697 It's not that enemies don't meet
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Xiao Yu listened, and couldn't help but smile and said, "Don't you know that sentence? Love is all blind, the more unreasonable a woman is to you, it proves that this woman loves you, and she cares about you very much, otherwise, it is impossible for Jing'er to be empathetic to all people, and only to be unreasonable to you alone, which proves that Jing'er cares about you, understand?"
"But this kind of care also makes people feel a little too tired." Xiao Jingchen rubbed his eyebrows and said.
"In fact, the relationship between two people is like this, they are very blind and unreasonable, you have to adapt. Xiao said with a smile.
Xiao Jingchen looked at Xiao Yu, "Yu'er, you seem to have a very thorough understanding of emotional matters. β
"It's okay, brother, the relationship between the two people needs to be managed, especially after a long time, it is necessary to slowly tolerate each other, you can't deny the feelings between the two of you because of the shortcomings of the other party, which is unfair to anyone. Xiao Yu said.
"I don't, but you really don't understand the matter of the two of us, and I don't know how to tell you, in short, it's very troublesome. Xiao Jingchen said.
"What can't be said, I'm your sister, we're brothers and sisters, is there anything else you can't say?" Xiao Yu asked.
Xiao Jingchen really didn't know how to say it, and he really couldn't say it, but in the face of Xiao Yu's questioning, Xiao Jingchen was really about to be overwhelmed.
Xiao Yu is a smart person, looking at Xiao Jingchen's appearance of wanting to speak and stopping, and he is a little speechless. Xiao Yu also had some thoughts in his heart.
Is it really something that cannot be spoken?
Isn't it related to her?
"Is it because the two of us went out for a walk that night without Jing'er, Jing'er was jealous, and then you think she was unreasonable?" Xiao Yu asked.
Xiao Jingchen didn't expect Xiao Yu to be able to guess this, and looked at Xiao Yu with some surprise, "Why do you think like this?"
Xiao Yu smiled and said, "It's actually quite normal to think like this, don't you and Yuwenmo also look at each other unpleasantly?"
Xiao Jingchen thought about it, although it looks like this, but it's not like this?
After all, Xiao Yu didn't think of most, and he thought about a little less, if he said everything to Xiao Yu, it is estimated that Xiao Yu would be angry.
"Sort of. Xiao Jingchen admitted casually.
"Then you don't need to be angry, it's a woman's prerogative to be unreasonable, Yu Wenmo is still unreasonable, I don't think there's anything, that's how things are, you won't be separated from Jing'er because of this, in this case, you're too hypocritical." Xiao Yu said.
"Where am I going to part with Jing'er because of this, I don't, okay, it's Xiao Jing'er who is unreasonable, I haven't done anything, you are my sister, can't I take a walk with you? Even if I carry you behind my back and make you noodles to eat, is it so unacceptable? I don't understand, how can she have such an idea, I really don't think the explanation can be explained, since she doesn't trust me so much, and thinks so dirty, then what are we doing together? Xiao Jingchen couldn't help but complain.
Xiao Jingchen's complaint, although he didn't say it directly, he also said it almost, and told Xiao Yu all the causes and consequences.
Xiao Yu listened very carefully, she didn't expect Xiao Jing'er to have this kind of thought, how could she be the same as Yu Wenmo.
Of course, Xiao Yu didn't think too seriously, thinking that Xiao Jing'er was just jealous.
But this kind of thinking is really hurtful.
They are brothers and sisters, everyone knows this, where does anyone not know?
Is this necessary? Anyway, in Xiao Yu's opinion, there is no need at all.
"Jing'er is probably jealous too, I said that I asked her to come with me that night, but you didn't agree, but she didn't fall asleep yet, and when she saw it, wasn't she jealous? You can't blame Jing'er. Xiao Yu said.
"I don't blame her, I blame myself, I'm just asking for my own hardship, I might as well listen to my father, just marry a woman and come in, as long as I can manage the affairs of the Xiao family, virtuous and virtuous, generous and decent, and there are not so many troubles, now it's not appropriate at all, just cry and make trouble, as if I'm doing something, it's really annoying. Xiao Jingchen said impatiently.
In fact, Xiao Jingchen really can't be said to be a good-tempered person, many times, Xiao Jingchen starts a fire, which is also terrible, and Xiao Jingchen is usually a little indifferent, not very good at coaxing people.
He was already shouldering the rise and fall of the Xiao family, and he didn't have much time to pay attention to the love of his children.
