated her taboo, so he quickly covered his mouth and looked at her with a flattering smile.

"Society's requirements for girls are far harsher than for boys, so to be a girl, you must first have self-esteem, self-respect and self-love, every day, you are full of swear words like Liu Jinfeng, don't think it's a glorious thing, this is just a very self-respecting performance, you don't respect others at the same time, you don't respect yourself. Liu said seriously, "Secondly, we have to be responsible for every choice and decision we make, the road is our own, other people's words can only be used as a reference, can not be blindly followed, even if it is my words, it can only be used as a reference for your life orientation, if you listen to me in everything, listen to me arrange reading, listen to me arrange work, listen to me arrange marriage, then what is the difference between you and the marionette in my hand?" Everyone has their own life to live, only we need to take responsibility for our own decisions, whether good or bad, by ourselves, don't rely on others to make decisions, and don't complain about our own decisions. ”

"Finally, and most importantly, is courage, which is what we usually call daring to love and hate, and I have to learn from this every day. Liu Haohao has never felt that she is a fearless person, in fact, she has always been clear that she has emotional obstacles.

Her cautious attitude towards feelings stems from the fact that she does not have enough security in her heart, putting herself in her shoes, if she is Liu Jinfeng, of course she will stop the loss in time and leave Gao Yimiao, but she must also feel that she has been hurt, and she will be more cautious and afraid of feelings from then on.

In fact, she has not been emotionally hurt, but she still prefers to invest her emotions in herself and her family, and cannot manage a relationship with a stranger, because she is still too timid, rather than facing possible harm in the future, it is better to keep a distance from the beginning, so that no one has a chance to hurt her.

This emotional state is actually not very healthy, but she is used to being happy alone, and she can be happy alone if she is single, and there happens to be no suitable person appearing, which also offsets the negative impact of this state on her.

And Liu Tiantian's character is just the opposite, she knows how to express her true feelings, she will fall in love with someone vigorously, and she will leave someone without hesitation, her character is destined that she will not fall into emotional trauma, feelings will bring her happiness, but the harm to her is much smaller, so on this issue, she is not worried at all.

Even if she is only in her early tens, Liu Haohao can already foresee that her future feelings must be vigorous but incomprehensible to outsiders.

Liu Tiantian was inexplicably praised by the eldest sister, and pointed at himself with a surprised face, "I, eldest sister, you learn from me? ”

"Of course that's right, criticize you because you don't do well enough in some places, but you also have advantages that we need to learn, don't you even have this bit of self-confidence?" Liu pinched her little face, "Although sometimes you are a little too spicy, but I like your energy, it would be better to correct your swearing." ”

Liu Tiantian smirked, she always thought that the eldest sister liked Liu Xue's hard-working people, but she didn't expect her to say that she liked herself, and she was a little surprised for a while, "I really don't know what you should learn from me......"

"Learn what you say, and bravely fight for what you want, you want to be the lead singer, so you will be jealous of Liu Juhua, complaining that I am partial, you don't want your relatives to take away our family's things, and you can ignore the feelings of Daddy and Grandma, and speak loudly, this kind of courage is rare. ”