Episode 60: Etiquette Education and Perseverance

In Lin Xiyin's eyes, Zheng Xiyi, who has "nothing to do", of course, is not really nothing, he no longer needs to go to Kyung Hee University recently, so he can only go to S.M to practice, and by the way, he will answer Lin Yuna's questions about her acting skills, Park Jung-so often goes to the piano practice room to play with him during breaks, but whether it is because of Zheng Xiyi or because of Lin Yuna is debatable. Jung Hee-yi, who came and went, would also buy some drinks and snacks during the break and go to the men's practice room to comfort Park Jung-so and Lee Hyuk-jae, and of course there was a copy for Jung so-yeon and Kim Hyo-yeon, but he didn't want to appear in the women's practice room often, so he bought them all and asked Park Jung-so to send them again.

The piano doesn't need to be practiced every day, because the damage to the fingers and wrists is actually high, but if you don't practice for a week, the sensitivity of the fingers will decrease, so Zheng Xiyi basically maintains the frequency twice a week. Today is the day of piano practice again, Zheng Xiyi wore a mid-length hooded coat, put the hat on his head, and carried two bags of hot canned coffee into the S.M through the back door.

"Brother Jung-so, give, hot coffee. Jung Hee-yi gently pushed open the door of the men's practice room and walked in, put the bag next to Park Jung-so, who was lying on the ground resting, supported his body and sat up half-leaning against the wall.

"Xiyi is here! I brought coffee again, why are you always so polite? I am embarrassed every time I drink your drink. Park Jung-so scratched his head.

"Huh, Brother Jeong-so, you're embarrassed, too? If it's okay, just run to me and claim to rest and actually look at the little girl, is the person who is Hee-jae?Have my eyes been deceiving me for so long?" Zheng Hee-yi rubbed his eyes with a panicked face, Lee Hee-jae smiled and crawled over to pick up a can of coffee and handed it to Jung Hee-yi, handed another can to Park Jung-so, and then picked up his own can, lifted it up and touched it with Jung Hee-yi, "Hee-yi, well done!"

"Ahh ”

Jung Hee-yi followed Lee Hyuk-jae's gaze to the side, and then noticed that there was still a person standing in the corner. He narrowed his eyes slightly, it was a very feminine Korean boy, Zheng Xiyi remembered the boy she said when she first met Kim Hyo-yeon, it should be this one. Seeing Zheng Xiyi looking over, Jin Xiche shrank aside and walked over a little hesitantly.

"Anihasse, senior Zheng Xiyi, I'm Jin Xiche, please take care of me when we meet for the first time. Jin Xiche bowed honestly, Zheng Xiyi also smiled back, and then bent down to pick up the can of coffee and handed it over, "You're welcome, you're not an actor, I'm not a trainee, you don't need to call me a senior, don't use honorifics, let's talk about it by age, I'm from June 1985." ”

Jin Xiche heard Zheng Xiyi say this, so he let go of his tense nerves and reached out to take the coffee, "In this way, then I am older than you Xiyi, I am from September 83." ”

Park Jung-so frowned, Lee Hyuk-jae raised his leg and gently kicked Kim Hee-cheol, "Hey, you're really not polite at all!

Jin Xiche took a step back, and quickly bowed again, "I'm sorry, Xiyi senior, I was reckless." ”

Zheng Xiyi kicked Li Hezai in disgust, "Are you too tired to get up and still do this?" Brother Xiche, don't keep saluting, I'm an American, and I don't like to salute all the time. And it's my own age, it's none of your business, there's nothing to be sorry for, you see Hejae himself is younger than me, and he doesn't say honorifics to me. ”

Kim Hee-cheol looked at Jung Hee-yi, then at Lee Hyuk-jae, and then at Park Jung-so, a little bit at a loss, listening to Jung Hee-yi's predecessors Lee Hyuk-jae's predecessors were unhappy, listening to Lee Hyuk-jae's predecessors' Jung Hee-yi's seniors were unhappy, could it be that the seniors deliberately arranged to make things difficult for me?

Zheng Hee-yi saw his embarrassment, and raised his eyebrows at Park Jung-so, meaning that this is your territory, you can handle it, Park Jung-so sighed weakly, raised his hand and pushed Lee Hyuk-jae who was pressing on his lap and stood up and walked in front of Kim Hee-cheol.

"In the etiquette class, the teacher should have taught that if the seniors say that they don't need honorifics, they should also be cautious about adding honorifics when calling their names and surnames, which is not only a form of respect, but also a way to protect yourself. In case the senior just said it casually, and you maintain the honorific title, it will make the senior feel that you know the sense of proportion and are not arrogant, and if the senior is sincere and does not need to say honorifics, then he will emphasize again that you don't need honorifics, and it will not hurt you in any case. You know, there are many people, others don't know if the seniors let you not use honorifics, in case the seniors want to harm you, you can stand up and scold you for being rude, and from then on you will have a stain of disrespecting the seniors and being rude to the seniors. ”

Park Jung-so stretched out his hand and gently patted Kim Hee-cheol's shoulder, "Hee-yi really doesn't pay attention to this, and he really makes you don't need honorifics, but his own lack of care doesn't mean that the people around him don't care, not only Hee-jae wasn't satisfied just now, but even I think you changed your words too quickly, which will only make people think that your respect at the beginning is actually disguised." When Hee-jae and I first met Hee-yi, he also told us not to be polite, not to say honorifics, but it wasn't until we met more than ten times that we were familiar enough with each other that we slowly stopped using honorifics, do you understand?"

