Chapter II: Self-Defense and Counterattack
Sun Lili got off the bus, it was already dark, and the air was filled with the fragrance of food. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 The pedestrians on the info road are in a hurry, they may have a dinner party with friends, or they may be in a hurry to have dinner with their families. Tomorrow is the weekend, and these office workers finally ushered in the most anticipated day of the week, and they all looked relaxed. On weekdays, she always likes to secretly observe these unknown people somewhere, dressing up, talking and behaving, joys and sorrows, everyone is a story, this world is imprinted in her eyes, like a big movie, joys and sorrows make her never get tired of watching it. Today, Sun Lili has no time to pay attention to these strangers, she is in a hurry, and she is in a hurry to rush home, because there will be a big drama going on at her house.
After talking to her mother-in-law a few days ago, she vented all her grievances on Qin Dabao, and she has been lukewarm to him in the past few days. After chatting with Su Qing today, she slowly calmed down, since she decided to give birth, Qin Dabao is still the father of the child after all, and this matter has to be discussed with him. Sun Lili made up her mind, tonight, whether it is soft grinding and hard bubbles, or moving with affection, knowing with reason, in short, no matter what means are used, Qin Dabao's work must be done, as long as the husband and wife are determined to do the same thing, everyone else will have to shut up!
Sun Lili firmly believes that the two children will be an indestructible bond between her and Qin Dabao, firmly tethering them together, and no amount of wind and rain can blow them away.
"Mom, Mom, Grandma is here!" As soon as Sun Lili opened the door of the house, her daughter Linglong flew into her arms and reported the "good" news to her as soon as possible.
Sun Lili frowned, it's really a blessing or a curse, it's a disaster that can't be avoided, what should come is going to come after all, but it's too urgent, the negotiation failed two days ago, and she came to the door to force the palace today, and the old lady was in a hurry to preemptively strike before she succeeded in snatching Qin Dabao's strong backing.
"Mom, you're here. Lily's respectful greetings.
Although there are differences of opinion and there have been a war of words, in front of his mother-in-law, no matter how much he loses his manners. If you are not wronged now, there will be a lot of grievances waiting for you in the future. Lily knew it.
It's just that in the next scene, how should she sing it? Should she sing red-faced or white-faced? While changing her shoes, Lily secretly "secretly sent autumn waves" to Qin Dabao, hoping to obtain some information by "flirting with her eyebrows". I saw Qin Dabao sitting at the dining table alone, holding his head with both hands, his hair was messy like a bird's nest, he lowered his head and didn't say a word, and at this moment, he didn't even dare to take Lily's gaze.
"This deserter! traitor!" Sun Lili still understood Qin Dabao after all, and when she looked at this formation, she could roughly judge what had happened in her home before she came back. Qin Dabao is a filial son, he never dares to say a word in front of his mother, his mother's words are holy decrees, even if he feels inappropriate, he never disobeys, and no matter how unreasonable the request, he will accept it all. Sun Lili remembered that when they first got married, they were going to Bali for their honeymoon, Yao Guiying said that she had never traveled abroad, and she wanted to take this opportunity to take her husband with her, Qin Dabao agreed without talking to Sun Lili. The old couple followed the whole process, and Yao Guiying took care of her son meticulously, "Dabao, eat more!" "Dabao, don't go into the sea, you can't swim!" "Dabao......" Lily's head is about to explode, and a honeymoon is ruined.
Today, seeing that her husband was depressed and didn't even have the courage to look at herself, Lily knew that the old lady had won the first battle, and Qin Dabao had collapsed.
It seems that she Sun Lili is going to fight alone again.
"Linglong, have you eaten?" asked Sun Lili pretending to be relaxed.
"No, we'll wait for you to come back and eat together!" Linglong is more than three years old, the girl is precocious, and she feels that she already has the taste of a little adult.
"Mom, just now grandma was murdering Dad, she said that Dad's brain is broken, why is Dad's brain broken?
Poof! Qin Dabao seemed to hear the sound of a sharp knife piercing his heart, his muscles tightened, his heart jumped violently, he felt that a storm was about to come, and he was the poor man who had no umbrella and nowhere to shelter from the rain.
"Lily, come on, come on, let's eat first. Seeing this, Yao Guiying immediately greeted him, with a smile on her face. She knew that it was a bit too much to persuade them to kill the child, but in the future, when they lived a comfortable and comfortable life, they would eventually understand and even thank their good intentions today. The key now is to bring her wavering son to her camp, and she knows his son's weakness - he will always defend his mother, especially when he is vulnerable.
