Text: Chapter 799
Chapter 799
Entrusted to Rentong, the blessing of a foodie, the four plates of sparse sauce directly knocked down Song Zheng, the soul of the whole crew, Song Zheng is the director and the male number one, and now he can't even get out of bed, let alone filming.
Song Zheng is resting in South Africa, but in China, the 1+1 company has become popular again, and the TV series "Golden Wedding", which was originally scheduled to be broadcast on CCTV at the beginning of the year, was delayed until June because of the post-production of director Zheng Xiaolong's excellence, and once it was broadcast, it immediately became popular on the screen.
Youth idol dramas in the mainland seem to have never been a climate, but family ethics dramas have always been a strength, and they are outrageous.
Idol dramas are considered to be successful when the heroes and heroines get married, while marriage in family ethics dramas is often just the beginning.
This "Golden Wedding" produced by 1+1 Company is another marriage guide, but the audience who watched it was quite frightened. Probably all the problems that may be encountered in marriage are written in the TV series, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, children's education, emotional derailment, etc.
How many men in China endure humiliation and splint like Tong Zhi, and how many people want to steal some meat like him, but they have a thief's heart but no thief's guts.
Romantic love is still relatively beautiful, Tong Zhi and Wen Li are not without romance, but romantic marriage is a little unrealistic.
No matter how gentle and elegant a wife is, she will be made mother-in-law by firewood, rice, oil and salt, and no matter how funny and chic her husband is, she will inevitably be discouraged by the trivialities of life, and boredom and quarrels will follow.
But in those marriages where the hand of the son and the son grow old together, something new will always grow on the grave of love, not necessarily love, but there must be love and affection.
Every couple can probably see a little shadow of themselves from Tong Zhi and Wen Li, the long 50 years of their two of them have been condensed into these 50 episodes of TV series, and the analysis is incisive.
But marriage is not a mathematical problem after all, knowing the rules of operation, you can add, subtract, multiply and divide at will to get the desired result, people are emotional animals, and feelings are N times more complex than Goldbach's conjecture.
Going into a besieged city is an adventure, but it's worth the risk.
Happiness is an ambiguous word, and people can't be too greedy.
To sum up, "Golden Wedding" has a happy ending, the process is thrilling, falling in love is a matter of a moment, and living a life is a lifelong thing.
From 1956 to 2005, one episode a year, the family is connected to society, telling the history of 50 years.
In the play, Tong Zhi and Wen Li have been married for 50 years, 50 years of ups and downs, 50 years of snorting and bumping, and they have survived for 50 years.
Love is the matchmaker before young people get married, when they get married, the matchmaker is gone, the romance is gone, love is hidden, and the figure is invisible, and the rest is to have children, old and young people are sick, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and firewood, enough for one person to boil, and then slowly grow old.
So some people say that "marriage is the grave of love", but people are alive, they are temperamental, and they still have extravagant hopes for love, even the honest Tong Zhi still has a Li Tianjiao in his heart, although he does not dare to take a step beyond Lei Chi.
Before marriage is the happiest time, no worries, no "supervision", whimsical and alone, maybe young people see that the elders have too many things in their married life, and they are reluctant to talk about marriage.
Like Dabao and Duoduo, Dabao once said to his father: I would rather be a happy pig than a miserable philosopher like you.
What a brilliant assertion that who would dare to say that he was wrong.
The birth of a painful philosopher must be a person who has gone through a thousand twists and turns in his life and has been tortured by pain, and people like Tong Zhi are a bit similar, but Dazhuang is not like it.
What is love?
This is a thousand-year-old topic, and it is unclear, unclear, and uncertain.
Love is a kind of longing, a kind of satisfaction, a kind of longing, and a kind of expectation. Longing and satisfaction are more realistic, while longing and expectation are more vague, just as far out of reach as ideal communism.
Love is a thing that is difficult to determine, and it is precisely because of this that the topic of "love" has endured for a long time, and has been interpreted by writers into many intricate stories.
"Golden Wedding" reveals two things in the play: first, marriage is living at home, which is a process of birth, old age, sickness and death in life. The combination of the two is to bring their different family environment, education, ideology and living habits. When we encounter problems in life, we have different views and practices, and quarrels are inevitable. The public talks about the public and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, and she is still angry when she doesn't fight for right and wrong, wins or loses. Tong Zhi and Wen Li have come over like this in their lives, sometimes the two of them add bad words, he scolds her as a "madman", and she scolds him for "three indiscriminate", almost to the point of intolerability.
Tong Zhi's mother's thinking is that men are inferior to women, and husbands and children are taught by each other; Wen Li said that men and women are the same, and at the same time they also show their individuality and appear "domineering"; Dabao and Duoduo show that their personalities are independent, free, and unrestrained.
Marriage means self-restraint and responsibility for the family, marriage is not only about feelings, but also about bearing. Without this ideological preparation, it is better not to get married, otherwise as Dabao said, "the intestines will regret it", how many people have fled or defected from marriage because they can't stand this kind of constraint.
Second, long-term quarrels between husband and wife will have a negative impact on the family's environment and infringe on the children's physical and mental health. Ignoring the existence of children, ignoring the feelings of children's hearts, or overdoting and pampering, there will be retribution later, and a lot of rebellion is the result, and she is the most hurt among children.
The husband and wife characters are composed of the characters "two" and "person", and the harmony of the husband and wife in the world is a blessing for the family. To be precise, the fifty years of Tong Zhi and Wen Li are not harmonious, but also the fifty years of stability. It was Tong Zhi, a countryman from Sichuan, who tolerated Wen Li, the eldest lady of Yanjing, for 50 years, and it was Tong Zhi who endured the "little self" and took care of "everyone" for 50 years.
Patience and endurance, this is also the theme of marriage, but after everything fades away, all that is left is moving, and the most touching thing in the whole play is the finale, when the two old people support each other and walk in the snow.
When countless people saw this scene, they couldn't help but cry and their eyes red.
Half a century of holding hands to raise children, firewood, rice, oil and salt, bitter and loving, happy and loving, stumbling and never regretting, fifty years of concentric career, family ups and downs, bitter and sweet, happy and sweet, honey ups and downs forever.
There are no big waves in the whole play, but it is told through a simple and unpretentious forehead, but it makes people feel how many ups and downs of life are contained in it, and how many people envy the highest state.