Liu Hao knew that Zhuang Lihong and Su Suyun had a good relationship, when he first came to the capital, Zhuang Lihong frequently made things difficult for himself, also to fight for Su Suyun, but he didn't expect that after the two of them broke up, Zhuang Lihong could look at the problem calmly and objectively.

"We can't change others, but we can change ourselves, you just said that Aunt Su is a vexatious person, if I also go toe-to-toe with her, fight back against her everywhere, and make her miserable, then what is the difference between me and her in essence?"

"Of course it's different, she was the first to stir up trouble, and if you pick on her thorns everywhere, others will only say that she is to blame. Zhuang Lihong was angry, and he was a little unscrupulous when he spoke.

"Have you ever wondered why she is so picky?"

"She was born like this, hard-hearted, and that heart can't be warmed. As soon as Zhuang Lihong thought of her mother, she felt so wronged that she couldn't do it, the damage caused to her by those words was a wound that could not be erased no matter what, and her eyes were red unconsciously.

Liu Hao shook his head, "She is not a natural hedgehog, maybe as grandma said, lack of love in childhood, or for some other reason, she is used to being self-centered, will not consider problems from the position of others, does not know how to understand others, take care of other people's feelings, people like her will bring pain to the people around her, and at the same time will make her life embarrassing, which is the fundamental reason why she complains about this and that all day long." In fact, whether it is to be a relative, or a lover, or to be a friend, the most important thing is tolerance and understanding, after all, there will not be two people with the same thoughts, everyone requires the same while reserving differences, and the relationship can be maintained. ”

"Chicken soup" is not prevalent in this era, and Zhuang Lihong has no intimate friends and relatives, and was suddenly poured such a big bowl of chicken soup by Liu Haohao, and suddenly there was a feeling of being sudden, and she felt that Liu Haohao had talked about the idea of the problem all of a sudden.

"Yes, she is selfish! very selfish!" Zhuang Lihong thought of the picture of Su Suyun insulting herself indiscriminately, and couldn't help but grit her teeth, as a mother, when did Su Suyun care about her feelings as a daughter. I don't even care about the feelings of my parents and children, I only care about myself, isn't it extremely selfish?

"Selfishness is human nature, otherwise how could there be such a saying, 'If people do not do it for themselves, heaven and earth will be destroyed'? Selfishness is not a bad thing, you are also selfish, I am also selfish, you should not be so excited to complain about her selfishness. I don't know what happened between you, but what is certain is that she didn't mean to hurt you, maybe it was impulsive, maybe it was ill-conceived, maybe it was something else. In any case, you are both mother and daughter, breaking the blood relationship of bones and tendons, if you are not doing well, the saddest must be her. There is a difference between intimacy and intimacy, this is still very reasonable, for example, Cai Yufen provoked me, I won't care about her feelings, I will retaliate back when I should retaliate, and I will hit her in the face if I should hit her. But Aunt Su frowned coldly at me, but I couldn't deliberately retaliate against her, because she was Lijun's mother and grandpa's daughter, if I retaliated against her, it would be a momentary refreshment, but it would make the person I like sad, and for me, this is more than worth the loss. ”

Zhuang Lihong had a slight smile on his face, "Actually, you have taken revenge on my mother fiercely, you don't know how aggrieved she is when she looks like she obviously hates you, but she can't kill you." ”

"But I didn't do anything. Liu spread his hands innocently.

Zhuang Lihong was speechless, Liu Haohao really didn't do anything, she just slapped Su Suyun's face with her excellence, and embarrassed her with everyone's praise and support.

Zhuang Lihong was thoughtful, what Liu did well reminded her, since Su Suyun looked down on her daughter, as a relative, she was destined to have no way to take drastic revenge measures, she only made herself excellent and impressed everyone, which was the best counterattack to Su Suyun.

Liu Haohao didn't expect that he would be able to make Zhuang Lihong change his mind and reconcile with Su Suyun again, seeing that she knew what she knew, he didn't force her anymore, "Okay, don't be depressed, come out to eat, don't let grandma worry." ”

"Then how are you going to take revenge on Cai Yufen?" Zhuang Lihong came back to her senses, remembering that Cai Yufen deliberately came to disgust her today, and her mind was uneasy, "If you need my help, just ask." ”

"Of course, it's useless if you don't dislike me. Zhuang Lihong quickly smiled self-deprecatingly, she had a fight with Cai Yufen when she first entered school, but she quit the student union in a gloomy way, and became a laughing stock in the circle, and she lost the face of the dealer fiercely, she couldn't even pass a move in front of Cai Yufen, what qualifications did she have to say that she wanted to help Liu Hao?

"Lihong, I found that you have a low self-esteem, you and Cai Yufen grew up in a similar environment, she is arrogant and arrogant, why are you so inferior? I haven't said anything, you feel useless?" Liu Haohao asked very directly.

Zhuang Lihong was speechless by her question, embarrassed and annoyed, "I don't have inferiority!"

Well, inferiority complex is not inferior, I believe that she understands in her heart, Liu Haohao will not continue to force her, and patted her shoulder with a smile and turned around to leave.

Zhuang Lihong sat on the edge of the bed, his face was blue and white for a while, "How am I the same as her? She grew up in the palm of her hand, what about me? Who cares about me? Grandpa himself has so many children, I'm afraid he doesn't even remember what I look like, my dad is not home every day, and my mother only has my brother and my brother in her eyes, what am I? It's just that I am given a bowl of rice for every meal and a piece of clothing to wear in all seasons." Oh, and there's another time when they think of me, and every year when I send you old clothes, I take my clothes!"

That's why she hated Liu Haohao so much at that time, she didn't get much, and Liu Haohao had to share what she only had.

Liu Hao Hao turned around and sat down beside her again, Zhuang Lihong simply vented the anger in his heart, "How comfortable do you think I live?

Liu listened quietly to her venting her resentment and dissatisfaction, and waited for her emotions to calm down a little before she slowly spoke, "You have suffered so many grievances and neglects since you were a child, these cannot be changed, since you can't change it, you can only accept it and face it." Those grievances and pains are not because of your fault, but theirs, you should not punish yourself for the faults of others, let alone feel that you should not be loved. Everyone is unique in this world and has the right to be loved and loved. ”