Kim Hee-cheol listened carefully to Park Jung-so's words, and when he finished speaking, he nodded hurriedly, "I understand, Park Jung-so senior." Even if the seniors truly love the juniors, I should fully express the respect in my heart. ”

Park Jung-so smiled and nodded, Zheng Hee-yi smiled helplessly, he originally wanted Park Jung-so to appease Kim Hee-cheol, don't make it look like a few seniors teamed up to pit the juniors, but Park Jung-so used it for etiquette education.

"Okay, okay, now that we all understand, let's run errands and send this bag of coffee to Xiuyan and them. Lee Hyuk-jae stood up and shoved another bag of coffee into Kim Hee-cheol's hand.

Park Jung-so and Jung Hee-yi glanced at each other, and at the same time raised a foot and kicked Lee Hyuk-jae's ass, Jung Hee-yi scolded with a smile: "I said that you were so kind to call Brother Hee-cheol over to introduce me to know, it turned out that this was the idea." You're busy, you don't do anything like running errands, what's the use of you!"

Lee Hyuk-jae screamed, laughed and pushed Kim Hee-cheol out of the practice room.

"Xiyi, don't be too easy-going, I know you didn't like these etiquettes when you grew up in the United States, but don't stop others from being polite to you, you don't care, but it's a very important thing for the younger generations. Park Jung-so said to Jung Hee-yi in a low voice.

Zheng Xiyi thought about it for a while, and nodded solemnly, "Brother Zhengzhu, you are right, I thought too simply." I don't care about the social environment in South Korea, and other people care. As you just said, I don't mind but the people around me will, and the other people watching from the sidelines will also have their own ideas, and I will pay attention to it in the future, thank you for reminding me, Brother Jeong-so. ”

Park Jung-so smiled, "No thanks, Hee-yi, you're very smart, I just didn't think of this before, I'm a little older, so I think more than you, but in fact, I'm a lot of things." ”

"Brother Jeong-su is right, how can it be a lot of things, you have to do more of this kind of thing in the future, but when it comes to thinking too much, I have something to say to Brother Jeong-so. In fact, we should have talked to you about this after we met for the first time, but I never had a chance, of course, mainly because I didn't know each other well before, and I always felt that talking about it might have a bad effect, but since Bao'er explained to me, I always have to talk to you, and today is the right time. ”

A trace of embarrassment flashed in Park Jung-so's eyes, he probably guessed in his heart what Zheng Xiyi wanted to say to him, although he really didn't want to talk about it, but he also knew that Zheng Xiyi and Bao'er were for his good, so he nodded lightly.

"Brother Jeong-su said I was smart just now, but in fact, I think Brother Jeong-so is also very smart, and we are both smart people, so I also understand the problems of smart people. Thinking too much, smart people will always think too much, a thing is not complicated, but smart people will always turn all kinds of information over and over again to change different combinations, from different angles to consider whether this simple thing has a deeper meaning in it. It's hard to determine whether this method is good or bad, sometimes it helps us a lot, it always makes us notice what others don't pay attention to, so that we can find another way to solve the problem, but sometimes it makes us look ahead and be overwhelmed, and we can't get out of one thing at all. Jung Hee-yi picked up his coffee and took a big sip and pulled Park Jung-so to sit on the floor.

"Actually, it's a very simple matter whether you can make your debut, because Brother Jung-so, there are too few things you can decide, and you don't have any way except to practice hard, wait tenaciously, and work hard to persevere. Since this is the case, it is meaningless to dwell on why I failed to debut, why others can be selected and I can't, it will only bring you more and more distress. You will think more and more, and even begin to wonder if you should continue to be a trainee, am I right?" Zheng Xiyi suddenly asked Park Jung-so coldly, Park Jung-so nodded subconsciously, and immediately reacted, and could only smile bitterly twice.

"In fact, I have had such times before, even more times than Brother Jeong-so, until my mother sent me a message, and today I will pass it on to you, Brother Jeong-so. Park Jung-so immediately sat down and looked at Zheng Xiyi with a serious face.

"My mother told me that she had only heard of people in the world who persevered and succeeded, but she had never heard of people who gave up and were successful. Zheng Xiyi paused, let Park Jung-so think about the meaning of this for a while, and then said to him, "You know that I have studied in Huaxia for many years, and there are many stories in Huaxia in this regard, and the walls of the school are all such small stories, such as Edison's perseverance in trying more than 3,000 materials to find the filament, Li Bai's work when he was a child as long as the kung fu was deep, and the iron pestle was sharpened into a needle, all of which were about this truth." Oh, by the way, there is also a man named Jiang Ziya, who insisted until he was eighty years old before he was appreciated by Mingjun, and became the prime minister from a poor commoner. ”

Zheng Xiyi suddenly laughed as he spoke, "Brother Jeong-so, don't be nervous, I didn't mean to let you wait until you were eighty years old to make your debut." ”

Park Jung-so was still thinking about what Zheng Hee-yi said in his head, and suddenly reacted when Zheng Hee-yi said this, and laughed, "I know what you mean." Only by persevering will you have a chance of success, and if you don't persevere, you will never succeed. Thank you, Xiyi. ”

"Uh...... Actually, that's not what I meant. Zheng Hee-yi suddenly reversed the plot, and Park Jung-so just wanted to salute seriously to thank Zheng Hee-yi, but he was blocked in mid-air by his words.