Now that Xiao Jing'er feels like he's a little tired, sometimes he really doesn't want to take care of Xiao Jing'er.
He used to think that Xiao Jing'er was a generous, decent, virtuous and virtuous woman, and she should be very considerate, but now, where did that Xiao Jing'er go?
What Xiao Jing'er said last night, Xiao Jingchen still remembers it vividly.
It really made Xiao Jingchen sad.
"Brother, you can't say that, I said a long time ago that it is not easy for two people to get along, and you have to tolerate each other. Xiao Yu persuaded.
"I know, I've always known, but I don't really have that much time and experience to have children, you know? I have a lot of things to do, even if I can't be as good as my father and grandfather, I don't want the Xiao family to collapse in my hands, so I can't love all day long, what I give Jing'er is all my respect and like, I let her be the grandmother of the Xiao family, let her control the internal affairs of the Xiao family, give her enough respect and decency, this is what I can do, I don't want to explain to her all day for some trivial things, even if we are brothers and sisters, I just treat you as my own sister, such a thing, I have to explain it non-stop, I think this kind of life is very tiring, really tiredγ Xiao Jingchen said.
Xiao Yu looked at Xiao Jingchen, sure enough, everyone is different, and the definition of feelings is also different.
Xiao Jingchen and Yu Wenmo are two completely different personalities.
Xiao Jingchen's so-called love is the kind of love that can be felt bit by bit in life, to put it bluntly, it is similar to Xiao Qinghe, and it is not to blame that these two people are father and son.
Maybe this method is not very suitable for Xiao Jing'er, but it's no wonder that Xiao Jing'er is a girl after all, and she still has a girl's heart in her heart.
I always fantasize that the person I like can accompany me, more romantic and warm.
"You give Jing'er some time, Jing'er is not very old after all, she can't change her role so quickly, she takes care of these things of the Xiao family every day, basically big and small, she has to do it herself, she has also suffered a lot of pressure, and has also paid a lot, so I think it is normal for her to have some requirements for you, you shouldn't be like this." Xiao Yu persuaded.
"Of course I know, of course I know that she has some requirements for me, which is normal, and I didn't say what would happen, but there are some words, I really can't bear it, I don't want to explain it over and over again, she listens to it every time, and then I don't know if it causes some things to trigger my inner thoughts, and then I relapse into the old ways, it's always like this over and over again, I really can't bear it, Yu'er, every day in the yamen, it's enough to make me upset, I don't want to go back home, and I can't get a moment of peace, I just want to live a quiet life, is it so difficultXiao Jingchen was also a little devastated.
Xiao Yu looked at Xiao Jingchen, "Brother, I think the roles of you and Jing'er have changed a little too fast, especially you, you haven't married yet, you began to ask her to be a qualified housewife, a good wife and a good mother, don't you think this is a little too difficult for Jing'er?" Xiao Yu asked.
Xiao Jingchen sighed, "She's been with me for many years, can't she change roles?" I don't believe it, if that's the case, it proves that I was wrong about her in the first place." β
"You can't say that, anyway, I don't recommend that you break up so uncalmly, anyway, I still have to stay at home for a few days, it's better to talk about it after a few days, after you have calmed down, talk about it, if this time, you really want to break up, then it is estimated that there will be no room for recovery, I think my father and mother will feel very blocked when they see you. Xiao Yu said with a sigh.
That's the way it is, these two people are too child's play, and how many times have they broken up, which really makes people don't know what to say.
"I also understand this in the end, in fact, if it is not a last resort, I don't want to be separated from Jing'er, but if Jing'er continues like this, we will really have a long pain that is better than a short pain. Xiao Jingchen said directly.
To put it in my heart, Xiao Jingchen really likes Xiao Jing'er, and he is definitely very sincere, but he really can't stand Xiao Jing'er's suspicion.
If it was with other women, it would be fine, although, at the beginning, Xiao Jingchen did have a little such a little thought, but with the passage of time, it has long passed, and now it is not like that at all.
His own sister, is it also a mistake for him to take more care and take care of him?
He always felt that Xiao Jing'er was too unreasonable in this matter, and he was upset when he thought about it.
"Jing'er shouldn't have any excessive thoughts, just like last night's incident, she should have been called to come over, and blame me, I really thought she slept, so I didn't insist, just pay attention to it in the future, don't let Jing'er worry too much, if this happens to you, will you be sad?"
