A marriage that suits you is often not about meeting the most suitable person, but at the most suitable time, you meet someone who is calm.

After the end of that painful relationship, I often hovered on the edge of loneliness and loneliness. I'm thinking that I've missed the best person, and love has drifted away from me.

Some enthusiastic friends introduced me to some girls, and I met everyone I could. Some of them have no follow-up when they meet, and they become strangers again. Some can contact for a while, but they can't call. Some of them have to be broken constantly, which makes people very worried. In short, I feel that the marriage event is like a vast starry sky, and I don't know who the flowers will be!

Xiaoxia, a high school classmate, suddenly sent me a message one day, and she asked me if I had a partner.

Originally, I was trying to get along with a girl introduced by a fellow countryman, but I always felt that there was something inappropriate with her. If you keep in touch with her, you won't have a fruitful day.

It turned out that Xiaoxia was going to introduce me to someone, and the person she wanted to introduce me to was her sister. Being able to introduce my sister to me shows that Xiaoxia has a high level of trust in me. Although I was naughty in high school, I didn't do anything bad, at most I didn't study well and bullied my teachers.

After Xiaoxia's introduction, my sister and I got in touch. After a period of understanding, I feel that Xiaoxia's sister is like a person who lives together, and from the point of view of speaking, she is also honest.

It was necessary to meet, we discussed it, and I took a few days off to go to her city to meet.

I rummaged through the wardrobe, but there was no pants that I could wear, so I hurriedly searched for a pair of pants on the Internet. There are no new shoes, but the old ones can barely be worn.

After getting off the bus, she stood there waiting for me at the exit of the station. At a distance, the mood is very complicated. I'm worried that this time it's another trip for nothing, and there will be no gain.

We smiled at each other after we met, didn't say much, just greeted each other like acquaintances.

After I found a place to live, I insisted on going to her rented place to have a look, and after several bus trips and a short walk down the street, I arrived at a dilapidated neighborhood. She told me that this community is a family home of a factory, and most of the people living in it are some elderly people.

When I got to her rented house, I toured every corner of the house. Packed neatly, several pots of aloe vera are standing vigorously in the pots.

Through some of the decorations in the house, I suddenly felt some sympathy for the people who were wandering outside. Surviving in such a city is a challenge for everyone. In the face of fierce competition, we must maintain 100% of the state and energy, and whoever can have the last laugh will be the winner.

I was very tired from the overnight train, she was busy packing her things, I sat on her bed and looked at my phone, and before I knew it, I fell asleep.

When I woke up, I found myself covered with a piece of her dress. At that time, I felt very warm all of a sudden, this is not a simple piece of clothing, it is a person's care for a person. Although we can't talk about the depth of affection yet, it is at least a kind of sincerity that she has towards me.

The next day, I proposed to go to the opposite hill to see the scenery. Climbing the mountain is a great way to relax, I like to get in touch with the mountain, when the mountain is in front of me, all the depression and dullness disappear in an instant. The two of us were climbing the mountain and exchanging ideas.

I asked her, "Why haven't you been looking for it?"

He told me: "I looked for it, and others introduced several of them, but they all felt that they were not living. Don't want to talk about it!"

I asked, "Do you think I'm like a lifer?"

She smiled and said to me, "It doesn't look like you can't live, our people there are generally honest!"

She asked me rhetorically: "You are so flamboyant, why are you still single, is there something wrong?"

I thought about it for a moment and said to her, "Of course there is a problem, the problem is that it is too flamboyant!"

I said, "There are so few people who are really suitable! If I wasn't single, how could we have met? Maybe that's our fate!"

My hand, for some reason, had inadvertently taken her hand.

It was a very rough pair of hands, and I could feel the calluses on my hands due to the work, and at that moment, there was some pity and distress for her. People usually say that Qianqian has fine hands, which kind of skin should a girl have?

I asked her, "Do you work a lot, and why are your hands so rough?"

She said: "Sometimes we are so busy that we don't even have time to eat, and we have to sort out a lot of goods at work all day, so it is naturally rough!"

Also, labor is the most beautiful quality of a person.

I asked, "This mountain is so close, do you come often?"

She said, "I have only been here once in the past few years! That was when I first came up! ”

I said to her, "I feel like I've found the right place this time!"

She asked, "Are you so sure, what if I don't agree?"

I smiled and said, "I think you'll agree, you won't miss out on someone who is right for you!"

"Of course," she said. I love this city. ”

I said, "If you like me one day, you will also like my city, love the house and the Wuma!"

Hand in hand, we walked from one intersection to another, and although it was a bitterly cold winter, it felt like every corner of the city was full of warmth.

When I was about to leave her and the city, I said to her seriously, "I am poor and I have no power, and if you follow me, you may suffer!"

She hesitated for a moment and replied to me: "Don't be poor, we can work together!"

The following year, she quit her job and came with me to my city. I knew that she was used to the city, and that she was able to quit her job and leave her friends to prove her sincerity.

After spending some time together, we decided we were going to get married.

I said to her nervously, "I can't give you a gorgeous wedding, I can only do my best to get married." ”

After listening to this, she said: "You don't need a gorgeous wedding, as long as you can live a good life in the future, it's better than anything else!"

I thought about it later, there is no one in this world who is absolutely suitable for you, a person who is suitable for you, that is, the person who is willing to let go of himself and accept you calmly.

I've been married to my wife for a year, but there's still a long way to go. In the future, we need more calmness and letting go. To manage this hard-won relationship well is to cherish the best thing you met at the beginning!