Chapter 9: Big Joy and Little Joy

In the evening, the little nurse in the pink uniform came again, and when she saw my mother-in-law, probably remembering that the needle was not pricked accurately in the morning, she still had palpitations, she showed an embarrassed smile at me, and turned to Siqi.

"Siqi, good, Auntie will help you take your temperature. ”

"I don't! I want my mother to let her go!" Siqi was also worried about what happened in the morning, and the nurse aunt stabbed her several times in succession, can she not be afraid!

"I'll do it!" I took the mercury thermometer from the little nurse's hand, and Siqi obediently opened her armpit.

The little nurse looked even more embarrassed and stood awkwardly.

The temperature test was normal, and the little nurse left in a hurry. Looks like this little nurse has a glass heart!

It reminds me that when I first entered the workplace, the leader said that my plan was not done with my heart, and the conscience of heaven and earth, I was a rookie in the workplace who wrote the plan all night, and he actually said that I was not attentive enough! For this, I was sad for a whole week. When I met this leader in the unit, I avoided it from a distance and avoided confrontation. Sensitive and fragile psychological quality, unable to withstand criticism, accusation or ridicule. As I grew older and became a veteran in the workplace, that glass heart gradually left me. Only then do I know that only by constantly improving my ability and making my talent worthy of ambition can I ignore the grievances I have suffered, can I laugh at the original glass heart, and can I be light-hearted.

"Qingyuan, are you coming back so early today?"

"Mom, there are no activities at school tonight, I rushed here after work, and I bought some food on the way, all of which you like to eat. ”

Lao Chen glanced at me, gave me an ambiguous look, and asked me to go over and eat around a few spliced benches.

Grandma's braised pork, stinky dried seeds and roasted large intestines, fried yellow eel with leeks, braised prawns in oil, pork ribs and corn soup.

As soon as I saw this dish, I knew that it was the dish of the local restaurant opposite RT-Mart supermarket, and before we got married, Lao Chen and I never cooked, and he swore that I would "never touch the spring water with ten fingers" in this life. As the saying goes, "It is better to believe that there are ghosts in the world than to believe in the broken mouth of men." I believe that sows will go up the tree if they believe in men, but I naively believed it, and as a result, I slapped my face after marriage. Lao Chen turned over as a serf and sang, and I fell into the pit I had dug myself.

Seeing that Lao Chen is doing well today and improving our food, I can barely squeeze out a smile. Lao Chen immediately secretly sent Qiu Bo, eyebrows and eyes, and sat down against my body like a fish, really giving some sunshine, he was brilliant.

I can't stop Lao Chen's mouth when I eat, "Jingjing, Li Lin gave birth to a second child, and she is a kid, this woman was born with a son's life, but she suffered Lao Wang, and she had to prepare a house for the second child. ”

Before I could open my mouth to speak, my mother-in-law answered, "What's the point of being miserable yourself? In the past, seven or eight babies were raised well, but now you are squeamish, and the two sons are good, and you will take turns to support the elderly in the future." ”

Mother-in-law has something to say, I buried my head in eating and didn't care about her happily, I had already scolded Lao Chen half to death in my heart, this person really shouldn't mention which pot, I have to talk to death.

"Yo, this is a red egg! Eight good, even number. ”

The mother-in-law took the eggs that Lao Chen brought back and counted them, "I really gave birth to a son, blessed!

Mother-in-law sighed meaningfully, and I longed to tie up Lao Chen and beat him with a whip. Lao Chen seemed to react, lowered his head like a dog making a mistake, gnawed on his own flesh and bones, and did not dare to continue talking.

It is our custom that red eggs are often given after the baby is born. If it is a boy, it is necessary to have six or eight, and the reason why the boy sends an even number is that when the child grows up, it is easy to find a daughter-in-law, and if he is paired with his daughter-in-law, he will be able to spend a good full moon. If it is a girl, the number is five or seven, it must be an odd number, and if an odd number of eggs is given, it means that there is a girl in the family, and it will be easy to marry in the future. The so-called "little joy".

Feudal society is gone, and the idea of male preference for women still exists. It is not known when true equality between men and women will be achieved.

After the meal, Lao Chen consciously cleaned up the leftovers, and secretly glanced at me from time to time, like a child who had done something wrong, I was angry and funny in my heart, this person always did things to lift a stone and shoot himself in the foot. Originally, for the sake of his good performance, I also planned to give him a Moda at the entrance of the corridor later, or say a few thoughtful words to him, so that the relationship between the husband and wife could quickly warm up, who would have thought that this guy would actually make this play.

Not long after I had an abortion, my mother-in-law was angry, and women know women better.

Mother-in-law is like a deflated ball, sitting on the bench of the ward watching the news broadcast, she is obviously an ape, and she doesn't want to watch the news broadcast of these national events! She loves to watch the opening of the three sets of the central government, the Avenue of Stars, and the golden 100 seconds...... Singing and dancing programs.

Looking at my mother-in-law's back, my nose was a little sour, and my mother-in-law had aged a lot in the past two years. When Lao Chen and I were in love, she could still vaguely see the texture of collagen on her skin, and now she has the vicissitudes of life.

After I put Siqi to sleep, I walked out of the ward alone to breathe, and brushed the state of the circle of friends by the way. Wang Jinjin is holding a glass of red wine, enjoying a candlelit dinner with her husband, and she didn't forget to post a selfie with all kinds of charm. Thinking of Wang Jinjin, a full-time wife, and then looking at my own situation, I can't help but sigh, it's really more popular than people.

Siqi was brought up by myself before the age of three, with hard work, at that time I hired a nanny to take care of Siqi during the day, and after the nanny went back at night, Siqi was almost alone from dinner to sleep, Lao Chen's embroidered pillow was not used at all, in addition to adding chaos, it was to play with mobile phones, fight landlords, fight World of Warcraft, and watch the news.

At that time, Wang Jinjin persuaded me to be a full-time mother, "Jingjing, don't do your three or four thousand yuan job, Lao Chen can't afford to support you." Why do you have to focus on both family and business? ”

It's not that I haven't thought about it, but I have thought about giving up every time I lack sleep and my body's immunity is extremely low. But when I think that my children will grow up in the future, I will go out to look for a job again, and when the time comes, will there be any companies willing to ask me? What's more, although Lao Chen is a university professor, he can't compare with Wang Jinjin's husband, her husband is a wealthy and well-known local real estate developer, and when I used MK and Xiao CK bags, she had already used LV, Coach, and Chanel to buy groceries.

Stay-at-home mothers, stay-at-home wives, women must not be misled by these two words.

A stay-at-home mother is a woman who previously had a job and quit her job between pregnancy and the birth of her child. Women who do not go to work or do not have a job in order to take care of their children's growth and run a family.

Stay-at-home wives are different, and wives sound much more noble than their mothers. Wang Jinjin is a full-time wife, there is a nanny for grocery shopping and cooking at home, an aunt with children, and she is responsible for her beauty like a flower.

I mechanically flipped through the cookie-cutter circle of friends, and suddenly found a state of the university goddess Tang Wanwan, in the photo, she was holding a man's hand, smiling like a quiet time, and the same as when she was in college, gentle and lovely, the years favor the beauty, she is still a goddess, I am not far from the road of resentful women.