Chapter 800

"Sister, you're tired!"

Tang Wei, who had finished the recording of the show, had just pushed the door into the lounge, and the little assistant who was waiting inside hurriedly got up, picked up the ginseng tea that had been prepared a long time ago, and handed it over to Tang Wei.

Listening to the little assistant's chatter, although Tang Wei was smiling and responding, she was really not in the mood at all, she was tired, she was too tired during this time.

Tang Wei didn't expect that the TV series "Golden Wedding" could become as popular as it is now, a TV series that did not have too many waves and the whole drama could be called a high tide, once it was broadcast, it instantly became popular all over the country.

Tang Wei was popular, and "True Lies" starring with Song Zheng made her immediately among the ranks of domestic first-line actresses as soon as she debuted.

But since then, Tang Wei seems to have been refrigerated by the company, in fact, many people in the outside world say that she was cold-treated by the company, some people say that she offended Lin Xinru, and some people even say that she was given up by the company because she rejected Song Zheng's unspoken rules.

Unspoken rules?

If the object of the unspoken rules is Song Zheng, Tang Wei does not reject it.

Tang Wei thought and shook his head vigorously, what is this all nonsense, Lin Xinru is her good sister, and it is too unkind to play the idea of her sister's husband.

Tang Wei is still very confident in her position in the 1+1 company, although she has not starred in a big-budget movie since "True Lies", but the work arranged for her by the company every year can still fill her schedule.

Moreover, Tang Wei can also feel that the company, or Song Zheng, attaches great importance to her, because every work and role she starred in was carefully selected, such as this "Golden Wedding", although before the broadcast, Tang Wei didn't think this drama could be popular, but the role of Wen Li, she really enjoyed playing.

Being able to play a role from youth to old age is a rare experience.

"Where are we going next?"

What just ended was a CCTV talk show, and after the show ended, Wu Xiubo rushed to the airport non-stop, and the next stop was to go to the magic capital, where to record a variety show.

The little assistant hurriedly said: "Sister, we are going to the Czech Republic by plane tonight, and the new issue of "Running man" will be recorded there!"

Tang Wei listened to it and remembered that there was indeed this arrangement, as a program produced by 1+1 Company, now that "Golden Wedding" is so popular, it is natural to focus on promoting his family.

"Alas~~~~~~"

The thought of having to sit on a plane for such a long time, and having to go jet lag after arriving in the Czech Republic, Tang Wei felt that he had no strength in his body.

"Why is there no "Birth of a Family"? If you record that show, you don't have to go abroad!"

From the bones, Tang Wei is a lazy person, usually when he doesn't have a job, he likes to stay at home, and now he wants to go abroad, but it costs her life.

"Sister, when we came back from the Czech Republic, we were about to record "The Birth of a Family". ”

Tang Wei was stunned for a moment, and spread it directly on the sofa: "Let no one live." ”

As he spoke, Tang Wei took out his mobile phone, found Song Zheng's number, and was about to call it, when he suddenly thought that Song Zheng was still in Africa, so he had to give up helplessly.

It would be nice to go to South Africa to record, and you can also go to see Tang Yan.

"Let's go! Let's go eat first!"

Tang Wei knew that the company had arranged her schedule so full, and it was also for her own good, although she would complain a little, but the work arranged by the company could not be left out.

came out of CCTV and was waiting for the car, Tang Wei was often found by the melon-eating crowd who often appeared around the CCTV building, waiting to see the star, and Hula came around at once, although Tang Wei was very tired, he still smiled and met the audience's request for autographs and group photos.

"Sister, you also said yesterday that the people who like "Golden Wedding" are middle-aged and elderly, and the people who were looking for you to sign just now are all young people. ”

Sitting in the car, the little assistant said excitedly that her own artist is on fire, and she is also honored to be an assistant.

Tang Wei didn't speak, he picked up a magazine in the car, and after opening it, there was actually an article introducing "Golden Wedding" in it, this TV series is really popular.

When the original version of "Golden Wedding" was broadcast in the previous life, it was also a red mess, but it did not reach the current level, the original Tong family couple, Zhang Guoli played the husband, Jiang Wenli played the wife, the acting skills of the two of them cooperated perfectly in the play, and now they have been replaced by Wu Xiubo and Tang Wei, which also cooperate seamlessly, which is also the second important factor for the success of this play, the first is of course a pretty good script.

From 1956 to 2005, this TV series spans almost all historical periods in the development of China's new society, in which the emotional epitome of a family.

If you know that a marriage spans 50 years, I wonder what people's first feelings will be?

Do you feel so happy that you can last so long?

Or is it so bland that it can be maintained?

After watching this TV series, you will find that the taste of life and marriage is very complicated, and if you have to sum it up in one word, it is probably five flavors.

