Chapter 357: Parents' Interests Expand
Since the nineties of the twentieth century, the changes of the times have entered a stage of rapid change, and in just one or two decades, from a backward country that cannot even solve the problem of warmth, it has become a large country with GDP ranking among the top in the world. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
Along with it, all kinds of new things, technologies, and ideas are surging.
The older generation of people can't quickly digest this rapid change for a while, and still lives according to the concept of the previous era, while the younger generation has quietly changed their outlook on life and values under the influence of the environment of the new era.
The difference in ideology between the two generations is called the generation gap!
In Xiao's mother's era, the concept of free love has just sprouted, most of the people's concepts are relatively simple, when they fall in love, they may receive a more subtle love letter, they feel very romantic, they are young, most of the families are just enough to eat and wear, there is no condition to pursue any romance and feelings, the elements of finding an object, in addition to the face that must be seen in any era, the most important thing is reliable, counting on being able to stay together for a lifetime.
And for Xiao Xiao's generation, the concept of free love has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, when survival is no longer the most urgent issue, the girl in the flower season has more longing, thinking that love should be pure, free, colorful, and belong to two people alone, parents can have the right to know, but should not interfere too early.
Besides, Gu Heng's dazzling achievements have always made her feel a lot of pressure, and she can't confirm whether this relationship can last until the end, but Xiao's mother ran out to interfere at this time, and her attitude of wanting to define things as a matter made her somewhat resistant.
She hopes to have a little more time and space, and when she and Gu Heng are mature and have the belief that they can walk hand in hand for a lifetime, it will be a matter of course, and then make it public to Xiao's mother, then it will be the most appropriate time.
As for the moment, she is not ready enough to confess everything, so she is in a dilemma.
Xiao's mother boasted that she had decades of life experience, and she had walked more bridges than her daughter had walked, and her daughter's expression made her see that something was wrong, and she was even more worried in her heart, for fear that her daughter would suffer, so she continued to ask questions after dinner.
Asking and asking, Xiao's mother suddenly said coldly: "You guys, is it already that?"
"Huh?"
Xiao Xiao, who was still thinking about things, was stunned at first, and then was stunned, crying and laughing: "Mom, where do you want to go." ”
It's good if you don't have it
Xiao's mother stared at her daughter for a few moments, her heart relaxed slightly, and then asked, "That's because he is not good to you?"
Xiao Xiao shook her head again.
Xiao's mother was a little anxious, and said, "Okay, bring your mobile phone, I'll call him and ask him to come and sit down during the May Day holiday." ”
"Mom, don't worry about it, give me some time, okay?
"What haven't you thought about, you're almost a senior in the blink of an eye, and you're going to intern, do you plan to go on like this? Two people fall in love, it's not just a matter of two people, it's also a matter of two families, oh, if you have love, you can drink water, let's not talk about it, let's just say that after graduation, you have to find a job after all, is it you who went over, or did he come to Hangzhou? If you get married in the future, where will you settle down? If you don't think about these problems clearly, if Gu Heng doesn't have a plan, I can rest assured that I will hand you over to him?"
Xiao's mother said a lot in one breath, judging from her experience, all love that is divorced from reality is nonsense, and the children's families only care about talking about feelings and romance, and when they get married, when practical problems such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are in front of them, they will know that love and life are two completely different concepts, and daughters don't understand these, how can parents not worry about this.
I don't deny it, what Xiao's mother said is very reasonable, but what is in front of me is not these problems at all.
Xiao Xiao felt helpless, pursed the corners of her mouth and thought for a while, and said leisurely: "Mom, let's not discuss that first, let me ask you one thing first, I said if, what if, now there is a very good man who likes your daughter, the conditions are very good in all aspects, he has a successful career at a young age, he has opened several companies, and his net worth is hundreds of millions of ......."
"Wait!"
Xiao's mother was mistaken, and asked suspiciously, "You mean, you don't plan to get along with Gu Heng?"
But no, Xiao Xiao suddenly diverted the topic and said that there was an extremely good boy chasing her, didn't it mean that she was implicitly saying that she was already tempted by that person and planned to break up with Gu Heng?
It took Xiao Xiao a few seconds to understand why Xiao's mother had this question, and said with a resentful face: "Mom, don't interrupt me first, listen to me before you speak, okay?"
"Okay, okay, I don't speak, you continue. Xiao's mother nodded again and again, and finally let her daughter relax, after finally understanding the specific situation first, I was afraid that she had planned her daughter's thinking just now, and she didn't forget to remind: "You just said that there is a very good boy who likes you, and then." ”
Xiao Xiao quietly took a breath and said, "If you are dating your daughter with such a person now, and you are separated from each other, you won't see each other a few times a year, seeing that his career is becoming more and more successful, the gap between the two is getting bigger and bigger......"
My sweetheart is a great hero of the world, and I know that one day, he will appear in a high-profile situation, stepping on seven-colored clouds and wearing golden armor to marry me!
In the heart of every young girl, there has been such a dream, longing for her intended person to be a hero, but the dream is not equal to reality, the reality is: it is difficult to love someone, it is even harder to love a successful man, and it is destined to carry a lot of pressure.
Xiao Ma was silent for a moment, and it took a long time to come back to her senses, and she asked uncertainly, "The person you are talking about is Gu Heng?"
Xiao Xiao didn't deny it this time, and nodded silently!
As Gu Heng's career became more and more successful, the problem in front of her was that the gap between the two was getting bigger, which made her a little hesitant and a little unconfident.
This uneasiness and hesitation made her unsure if she could go to the end with Gu Heng, a relationship that even she wasn't sure if there would be a result, she naturally didn't want Xiao's mother to interfere too early.
