"It's a good thing to say, although you Liu Haohao live in the countryside, you have always been the stars holding the moon, and you don't know what it's like to be ignored. Zhuang Lihong shouted indignantly, everyone likes Liu Haohao, even her serious grandfather thinks that Liu Haohao is promising, and people like her live in the world to compare ordinary people.

"Me?" Liu Hao thought it was funny, "I am a small village girl with stars holding the moon? How much do you care about me as my family? They have never consulted me, and they have ordered me this family affair regardless of it, and I don't even know whether the other party is round or flat, so I am forced to marry someone I have never met, and if it were you, are you willing?"

"You don't look down on my eldest brother?"

"The problem is that at that time, I didn't know that it was your eldest brother who was engaged to me, if that person was not your eldest brother, but a bastard like Zhuang Xiaoli, my family would also force me to marry, even if I knew that it would ruin my life, you put yourself in your shoes and think about it, what does it feel like?" Liu Haohao is not uncomplaining about the family in this life, but she knows that complaining and anger are meaningless emotions, all she can do is accept the reality, strive to find a good future for herself, and not let herself be at the mercy of anyone.

Zhuang Lihong shuddered when she thought of Zhuang Xiaoli's ruthless appearance, she knew that when Liu Dali proposed to marry, Zhuang Jianming had considered Zhuang Xiaoli, and it was Song Xiaoyue who said that Zhuang Xiaoli was too young to be suitable, if Liu Haohao was such an excellent person as she was really forced to marry Zhuang Xiaoli, then her life would be really ruined, "Count yourself lucky." ”

"Yes, I'm glad I'm lucky to meet your eldest brother, but what if I don't have that good luck? I won't accept my fate, my life is up to me, no one or anything wants to hurt me, because I cherish myself and know that I deserve the best, so nothing in this world can break me, even if one day I am thrown to the bottom, I have the courage to climb up again. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself here, feeling inferior and sad because you are not cared for and loved by your loved ones, you should cheer up and love yourself, because there will be no one in this world who loves yourself more than you. ”

These words are not so much to persuade Zhuang Lihong, but to say what she said to herself, she is proud of herself, isn't the starting point of this life the lowest point of her life? But she is still not discouraged and works hard, and finally climbs out of the bottom to get out of the predicament, even such a thing can be done, she believes that nothing will be able to get her in the future.

Zhuang Lihong didn't listen to her words, just looked at her in a daze, "Your family had to marry you to our family at that time, it should be for our family's money, right?" I heard that you also have a younger brother?"

Liu Haohao didn't expect her to ask, "I don't know what the elders thought at the beginning, but I do have a younger brother." ”

"They're planning for your brother. Zhuang Lihong evoked a mocking smile, "In their eyes, boys are the most important thing in the family, girls are just decorations, or bargaining chips, who you marry, they don't care, whether you are doing well or not, they don't care, they just want to use money through you to subsidize your younger brother to the family." Oh, it's really sad for us to be women, we will always be victims. ”

"Do you think so too?" Liu Hao asked rhetorically, she had heard Yang Ping say that Su Suyun had complained that she was patriarchal, and the victim back then inadvertently became the perpetrator, making her daughter feel this inequality.

"I don't know, I don't think it's fair, but I take it for granted. It is said that men and women are equal all the time, but if you look at our family, my mother will always only have my brother and my brother in her eyes, and any good things are close to them first, as for me, but I can only get some things they don't want, or they don't need them, it seems that you are similar, do you also think that men and women are equal in this world?"

"I don't think there's any inequality, because in my eyes men and women are equal, and I've always treated my younger siblings equally, and that's what I demand from them. The inequality in your eyes exists in your heart, if you agree with the equality of men and women, there is no inequality in your eyes, you will work hard to fight for the rights, the basis of equality between men and women is that women should not underestimate themselves, despise themselves, and think that inequality is natural. ”

Zhuang Lihong listened very carefully, but he didn't fully digest it after a long time, "Your eloquence is really amazing, anyone can make you dizzy." ”

"I don't think I have any eloquence," Liu laughed, "What I said was my own true thoughts, and I didn't mean to show off in order to convince you." ”

"I know, although I don't want to admit it, I still have to admit that Grandpa is right, you are much better than me, at least you think better than me. Zhuang Lihong was not too depressed when she said this, she had already admitted this fact in her heart, and she didn't feel ashamed to say it now.

"Don't compare with me, it's meaningless, there are strong players in the strong, there are more people in this world who are stronger than me, it's really endless, you just compare with yourself, today you are stronger than yesterday, tomorrow you are stronger than today, that's enough." ”

"Liu Haohao, your mouth, when it comes to the big truth, it's really a set. The corners of Zhuang Lihong's lips finally curled a little, "I know what you mean, but it's hard to say whether you can do it." ”

"Whether you can do it or not, go out and fill your stomach first, don't let the old people worry. Liu Haohao pulled her up from the side of the bed.

Yang Ping was putting the food on the table, and he saw Zhuang Lihong, who was still frowning coldly just now, and the coldness all over his body disappeared, although he was not as close as a sister to Liu, but there was a little more harmonious tacit understanding between the two.

She couldn't help but secretly sigh that Liu Haohao was really a master of ideological work, and no matter what difficult problems could be solved under her.

"I think I'll find a chance for you to have a good talk with Su Yun another day, maybe you can make her through. Yang Ping said optimistically.

Zhuang Lihong laughed out loud, to be honest, she was quite looking forward to it.

Liu Haohao waved his hand in fright, with a look of respect, "This is too difficult, I can't even convince my own biological parents, many of the elders' ideas have been ingrained, and it is not so easy to change." ”

Liu Hao felt that Yang Ping really promoted her too much, she was not a psychologist and negotiation expert, she could easily convince everyone, and the people she could persuade were not stubborn people, because they were willing to communicate with her, she had a chance to persuade them, as for Su Suyun, maybe it was okay to coax her, but it was too difficult to completely change her mind.