Sun Lili didn't speak, but still walked to the table and sat down, she was thinking about how to deal with Yao Guiying's unreasonable request for a while, Qin Dabao also raised his head, he saw that his mother did not mention the matter of abortion, he was a little surprised and did not dare to relax his vigilance easily, Yao Guiying had already served everyone a meal at the moment, and while beckoning everyone to hurry up and move the chopsticks, while planning how to start this good show. On the surface, the family is gentle and drizzling, but in fact, everyone has a small abacus in their hearts, which is crackling at the moment.
"Linglong, come, eat a prawn! Grandma bought your favorite shrimp on the way here today, try it!" Yao Guiying said as she peeled the shrimp and stuffed it into Linglong's mouth. But Linglong only chewed two bites and spit it out.
"Hey, what's the matter, Linglong, you love to eat this shrimp, why do you vomit it all!" asked Yao Guiying.
"Grandma, it's spicy, it's so spicy!" Linglong pouted, her face full of displeasure.
Yao Guiying dipped some soup with chopsticks and tasted it. "This kid, what's spicy, I just put a little red pepper, it's not spicy at all! Eat the meat quickly, do you know, your dishes here are much more expensive than your hometown! The price of this shrimp is enough for you to eat several meals in your hometown! Don't waste it!" she said as she stuffed the shrimp meat into Linglong's mouth.
"I don't eat! I don't eat!" Linglong shouted as she hid behind Sun Lili, shaking her head like a rattle.
"Mom, Linglong is still young, and she can't eat spicy. I'll eat it. Sun Lili said.
Of course, Yao Guiying knew that Linglong couldn't eat spicy, but if she didn't put some spicy food in this prawn today, this good show would not be able to start.
"Hey", Yao Guiying sighed, ate silently, and said to herself for a while: "The things in this city are really expensive, I originally thought that only this house is expensive, but today I went to the vegetable market and found that the price of this vegetable is also so much more expensive than our rural place! I heard that Lily doesn't like to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, she goes to the supermarket next to her house, and this monthly expense is much more." Now relying on Dabao's income of less than 10,000 yuan, the shrimp will almost be unaffordable if it goes on like this, and it will be interesting to see how Linglong picks and chooses. After speaking, she glanced at Sun Lili.
Sun Lili felt the eyes thrown by her mother-in-law, complaining, contempt, and sympathy, it was really electric and mixed. In the past few years, because she has been a full-time wife at home, I don't know how many such eyes my mother-in-law has suffered. During the Chinese New Year this year, when it came to Lily's work, her mother-in-law actually said in front of her and her parents, "I can't even raise my head in the neighborhood now, people ask me, what kind of work does your daughter-in-law do in the big city? It's just that people are not as good as heaven, and if one accidentally gets pregnant again, imagine which unit is willing to recruit a woman who has just become pregnant? I'm afraid that this work will be delayed again, no wonder my mother-in-law's face is gloomy.
However, Sun Lili was also full of grievances. When she was just pregnant with Linglong, she had a job, but the pressure of working in a private company was high, and it was common to work overtime, she was always red for unknown reasons in the first trimester, and the doctor recommended bed rest as the main thing, so she quit her job and went home to have a baby, which was also discussed with Qin Dabao. Later, the child was born, Lily insisted on exclusive breastfeeding, wanting to let the child be weaned naturally, and it was best to feed until the age of two, so she never went out to find a job, although she was at home, but it was not a blessing to be idle, how difficult it was to bring up a child, eating, drinking, Lazar, headache and brain fever, Qin Dabao didn't care, these are all responsible for her, there are a lot of things after the child is three years old, kindergarten pick-up, class daily activities, interest classes to accompany students, holidays to play...... In short, it is non-stop from morning to night. At that time, I also thought about asking my mother-in-law to help take care of the children, so that I could go out to work, but first, the business of the garment factory in my hometown needed someone to take care of it, and second, Lily and her mother-in-law had many conflicts with the methods and concepts of taking care of the children, so I gritted my teeth and took it with me.
Now, she has helped the Qin family raise her granddaughter, but the Qin family doesn't accept her affection, but instead talks about her lack of work. If the child was still in infancy, but Sun Lili insisted on coming out to work, how could Qin Dabao have the idle life she has now? How could her in-laws' family take care of business with peace of mind? But otherwise, she would be able to hold her head up in the Qin family?
A chill drifted through Sun Lili's heart, she looked up at Qin Dabao, and thought that her husband could help her explain a few words, even if she said "Lily is very hard with children", she would be satisfied. However, Qin Dabao was enjoying a braised prawn with his head bored, without saying a word, as if they were discussing something that had nothing to do with him.
Mourning is greater than dying. After marrying Qin Dabao, Sun Lili had such thoughts more than once. However, what a strong woman she was, she refused to bow her head at any time, let alone tearful eyes, and prayed pitifully for comfort.
"Mom, I know what you mean, but I'm not enjoying myself at home. With no one to support her, Lily had to defend herself.
