"You know that you have shortcomings, it doesn't matter, just find a way to improve, don't put on such a self-defeating attitude, you are not a child, you have been admitted to college, and you have become an adult, the adult world is very cruel, but it is also full of opportunities, you have to remember that no one will coax you in the future, including me, who is the eldest sister, I will no longer treat you as a distressed little sister as in the past, patiently enlighten you, but really treat you as an adult, you and me, you have to pay your own efforts to support this family, so you must work hard。 Liu Haohao has always been very gentle with Liu Xuexue in the past, especially during the period when Liu Xuexue was preparing for the college entrance examination, not only in her study and life, but also has been paying careful attention to her emotional and ideological changes, because of this, Liu Xuexue was finally able to be successfully admitted to the university, she was grateful to Liu Haohao, and also relied on her from the bottom of her heart.

Liu Xuexue looked ashamed, in the past, she always thought that she was working hard for this family, she never thought that only by making herself excellent could she fundamentally support this family.

And the reason why Liu Haohao paid so much for the three of them was not that she wanted to raise them to be wastes that would only rely on herself, she didn't want them to be so good and noble in the future, she just hoped that they could be self-reliant, self-reliant, self-respecting and self-loving.

"I brought you to the capital to play and see the world, not to hope that you will be ashamed of yourself and feel inferior from now on, but I hope that after you go back, you will imprint the prosperity here in your heart, and in the future, you will either rely on your own efforts to come to the capital to take root and gain a foothold, or find a way to build our southern province into such a prosperous place, so that you can also live in a building with glass windows, do you have this confidence?"

"Yes......" The three children looked at each other for a few seconds before replying.

"Are you trying to fool me?"

"Have faith. They sat up slightly straight, their voices a little louder, but they weren't confident in their sound.

She shook her head, "I can hear that you are really unconfident, maybe you don't realize it yourself, we are actually very used to judging others through body language, and we will also be judged by others because of our body language." ”

She stretched out her hand to straighten Liu Xuexue's back, raised Liu Shang's head, and stopped Liu Tiantian's erratic eyes, "Do you think that many people are willing to talk and chat with me, then have you noticed that I have a characteristic when I speak, that is, my posture is very relaxed and natural, with a smile on my face, and I look at the person who talks to me with sincere eyes, so that people will feel that I am confident, energetic, and sincere, and they feel comfortable, and they will be willing to pay attention to me and continue to communicate with me." And what about you, when you answered my question just now, your head was downcast, and your voice was weak, how can I trust you?"

"In the past few days, when you meet outsiders talking to you, you stiffen and stand motionless, your eyes only looking at the ground, or floating around, as if you are immersed in your own world, and people are obviously greeting you with kindness, but you don't get the response you want, so how can the conversation continue? Of course, they will feel disappointed, you don't feel your wrong attitude, you are very sensitive to their disappointment, they feel that people look down on you, they don't think about how to improve themselves, they just want to go home and escape from reality. Liu Haohao said very sharply, the weather was already hot, and several children were sweating all over her body by her.

Liu was really distressed when he loved them, and in the past few days, he took them to run all over the famous scenic spots in the capital, patiently and carefully explained to them, and also took them to eat a lot of good things that they couldn't eat in their hometown, and bought them their favorite small toys, beautiful new clothes and books they liked, and the time, energy and money they paid, the three children all remembered it, so when Liu Hao harshly criticized them, they didn't feel resentful, but listened to them seriously.

"Sister, I was wrong, I will correct it. Liu straightened his back upwards and said like a little adult.

"Eldest sister, I understand, I will go to Aunt Su's house and get along with my little aunt and uncle. ”

Liu Hao looked at them helplessly, "I didn't say these words to let you go wronged, you can't live in Aunt Su's house and it doesn't have any effect on me, if you really don't want to go, then it's better not to go." I just hope that you don't run away when you encounter problems, and when you encounter people and things that make you feel uncomfortable, don't remember to blame external factors first, and first reflect on whether your words and deeds are appropriate or not. If you live at Aunt Su's house, I will go and refuse Aunt Su first......"

"Don't, eldest sister, it's not aggrieved at all to live in Aunt Su's house, really. "Liu Tiantian pulled Liu Haohao, she is the only one who is looking forward to living with Su Suyun, living in such a big small building, and she can eat fragrant meals in the army every day, what is there to be aggrieved about?

Liu Hao felt a little headache, compared to Liu Xue and Liu Shang's cringe, it seemed that Liu Tiantian's vanity problem was more serious.

Everyone's nature is different, for Liu Tiantian's character, I'm afraid I can't use the method of treating Liu Xue and Liu Xiangxiang, in fact, since she first arrived in this era, she found Liu Tiantian's problem, and she has been persuading her for this problem over the years, originally thought that this problem was not so serious, but she didn't expect a trip to the capital to dazzle her eyes, and she couldn't think of any good way to correct her for a while.

Zhuang Xiaowen and Zhuang Xiaoting were full of hostility towards Su Suyun and fought against her at home, but they were a little afraid of Liu Haohao, a young "junior".

Children are sensitive, Zhuang Jianming's dislike of Su Suyun and they all see it in their eyes, so they naturally can't respect her, but Liu Haohao is different, Zhuang Jianming appreciates her, Song Xiaoyue is afraid of her, she gave them two lessons, and her words and actions are impeccable, so when they knew that Liu Haohao was going to take her younger brothers and sisters to live in Zhuang Nansheng's house, they were very resistant and clamored to go back to their own house to live, but this was obviously impossible, Zhuang Jianming just hoped that the two of them could cultivate a good relationship with Zhuang Nansheng's family before sending them over。

And Zhuang Xiaowen and Zhuang Xiaoting are in a very embarrassing situation now, Zhuang Jianming treats them coldly, Su Suyun ignores them, no matter how they make trouble, no one will pay attention to them.