There are emotions such as joy, happiness, sweetness, boredom, boredom, resentment, anger, pain, and so on.

There is an article that said that even if you are in a happy marriage, in this life, you will have the idea of divorcing each other more than 5 times and stranglehold each other more than 10 times.

In this way, marriage is never simple, it is a lifelong continuous integration between men and women, a lifelong continuous battle.

Although there are a total of 50 episodes of this drama, each episode is basically based on the historical period at that time, including the anti-right, the Great Leap Forward, the Great Leap Forward, the Great Revolution, the movement to go to the mountains and the countryside, the resumption of the college entrance examination, reform and opening up, the return of Xiangjiang, the fight against SARS, the Olympic bid, etc., the life of an ordinary person's marriage is refracted in these backgrounds.

Although the times are different, the focus of attention and the problems faced by husband and wife are still very vivid now, because no matter what the environment is, the essence of life and the collision of human nature have never changed.

For the first 10 years, the ages of both parties are 25 to 35 years old, which is the new period of marriage. The beginning of a marriage, like the formative years of a child, is mixed with more happiness and joy.

If there is no marriage even in this period, it is difficult to imagine what foundation will be used to maintain the long decades that will follow. Two people in a marriage are addicted to sexual pleasure and the excitement of raising children, although there are some small contradictions, but in the spirit of love for each other, it is easy to resolve these contradictions, just like life, the emotional life of childhood has a very strong impact on a lifetime.

This period is an era that has never been experienced by young people today, there are anti-rightist, great leap forward, three-year arduous period, etc., this film is not like those films that specifically describe this historical period to make people feel heavy and depressing, but through an ordinary couple's cautiousness in interpersonal relationships, wariness and distrust between people, expressing the psychological panic of that anti-rightist period.

The absurd era of collecting scrap iron during the Great Leap and Advance period, and even having to donate their own rice pots to make steel, is ridiculous, and during the three-year hard period, the people of the whole country, regardless of the old people or children, are hungry, and their faces are yellow and thin, struggling on the survival line, which makes modern people palpitate.

There is also the era of the planned economy that relied on food stamps, meat stamps, cloth stamps, and even bicycle tickets and television tickets, all of which made people of this generation feel familiar and unfamiliar.

A couple in "Golden Wedding" has basically the same family background and life value orientation, and lives happily together after free love.

But in that era of severe material scarcity, it was absolutely not enough to rely on reading to sustain the spirit, and the importance of spiritual food seemed so insignificant.

Because of many quarrels between husbands and wives and neighbors that occur because the family can't open the pot, although the main line of the story is because of material scarcity, the subtle psychological and linguistic performance of the comparison between women, whether it is for appearance, clothing, husbands, children, etc., is still very appropriate and vivid now.

In addition, the subtle psychology of giving birth to boys and girls about parenthood is also vividly expressed. When the wife found out that the second child was thought to be a boy, but was still a daughter, she was almost hysterical, hardly looked at it, and said a reason that she had nothing to eat and could not feed, so she gave the child to her grandmother's house.

When it was discovered that the fourth child might still be a daughter, the mother was completely close to breaking down, and when she finally found out that it was a son, the family's performance made people laugh.

The second 10 years,The protagonist's age is between 35 and 45,It's already entered the flat period of marriage.,Sex is not the freshest thing.,The process of having children is basically completed.,The children are gradually growing up.,This actually began to enter a subtle seven-year itch.。

Although life makes people feel ordinary, in the eyes of women, they feel very fulfilling, with men with them and children around, this day is not bad.

However, for men, they began to have the ideal need to achieve their careers, but it was in the period of culture, culture, revolution, and life, so they were very depressed and bored mentally.

Men live a life where they don't have to go to work and do nothing, but women don't care how the times change, but the life of the family has to worry. Contradictions began to come out, women especially liked to complain, and men began to be reluctant to go home and hang around.

Finally, in the early 70s, with the promulgation of the big policy of "digging holes and accumulating grain deeply", the first-line heavy industrial units entered the third line, and the husband actively went to the third-line work of development for more material opportunities and promotion opportunities, in other words, for the sake of men's career ideals, and the work was carried out very prosperously.

Just one day I met a smart and beautiful woman in the same factory, and the man's psychology began to ripple, and under the woman's fierce emotional offensive, the adult man's heart retreated.

A confidante is a beautiful scenery in my heart, I don't want to make trouble for myself, I'm afraid there is more of a vague heart, and a man is reluctant to tell his wife about her. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, but when the two sympathized with each other, after all, they were in the same factory, and his wife knew about this woman. The woman's jealousy was so big that she made a lot of noise in the leader. The man had to come back to the house and start living a boring life again. One of the most classic words is what the wife said to her husband: You said that you haven't even touched her hand, so you touched her heart, right?