"Well, you're my own sister, I just think about it, she doubts me about you, I don't know what to say, I've explained it many times, she still thinks there, what do I say? Xiao Jingchen said helplessly.
"Okay, this is all nonsense, Jing'er may not be because of this, she is probably jealous, at most she is angry that you didn't bring her with you last night, there should be no other reason. Xiao Yu said.
"Okay, let's talk about it in a few days, I'm very busy these days, and I don't have time to care about her, in a few days, when I'm not too busy, I'll talk to her again." Xiao Jingchen said.
"Are you mistaken, Xiao Jingchen, your current relationship is imminent, and do you know that if you don't solve this matter quickly, you may not even be able to catch up with the wedding date, and you are still telling me now, you are very busy, and I will talk about it in a few days, I think you are dizzy." Xiao Yu said angrily, and his face immediately collapsed.
In fact, what Xiao Jing'er said to Xiao Yu last night, although Xiao Yu promised on her lips, she didn't intend to let the two of them really separate, Xiao Yu wanted to do Xiao Jingchen's ideological work first, and then let Xiao Jingchen apologize, after all, Xiao Jingchen is a man, so it doesn't matter.
But I didn't expect Xiao Jingchen's ideological work to be difficult to do, what kind of trouble are these two people going to make?
"Then what do you say?" asked Xiao Jingchen.
"Two days later, I'll settle the matter of the mother and son first, and then match the two of you, you go to Jingshu for dinner the day after tomorrow, I'll let Jing'er be there, and I'll make room for you when the time comes, you two have a good talk and a good exchange, okay?" Xiao Yu asked.
Xiao Jingchen thought for a while, "Okay, I'll listen to you." Xiao Jingchen nodded and agreed.
In fact, Xiao Jingchen almost responds to any request made by Xiao Yu, and he has always been like this.
The brother and sister walked and talked, and they were almost all the way to Jingshu.
Not far away, it was also a coincidence that Xiao Jing'er was carrying a lamp, looking around, and when she saw Xiao Yu, a faint smile appeared on her face, but when her eyes touched Xiao Jingchen, she immediately became very indifferent.
Xiao Jingchen looked at it, as if he turned his head and left, but was stopped by Xiao Yu.
Xiao Yu also knew that Xiao Jing'er came out to greet her, probably not at ease.
It can be seen that Xiao Jing'er's concern for her is beyond words.
Xiao Yu pulled Xiao Jingchen forward, Xiao Jing'er came over with the light, greeted Xiao Yu and asked, "Miss, why did you come back so late, it's dark, are you ready for dinner?" β
"I haven't eaten yet, but I'm really tired this day. Xiao Yu said.
"Then let's go inside, I'll give you a hot meal myself. Xiao Jing'er said as she led the way.
"Let's go with my brother. Xiao Yu looked at Xiao Jingchen and said.
"Oh, I'm sorry, miss, I only prepared your own meal, I didn't prepare much, I didn't expect the uncle to come over. Xiao Jing'er said directly.
Xiao Yu couldn't help but laugh in her heart, this Xiao Jing'er was too ruthless when she spoke.
Sure enough, Xiao Jingchen's face was very ugly, and he said directly, "No need, I'm not hungry, Yu'er, then I'll go first." β
After saying that, he turned around and left.
Xiao Yu looked at Xiao Jing'er.
Xiao Jing'er also looked angry, eager to scold Xiao Jingchen's back.
"Tell me about you, what are you doing here? I'm so angry that I just said that, isn't this making myself unhappy?" Xiao Yu said.
"Hmph, I don't want him to eat what I made. Xiao Jing'er said angrily.
"I said Jing'er, why are you so troubled, the eyes you look at are about to fly over with you, aren't you dying to save face and suffer from sin, if you don't speak just now, my brother will come in with you, and then you can find a chance to have a good chat, what knots can you not solve." Xiao Yu said with a sigh.
Xiao Jing'er's eyes immediately turned red, and she was very aggrieved, "I was also angry, who knew that he left like this, it was really too much, I prepared a meal for the afternoon, Miss, you have to eat more, otherwise I will be really angry." β
After hearing this, Xiao Yu really had no way to take Xiao Jing'er, obviously she just cared about death, but she still had to pretend to be so indifferent, and she really didn't know what to say.
"I'm really convinced of you, okay, I'll try to eat as much as I can, and live up to my affection. Xiao Yu said with a sigh.
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