Chapter 235: Mother Training Daughter
Shan Rao is a very assertive person, and Bian Xuedao is one of the few people who can make her obedient.
A few days ago, she listened to Bian Xuedao's words, stopped going out to look for a house, and thought about whether to go to her aunt's house for a few days, and immediately overturned this idea.
It's definitely no problem to live at my aunt's house, but it's too hard to go to work.
Also, when she came to Beijing in a few days, she had to find a reason for not returning home at night.
As a result, the plan did not change as quickly.
A real estate agent who had contacted before called Shan Rao and told her that she had just had a house in her hand that met Shan Rao's requirements.
Shan Rao went to see it and was quite satisfied.
As for the price, of course, it is a little higher than she expected, and it requires a payment for a year.
Shan Rao wanted to wait for Bian Xuedao to come, but the agent told her that the house in this location was very popular, and she was unsure today, and it might be gone tomorrow.
Shan Rao thought about it, gritted her teeth, and paid the deposit.
Shan Rao's salary is too low, it's good enough to live, she can't save money at all, she can't get a year's rent, there is no way, she walked out of the housing agency, she called home.
Shan Rao's mother's name is Dai Yufen, she works in the Construction Bureau at home, at the department level, and is an idle job.
Listening to Shan Rao talk about the cause and effect on the phone, Dai Yufen couldn't sit still.
The baby daughter who was pinned on her infinite hopes was so uncomfortable living in Beijing, which is not good.
Discuss with Shan Rao's father and ask for a long vacation with the unit, and Shan Rao's mother took the train to Beijing.
After four days in Beijing, on the first day, I went to see the house that Shan Rao wanted to rent, and I went around the house, Dai Yufen directly gave no, in her eyes, the environment of this house is not good, and it is the second floor, and it is not safe to climb into people along the window.
Shan Rao said: "Mom, it's almost enough, if you want to rent a good one, the price will be high." ”
Dai Yufen said: "Don't rent, my mother is taking a long vacation this time, and she plans to come over and buy a suitable house directly." ”
Shan Rao was a little surprised: "Mom, you said to buy a house in Beijing?"
Dai Yufen looked at a high-rise residence on the side of the road and said, "Well, buy a house here." I discussed with your father, when you get married, and we are about to retire, you will definitely move out of Lu when you get married, and we will come to live and bring you children. ”
Shan Rao's eyes widened and said, "Get married, have children, Mom, you think so far." ”
Dai Yufen said: "Can I be like you and don't want anything?"
Shan Rao stopped doing it and said, "Why don't I think about anything anymore?"
Dai Yufen said: "You don't have to think about it, you just do your job well, strive to do it, and then find a good son-in-law and let me hold my grandson as soon as possible." ”
Hearing her mother talk about her son-in-law, Shan Rao said, "I have a boyfriend. ”
Dai Yufen listened, frowned slightly and looked at Shan Rao and said, "Is it still the surname Bian in your school?"
Shan Rao raised her head and asked, "Why do you want to break it?"
Dai Yufen knows her daughter very well, and if she gets entangled in this topic again, she will definitely talk about it.
Some people can cut through the mess quickly, and some people have to simmer slowly.
Dai Yufen's advocacy of buying a house in Beijing this time is more or less a bit of raising the standard of Shan Rao's mate selection, so that Bian Xuedao will retreat because of the difficulties.
In Dai Yufen's heart, her parents are both laid-off workers, and her family is not in business, but purely works for people, so there must not be much money.
Such a background is not right with his own family, and he is not a good son-in-law.
Even if my daughter fell for the other party's gentle means in college, and now she has entered the society and seen a broader world, she has also experienced the pain of no money and no power, I believe that as long as she hands over a few words at the right time, she can let her daughter alienate the surname Bian little by little.
Dai Yufen said: "Let's not talk about these things first, let's settle the affairs of the house first." ”
Shan Rao doesn't want to talk to her mother about learning the Tao now.
First, she hasn't taken a look at the sports hall that Bian Xuedao said, for fear that there is something inconsistent with the information, and it is not beautiful to say that it is early. The second is that she plans to let Bian Xuedao shine at the right time to surprise the whole family.
Anyway, whoever asked Shan Rao to break up with Bian Xuedao, she would definitely be in a hurry.
Dai Yufen and Shan Hong have not been very harmonious, and this time when she went to Beijing, she didn't let Shan Rao tell Shan Hong.
Shan Rao's small dormitory couldn't be opened, so Dai Yufen found a hotel near Shan Rao's unit.
Shan Rao didn't go back to the dormitory after work, so she stayed in the hotel with her mother directly and discussed the house.
Shan Rao was very happy when her mother said that she had bought a house in Beijing, which meant that as soon as her parents retired, the whole family would be able to get together in Beijing.
Dai Yufen arrived in Beijing on Thursday, and the two would not be able to go out until the weekend to look at the property.
On Friday, Shan Rao was in the unit, and she was a little distracted all day, so she had to sit down and use her computer to search for new real estate projects in Beijing that had been launched within half a year.
During the lunch break, Shan Rao went out to buy two maps of Beijing, and in front of the computer, she circled the location of the new real estate on the map with a red pen, and the location was clear at a glance.
Before leaving work, I put down my pen and looked at it, and there were twenty-three circles on the map.
On Friday, Dai Yufen, who stayed in the hotel, was not idle, went out to buy a few newspapers with real estate advertisements, and property market periodicals, took them to the hotel and read them carefully for a while, and then began to ask about the price and other information according to the phone number left above.
