My mother was pregnant with me, probably a "conspiracy".

My grandfather was the principal of the village middle school, and my father also became a teacher in the middle school after graduation.

Handsome appearance, outstanding talent, scholarly families, matchmakers in nearby villages compete to inquire about their father's news for those girls who have not yet come out of the cabinet. Until the matchmaker introduced the daughter of a barefoot doctor in the next village, and that person was my mother. Soon, my dad fell under my mother's pomegranate skirt.

In a boxy yard, under a pear tree, next to a deep well.

"Auntie, you put it away, I'll wash these clothes. "My mother was not yet a beginner, and when she was a girl, she fell in love with her father at first sight. She is not highly educated, graduated from junior high school, and her father is the current male god to him, and if she can marry a male god, she is willing to go up the knife mountain and go down to the sea of fire.

"Girl, no need, you can't eat your hands, I'll wash this clothes!" Grandma was not optimistic about her mother at that time, her mother was ordinary-looking, her body was weak, and she was a beginner of Chinese, and her grandmother felt that she was not worthy of her son.

"It's okay, it's a family from now on anyway, kid, you've worked hard!" Grandpa pushed grandma out.

For his father's marriage, his grandfather was close to being anxious, and he said for his son that many girls from other families were always unable to settle the marriage for various reasons, and people's patience was limited. Now there is a hard-working and simple girl, whether she is a donkey or a horse, as long as she can give birth to a child, she is a good daughter-in-law, at least grandpa can give an explanation to the ancestors and ancestors.

"This girl is not good at her body, I inquired, the people in their village said that she has asthma and will get sick, what is this?" Grandma asked people to visit this family earlier, my grandfather is a barefoot doctor, and his identity is decent, and grandma is a well-known "quarrel king", and the dead can be scolded alive, and grandma doesn't want to mess with such an in-law.

Although my mother was a junior high school graduate, she was a good worker under my grandmother's strict and almost harsh education. In the early years, the family was poor, my grandmother pickled a pot of soy beans, and my mother ate salty soybeans for three days, giving birth to asthma, and coughing badly when it came to the cold winter or when the immunity was weakened.

Dad saw his mother washing clothes in the yard, and his hands would be cold when they were exposed on the surface in winter, not to mention that his mother's hands were stretched out in the cold and biting soapy water, and her weak body coughed a few times from time to time, and the man's feelings of pity and pity for the jade arose.

"Ah Hua, don't wash it, let my mother wash it, you put it!"

"It's okay, Auntie is busy, I can do this little work. Mom looked at Dad's handsome face with tenderness in her eyes, even if she was asked to wash until dark and then until dawn, she was willing, her wish was to give birth to a monkey to this handsome and chic man in front of her. By the way, defeat the butterflies outside who are showing off their branches and provoking their fathers all day long. A woman's jealousy and sense of victory and defeat are innate.

So, pleasing your future mother-in-law is the first step. Getting your future husband to take pity on you is the second step. The father-in-law is concerned about the lifelong event of his son's marriage and childbirth, so naturally he will not embarrass her for a girl's family.

Although Grandma was not optimistic about this family business, Dad and Mom soon had a substantial relationship. It is said that my arrival is a stepping stone to promote them to enter the marriage hall, with me, even if my grandmother is unwilling in her heart, she is reluctant to give up her precious grandson.

"Xiaobo, your father and I have seen your birthday, you will get married on the eighth day of this month, and tomorrow we will go to your father-in-law's house to give a dowry. ”

"I'm not ready yet!" Dad didn't want to be responsible, but he felt that the wedding was arranged in a hurry.

Grandma frowned, "If you don't get married sooner, isn't it ugly that Ah Hua is pregnant? A girl's unmarried pregnancy is spread, and people think that our family has found a casual daughter-in-law!"

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intentional. The future mother-in-law is clearly insinuating, saying that she is not self-respecting! The mother is like a mirror in her heart, but she still looks well-behaved and lovely, and she is busy echoing: "Auntie, what you said is right, or Auntie is thoughtful." ”

Grandpa's face was overjoyed, and the grandfather looked at his daughter-in-law, and the more he looked at it, the more he liked it: "Ah Hua, it's time to change your words, call Mom, and call Auntie, this girl ......"

Mom's face turned crimson, and she looked at her father with disgust.

Some people say that my mother was able to marry my father because she played a trick and took advantage of the weaknesses that men have. As the saying goes: "Men chase women across mountains, and women chase men across the yarn." ”

In the middle of summer the following year, I was born. Girl.

Grandma was in a hurry! She burned incense and worshiped the Buddha every day, begging for a precious grandson, but she didn't expect to get a granddaughter.

Grandma is a very traditional rural woman, and the idea of continuing the incense is deeply ingrained in her heart. In the countryside, women seem to be more patriarchal than men.

"I gave birth to a girl, I really have the ability!" Grandma coldly dropped this sentence and went out, the kitchen was cold stove and cold bowls, and the family couldn't see the joy of the arrival of a new life.

After giving birth, my mother slumped weakly on the bed, listening to her mother-in-law's words, two bean-sized tears fell down. The road was chosen by herself, and she knew that her mother-in-law didn't like herself, and she was chasing other people's sons by herself, and she had to bear the consequences because she planted them.

"Xiaobo, I'm sorry!" Mom looked at Dad with tears in her eyes, as if she had committed an unforgivable sin, begging for her man's forgiveness.

After all, Dad is a highly educated person, so naturally he is not familiar with his mother, and he stared at the soft little man in his arms with a smile on his face. "Hello daughter, daughter is my father's lover in my last life, and it is my little padded jacket. ”

"Poof!" Mom finally turned from sadness to joy. The husband is oriented to himself, and he is a woman's biggest backing in the family.

"Ah Hua, let's choose a name for our daughter!" Dad looked at Mom with a handsome face.

At this time, the grandfather walked into the back room, and although he did not have the resentment of the grandmother, he could not perceive how happy he was. "Girl, don't put your name on the family tree! Ah Hua, you rest and rest, it's hard work. After saying that, Grandpa left.

Seeing that the father was a little embarrassed, the mother said thoughtfully: "Look, my daughter is very quiet, don't cry, just call her quiet!"

Our family's genealogy to my generation is "Jian", but my name is "Wang Jing", nicknamed "Jingjing", a plain, simple, and unwavering name.

When I grew up, I complained countless times, and the name my parents chose for me was also arbitrary! There were eight Wang Jing in the whole grade!

Like the name Zhang Wei, walking on the street, casually shouting "Zhang Wei" and "Wang Jing", a bunch of people look back at you!