"Of course Mom knows your hard work. In that case, why do you say you are bothered...... Why bother asking for trouble and having another one?". Yao Guiying said this, showing an incredible expression, as if she was looking at a monster. "It's not so simple to have a child, there was only one Linglong before, you can barely cope with it alone, but now there is another one, even if you have three heads and six arms, you may not be able to take care of it!"
Sun Lili heard the meaning of her mother-in-law's words - "If you want to give birth, I won't help you take care of the child." She smiled bitterly, yes, people don't agree with you to give birth, if you really give birth to a child, naturally you can't ask her to take it.
"My parents are retired, and I talked to them about asking them to help when the time comes. Sun Lili didn't raise her eyes, and threw out a plan. It is said that the daughter who marries is the water that is spilled, but now her mother's family seems to have become Lily's only confidence.
Qin Dabao's mother and son looked at each other, and Yao Guiying glared at her son fiercely. Qin Dabao asked vaguely with rice in his mouth: "Why don't I know if you let your parents come to live?"
"Isn't this a discussion with you?" Sun Lili said.
At that time, Sun Lili insisted on taking care of the children by herself, one of the big reasons was that she didn't like her mother-in-law to interfere in parenting, and now she offered to let her parents take it, this kind of "favoritism" made Qin Dabao feel that his mother was wronged.
No matter how cowardly a person is, there are untouchable death holes, and Qin Dabao's death hole is his mother Yao Guiying.
"Didn't you say back then that it was unscientific for the elderly to take care of their children, and that they had to do everything by themselves? Why has it changed now?" Qin Dabao asked sharply.
"It's a different story now!" said Lily. "In the future, two children will be in need of manpower. My parents don't have to take care of the business and are willing to come to help, you should be grateful to them!" This was said to Qin Dabao, and even more to Yao Guiying.
Lily just wants to vent her evil anger, she has been married to Qin Dabao for more than four years, and the two of them have never lost when they quarrel with her, Sun Lili has never lost, but as long as the content involves Yao Guiying, Qin Dabao is like a god of war possessed, and he has to kill every time, without exception. Sure enough, Qin Dabao, who couldn't beat a sullen fart with three sticks today, immediately exploded again when he heard Lily accusing Sang of scolding Huai and saying that his mother was not!
"Lily, it's not that Mom doesn't want to help you take care of the children, it's just that ...... Hometown is really inseparable from people. Yao Guiying said resignedly.
"Mom, you don't have to explain, I don't expect you to help me take care of the child, the child has a headache and brain fever over the years, he is sick and hospitalized, you have never come to help, let alone take a look, at most on weekdays, I have sent a few baskets of wild eggs, you regard business as more important than the child, I respect you, but please also respect and respect me and the child in my belly, no matter what, he is also your own grandson, right? Sun Lili poured beans into a bamboo tube, and poured out her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law's family.
"Sun Lili, what do you know? Don't talk to your mother like that!" Qin Dabao stood up, his index finger was about to poke Lily's forehead, his eyes were red, and he looked angry.
"How did I speak? What I said was the truth! I immediately apologized if any sentence was made up! I didn't force you to take the child, and you didn't force me to have an abortion! Qin Dabao, did I conceive this child when I pointed a gun at you? What are you yelling at me now?" Sun Lili is ready to die today, if she can't keep the child, she and Qin Dabao don't have to live any further.
"Lily, you're wrong to blame Dabao!" Yao Guiying's eyes were red, and she stopped talking.
"Mom and Dad don't have the obligation to help you take care of your children! Do you say that you have ever cared about them over the years? Why do you say that they are reluctant to do business so they don't come to take care of their children? Today I will tell you that my dad had a physical examination three years ago, and hepatitis B is a big three yang! And it has been accompanied by liver cirrhosis! Although living together will not spread, after all, the child is still young, and my father will not come over for anything, for fear that it will not be good for the child, and he will be disgusted if you know! My mother is not worried that he is alone in his hometown, so she pretends that she is too busy with business to leave, and she does not come to take the child! Mom and Dad don't want to cause us trouble! Even me, even I hid it! I just found out about it!" Qin Dabao slapped himself in annoyance after speaking.
When did this story come out? Sun Lili suddenly felt a thunderbolt in the sky, and she looked at her mother-in-law and didn't know what to say for a while. Yao Guiying had already cried into tears at this time, and even Linglong was frightened by the scene in front of her, and cried together.
Sun Lili wanted to cry without tears at this time, she originally felt that she had the advantage in today's matter, so she wanted to make a big counterattack and win the game in one go, but she didn't expect the plot to reverse so quickly! She was annoyed by her impulse just now, but she didn't know how to save the scene, so she had to stand in a daze.
It was only an hour after the opening, and Sun Lili's first self-defense counterattack was defeated in the cry of the family and Qin Dabao's loud slap.