Soon, Dai Yufen's expression was not so relaxed.
In several real estate projects advertised in newspapers, the average price per meter is more than 10,000 yuan. The cheap real estate, 3000, 4000, 5000 per meter, is concentrated in Tongzhou and Shunyi.
Take a map of Beijing and look at it, it's far away.
Dai Yufen found that she wanted something wrong.
She is full of confidence and wants to buy a house in Beijing, because the son of a female colleague in the bureau bought a house in Beijing at the end of 2001 and got married, and the purchase was Huilongguan, which is said to be 2,600 yuan a meter.
Although it has been 3 years, Dai Yufen feels that adding 1,000 yuan per meter is about the same.
She and Shan Rao's father, although they are both civil servants, are not the number one, and they have no real power, Shan Rao's father has a bit of gray income, and it is only during the New Year's Festival, and the people below are a little filial.
The two have carefully saved for half their lives and have saved more than 300,000 yuan.
According to Dai Yufen's idea, this time when she came to Beijing, she bought a house of about 130 meters, even if it was worse, she could borrow some from relatives, so that she could settle her home in Beijing.
But when I inquired in Beijing, the house on the edge of the Fourth Ring Road was already 7,000 miles away. Dai Yufen is optimistic about several real estate projects in Lu, and the prices are around 10,000 yuan.
11,000 meters, more than 300,000 yuan in your own home, you can buy a more than 30 meters when you are full, and people don't necessarily have such a small house.
After talking to her husband on the phone, Dai Yufen began to worry.
In the first half of the year, Shan Hong's family bought a third house near the Third Ring Road, which seemed to be more than 6,000 meters at that time, and Shan Hong bought a 150-meter one.
Dai Yufen has been dissatisfied with Shan Hong all her life, but she is still wise in terms of financial resources.
I didn't want to surprise Shan Hong when I bought a house this time, but I couldn't let Shan Hong see a joke.
But whether you buy one outside the fourth ring road or buy one of forty or fifty meters, it will definitely make Shan Hong laugh.
In the evening, when Shan Rao returned to the hotel after work, Dai Yufen looked at the red circles on the map that Shan Rao took out, and couldn't bear to tell Shan Rao that she couldn't eat half a bowl of dinner.
Saturday, sunny.
The mother and daughter got up early, took a simple bite, and began the long road of viewing the house.
In just one day, Dai Yufen was discouraged.
In fact, more than 300,000 yuan, paying a down payment must be enough, but Dai Yufen doesn't want to take too many loans.
Shan Rao's salary will definitely not change much in the short term, and it will depend on her and Shan Rao's father to repay the loan, but their salaries are not much higher.
Shan Rao has long known the approximate amount of savings in her family, so the real estate she has circled is still relatively cheap, but it seems that it still brings a lot of pressure to her mother.
On Sunday, Shan Rao and Dai Yufen went to see Chaoyang New Town and Dingfu Homestead.
Sitting in the car, Dai Yufen said very little along the way, and she didn't have the arrogance she had when she said a few days ago, "Rent, don't rent, just buy a set".
On the contrary, Shan Rao comforted Dai Yufen all the way: "I think Dingfu Homeland is okay, there is a subway, which is very convenient." But it's all affordable housing, and it's not something you can buy if you want to. ”
Dai Yufen didn't make much evaluation of Chaoyang New Town and Dingfu Homes outside the Fifth Ring Road.
In Dai Yufen's heart, the real estate she is most satisfied with is Guanyuan, which is located in Xicheng Chegongzhuang, close to Shan Rao's work unit, and is ideal in all aspects.
But the price......
The average price is more than 10,000 yuan, which is not a good price increase.
Dai Yufen knew in her heart that their family basically couldn't afford the house in Guanyuan.
On Sunday night, the mother and daughter bought takeout and brought it back to the hotel.
On the way back, the two tacitly agreed not to mention the house again.
Actually, it's nothing to change a mother and daughter, if you can't afford it, you can't afford it, how big is it?
But Dai Yufen has a strange temper and surprisingly strong self-esteem, Shan Hong has always respected her for so many years, and has never shown anything to her, but Dai Yufen still compares with Shan Hong everywhere.
Privately, Shan Rao and her father attributed Dai Yufen's situation to competitive syndrome.
In fact, it is precisely because of Dai Yufen's temper and personality that she has not made an inch in the unit for so many years.
Shan Rao knew her mother, and she didn't want her mother to be too sad about the house, so she didn't hesitate to take the initiative to mention Bian Xuedao to her mother.
"Mom, in fact, Bian Xuedao is still very good. Shan Rao said.
"Hmm!" Dai Yufen heard and replied simply.
She really didn't look at Bian Xuedao, including Bian Xuedao's family background, smiling appearance and his small eyes.
"Mom, you don't know the way, Bian Xuedao is particularly talented in making money, when he was 03 years old, he earned more than one million from the Internet. Shan Rao said while picking up vegetables.
"Hmm!hmm?" Dai Yufen was listless just now, and suddenly raised her head to look at Shan Rao.
"What did you just say, who made more than a million dollars?" asked Dai Yufen.
Shan Rao put down the dishes and chopsticks and said: "Bian Xuedao, in 2003, there were more than one million deposits. ”
Dai Yufen also put down the dishes and chopsticks: "Really? How do you know Lu Dao? What did he tell you? Men nowadays can blow, no matter how old or young, they all blow the same, just rely on a mouth to coax women, do you believe this?"