Xiao's mother spent a long time digesting this huge amount of information, and asked half-convinced: "What you said is true, it's not that he lied to you, right?"
It's no wonder that Xiao's mother suspects that Gu Heng is in her early twenties this year, and she has opened several companies, with a net worth of hundreds of millions, how can she feel a little unreal, her first reaction is whether her daughter has been deceived, they all say that love is blind, and boys can't do anything in order to behave in front of girls?
Well, it must be like this!
Xiao's mother took it for granted that she felt that she had already realized the truth of the matter, if this was the case, Gu Heng's kid would be quite unreliable, and he dared to say anything big, and it was definitely not a good match that her daughter could entrust for life.
"Come here, I'll show you something. ”
Xiao Xiao also knew that there was no basis for what she said, so she got up and walked towards the bedroom.
"These are the ones he gave me, and this card, which he also left. And these newspapers, you see, have some reports about his company, and his name......"
Laying out the facts, reasoning, Xiao Xiao said all this calmly, listening to Xiao's mother's ears, but it set off a monstrous wave, Gu Heng's kid, is he really so good? If she was a child, she also watched him grow up, and she didn't find him so powerful at that time.
While lamenting the elusiveness of life, Xiao's mother let out a sigh, and then she felt that her experience as a person from the past was not enough.
Before this, she had always been very confident in her daughter, feeling well-behaved, sensible and beautiful. But no matter how confident you are, you have to have a comparison, Gu Heng is worth hundreds of millions of dollars at a young age, this is no longer outstanding in the ordinary sense, with the other party's conditions, how many women should want to be attached to it? In the middle, it is impossible that there are no conditions better than their daughter.
In addition, the two are now separated, and it is normal for her daughter to feel uneasy.
Thinking of these problems, Xiao's mother felt a little sorry for her daughter, and she didn't know what to say for a while.
Marrying into a wealthy family or something, Xiao's mother is not extravagant at all, she herself is a good example, if it weren't for a little money in the family, her husband would not have anyone outside, and now on her daughter, she only hopes that her daughter will be happy, not to pursue the so-called wealthy life.
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Gu Heng didn't know that the success of his career had brought a lot of pressure to Xiao Xiao, or rather, he didn't think so far.
In his opinion, the two are still young, and the days ahead are still long, and there is time to slowly run in, as long as each other's hearts are together, there is nothing that cannot be solved.
What Xiao Xiao sees now, what Gu Heng sees is the long-term future.
After the Lantern Festival, Gu Heng first completed the girl's admission procedures, and then accompanied her parents to see some houses closer to the school, ready to move. In the past, it was enough to live alone and have a place to stay, but now that the whole family has moved here, improving the living environment has become a plan that can be put on the agenda.
According to Gu's mother's meaning, it is good to live in Xiangfu International, there is no need to waste money and change places, but in the end, he was persuaded by Gu Heng, who wanted to give his parents a better life.
Gu's mother, who has always been thrifty, didn't want to spend money indiscriminately, so Gu Heng prescribed the right medicine, saying that investing in real estate is a profitable business in the future, and the sooner you buy it, the more cost-effective.
Saying this, Gu's mother was not so resistant, and then, Gu Heng also made up a big move, saying that the current house is a little too small, if you get married and have children in the future, four houses will be enough, if relatives and friends come and there is no place to arrange, from the countryside, they like to stay in the New Year's holidays, it is not good to arrange to live in a hotel, it is also a wealthy family, and it is not good to say it.
A concept that buying a house is equal to investing to make money, plus a set of rhetoric that buying a house is equivalent to maintaining her son's face, Gu's mother is completely speechless.
In this way, the first thing Gu's father and mother did when they came to Xiang City was to be busy looking around the house, and they were not as casual as Gu Heng when they chose a place to live, and they paid quite much attention to it, and they were like this every day a few days ago:
Early in the morning, the whole family got up and finished breakfast, and Gu's mother accompanied the girl who was still a little recognized to go to school, and the arranged driver was responsible for the pick-up. Gu's father lit a cigarette after dinner and took out some recently opened real estate information and discussed with Gu Heng.
"How about here? It is relatively close to Xin Yatou School and your company, and the geographical location is also very good, and there is a commercial street nearby, which has a lot of room for appreciation. ”
After Wushi introduced the concept of appreciation space, Gu's father and Gu's mother have gradually risen to the level of interest from choosing a pure place to live at home, and it seems that there is a trend of developing on the road of house speculation.
The reason is that they are still a little weak about the sudden arrival of a wealthy life, far less real than the things that can be seen such as houses and cars, thinking that if they can hold some real estate and shops in their hands, even if Gu Heng's career encounters setbacks in the future, there is room to turn over, which can be regarded as leaving a way back.
Gu Heng was originally worried that his parents had no job or friends when they first came to Xiangshi, and it would take a long time to adjust, but now that they were interested in something so soon, he naturally raised his hands to support it, and deliberately catered to their ideas, saying that in addition to real estate, there are many things that have huge room for appreciation, such as jade and gold, antiques, calligraphy and paintings, etc.
His original intention was to encourage his parents to find more joy in life, the previous life broke their hearts, and they couldn't stop to take a breath after working hard for most of their lives, in this life, the way he can think of to make up for it is to let them enjoy life in advance.
Every day, yo-yo birds, raise dogs, when there is nothing to do, ask some like-minded friends to go out to taste tea, discuss jade antiques, and wait until the girl is on vacation, and the family will go to various places to play in the mountains and rivers, such a life is comfortable, and it will not be empty, and it can be called tasteful and stylish.
Therefore, Gu Heng began to actively guide his parents to enjoy life, the world is so beautiful, they should let them see more.