In the third 10 years, the protagonist is 45 to 55 years old and enters a fragile period of marriage. The wife found that although the man had returned home, the husband had sworn that he was innocent with the woman, but the wife was very sad, and she felt that even if the husband did not touch the woman's hand, he touched her heart, which was also unforgivable. Whenever the opportunity arises, the wife will insinuate and ridicule the man and the woman, and the husband will feel very bitter about this.

The woman still loves this man deeply, and there are several opportunities, maybe providential, maybe deliberately, and she has many opportunities to work with the male protagonist.

Every time the husband wants to take the initiative to tell his wife about this, but he doesn't know if he is really afraid of his wife's seizure, or he wants to keep it secret from the bottom of his heart, but he didn't tell him after all, waiting for his wife to hear the news of the two of them from other people's mouths every time, and the wife is very angry and painful every time, thinking that although her husband's body is at home, his heart is not at home at all, not at home. This makes a woman feel unforgivable, and many times denies the happiness she has received in the past, thinking that it is all fake.

The past 10 years have basically been spent in the wife's ridicule of her husband and the hot war of words, and the husband has suppressed the pain, and it is difficult to distinguish it, which is very painful.

In the past 10 years of married life, the audience in front of the TV has been very depressed, and this contradiction is definitely not that the wife is alone there to make trouble, and the husband's performance is also very imperfect, but the performance in that case seems to be helpless.

Even so, because of each other's emotions and concerns, as well as the bond of children, they are finally inseparable.

In fact, if you analyze it now, it is that a man may fall in love with more than one woman at the same time in a period of time, and a woman can only fall in love with one man at the same time.

Men are social, while women are family, and men have a wide range of contacts, so it is possible for them to put their hearts outside the family and feel fun, while women, who only put their hearts on a few people in the family, over time, they are prone to narrow vision and narrow-mindedness, in fact, this is also the eternal contradiction between men and women in marriage.

The 40th and 50th years of marriage, entering the fourth period of marriage, the maturity of marriage, the age of the protagonist ranges from 55 to 75 years.

During this period, the children have grown up and become independent, and their marital problems, which are the focus of their parents' concerns, finally shift their focus to each other to the children, and begin to let go of their previous emotional problems.

They began to work together to worry about the children, although they often quarreled because of their respective opinions, but it was already a problem of communication among the people, and it was no longer a conflict between friend and foe similar to the previous period.

It was a relatively uneventful period, but they finally began to enjoy their own lives, exercising together, visiting old friends together, and enjoying the spiritual and material pleasures that their children bring.

During this period, the content of the husband and wife is no longer so wonderful and good-looking, because the contradictions have been diluted, but new marriage problems of the children's generation have also appeared, and they are accompanied by many characteristics of the times, such as the third party, unmarried pregnancy, married infertility, only love and not marriage, etc.

The old couple constantly collides with these new era perspectives with their old views, and the ideological forms and consciousnesses between the two generations have been very different, but they are not completely unable to blend.

In short, living a happier life, whether in the form of marriage or the pursuit of self-fulfillment, is an ultimate goal in the new era or the old era.

At the end of the TV series, the old couple who had passed the golden wedding continued to walk forward arm in arm, looking at their departing backs, many people thought about the same thing: how difficult it was.

Perhaps to many people, including their own daughters and outsiders, they have been constantly fighting all their lives, as if they were living very unhappy.

However, in fact, happiness is not just a simple concept, and it is not a lifetime of pleasant faces, songs and laughter that is happiness.

The kind of common pursuit, to cherish and love each other in the heart, although there will be a lot of disharmony on the surface, constantly contradictory and constantly adjusted, in fact, it is a kind of rich happiness.

Because, after all, life is complicated.

Maybe from the perspective of an outsider, looking at the Tong family husband and wife, people are rational, and when there is a contradiction in the marriage, think more about it from the other party's standpoint, maybe it will be easier to resolve this contradiction, because people are constantly changing, and the environment in which people are located is also constantly changing, which affects the individual, so only by constantly adjusting and adapting can life continue.

If there is a contradiction and sharply elevates it and breaks it, then it is entirely possible for a person to divorce 20 times in his life.

But really in it, people can never keep their sanity all the time, and all they can do is to continue to progress, adjust and tolerate both parties without principled contradictions, and finally continue this relationship, or this kind of marriage relationship, which is already commendable.

"Golden Wedding" tells such a story, combined with the social environment of each different period, interpreting the shortcomings of the family's parents, although it is bland, but every emotional twist and turn they have experienced, it is easy to find a familiar feeling around them, and even in their own bodies, which may be the reason why "Golden Wedding" is so popular now.