The people who dragged the wooden ridge named the child

Wang Huilan said that she couldn't help Yan Yongnong, and she didn't want to worry too much about the child's name, in her opinion, as long as there was a name for her son, she recognized the name "Yan Bianzhao".

It's just that she always feels uncomfortable when she shouts "Yan Bianzhao", and her tongue, teeth, and mouth skin are very incoordinated. Therefore, she adopted the habit of calling boys in the village, and added a "牯" to the last word of her name, so she called her son "Zhaogu".

In the village, there are two surnames of Yan and Wang, and two or three miscellaneous surnames. People with the same surname in the village generally do not call their full names, because except for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, everyone has a common surname, and the ones behind the surname are unique.

The family generally does not call the full name, the elders call the next generation the name without the surname, and the younger generation calls the elders or the same generation according to the title, so it seems to be affectionate. There are brothers who call their younger siblings by their names, and there are almost no younger siblings who call their brothers by their names.

Even the surnames Yan and Wang are not used in the two surnames, and only when they are called Na Ding and Shu, they only have their surnames. Look, there is obviously a difference between strong and weak!

If you call a person with the same surname by name and surname, it seems unfamiliar, and the person being called has a private thought: "Be polite to me and see the outside." "Even elementary school students think that the teacher doesn't call him by his last name, because he likes him.

There are two characters in the name of the man who dragged the wooden ridge at birth, one is the surname, and the other is the word representing the generation. Take the people surnamed Yan now, for example, when their ancestors of the previous generations gathered the general, they ranked the descendants of ten generations: Deng, Tao, Shou, Jing, Name, Yong, Gong, Nian, Ge, and Dao. Most of the men surnamed Yan are people with the words "name, yong, and gong".

The main reason for this name is to facilitate neighbors to call each other, and the generation is to set the identity of the card. Respect for the elder is more respectful than the old, and even the younger generation of sixty years old should be called the uncle of the elder of several years old. Of course, the younger elders can't call the older ones by their names, and add "brother" to the address.

The name of the man of the same sect is only different by the last word, and if one word is missing, a "牯" is added.

The name of the girl who dragged the wooden ridge does not need to be of generation, and it is said that "women have no sect." "Their generations are with their brothers.

Yan Yongnong disapproves of Wang Huilan's call "Zhaogu", or he is disgusted with her being called that. Because the family called others like this, they were called like this when they were teenagers, and when they got married and became fathers, people called them smooth, and they couldn't change their mouths for a while.

In particular, Yan Bianzhao's juniors and juniors will call him "Brother Zhao or Uncle Zhao", this contradictory name that both underestimates him and respects him makes people laugh.

The most intolerable thing is that his son will work outside in the future, and the family will go to shout 'Zhao, Zhao' in front of his leaders, colleagues or subordinates, so Yan Yongnong asked Wang Huilan not to call him that, and said very strongly: "His full name is 'Yan Bianzhao', and if you call him 'Zhaogu' again, I won't be polite to you." ”

This time, Wang Huilan couldn't listen, and stubbornly insisted on his own name and never gave in. "I lived outside for less than three days, like a layer of gold, and went out for a walk like a fairy air. Forget where your foundation is, and you don't need to name your ancestors. You're tall and tough, you have the final say in everything, and we all have to do what you want. I'm no longer your top brick, I'm just your next meal. Every sound that comes out of my mouth has poured into your ears, and whatever I have done has pierced your eyes. ”

After taking a breath, Wang Huilan continued: "I said that you have too much masculinity! I have always endured it, always thinking that I can tolerate it in the name of my own family, and if I don't tolerate it in the name of outsiders, you think that I am honest and easy to bully. ”

"I know that you have a swollen stomach and are waiting to find someone to vent, and I will pour water into my head when I provoke you. You can call him whatever you want, as long as you call him. Yan Yongnong once again recognized the wind.

Yan Yongnong continued: "Okay, it's not worth hurting the feelings of the husband and wife for this little thing, affecting family harmony. Other people's families are happy when their sons are entertained, singing, and playing movies to celebrate, but our family is like a battlefield, with a smoky miasma, a sad face, and full of taste. Let outsiders know what to gossip about. ”

Since Yan Bian Zhao came to this house, Yan Yongnong has had a lot of time to seek perfection, and for the sake of his son, he often recognizes the wind and falls behind. Of course, what Wang Huilan said is not unreasonable, Yan Bianzhao has already occupied Yan Yongnong's entire body and mind, and did not leave a little room for their mother and daughter, he even rejected them a little, and thought they were in the way, and there were many cases of blowing beards and glaring at their mother and daughter.

He thought that it was wrong for him, after all, he was a family, all his relatives, and family harmony needed to be built and maintained by everyone. And the growth of children needs a good family atmosphere. So he softened his breath and persuaded his wife, and once again avoided a family storm.

Yan Yongnong thought about it, the people in the village are used to calling boys with "Gu", and the views of the people in the village are the same as those of his wife, so naturally he will be the same as his wife, and he will not be able to change the folk customs and habits of thousands of years. The mouth grows on the head of others, and it is impossible to correct their names one by one. But you can call yours, and I can make my son not.

Wang Huilan said to Yan Yongnong, "You can call him whatever you want, as long as you can call him." I didn't understand this sentence in detail, and I thought he agreed with her name.

In the evening of this day, Yan Bian Zhao was playing with a spinning top on the field in front of the door, and Wang Huilan cooked the night dinner and stood in the patio and shouted: "Zhaogu, have dinner at night." After a while, he didn't come in and shouted, "Zhaogu, call you." Still no answer from him. Wang Huilan walked to the gate angrily and shouted: "Yan Bian Zhao---。 ”

"Hey. Yan Bian Zhao immediately responded.

"When I called you first, you hit the flies in your ears?" Wang Huilan scolded angrily.

"You didn't call me first, you shouted Zhaogu. Yan Bian Zhao returned the favor.

"Isn't it you?"

"My name is not Zhaogu, my name is Yan Bianzhao. ”

"Yan Bian Zhao was given by your father, and Zhao Gu was given by me, both in your name. Hui Lan said.

"Zhaogu is not good, it scolds me, I shouldn't, I don't want this sloppy name. Yan Bianzhao insisted.

No way, Wang Huilan had to call him by his full name after that. Yan Yongnong repeatedly called his son's full name before and after people, and over time, people seemed to understand his intentions, so they called his son "Yan Bianzhao" casually. Later, the name finally became popular among acquaintances.