It is often said that love is for two people, and marriage is for two families. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 infoThat's true. Marrying someone or marrying someone, then you have to pack up his or her whole family and bring it home with you, this kind of thing is like a gamble, if the person you love happens to have a normal family, it happens that you can get along with his parents, and it happens that your parents and his parents can also be united and harmonious, then congratulations, you must have saved the galaxy in your last life.

There are also some people who are in love with the object, but they are like fire and water with his family, or you meet strange parents, parents who are very controlling, self-centered parents, in short, they can always have a way to make it impossible for you to live a good life, of course, this situation also happens from time to time. If you are the latter, then it is a pity that your luck is obviously not good enough, in this case, in addition to testing the depth of the relationship between the husband and wife, it is also a test of your IQ, emotional intelligence, mind, endurance and other aspects.

Although "Love House and Wu" is only four words, it is also a profound knowledge, and it is difficult to do it well.

Sun Lili and Qin Dabao are unlucky, they obviously belong to the latter.

It was already more than eight o'clock in the evening when Yao Guiying and Qin Tian rushed to Qin Dabao's house in Hangzhou, and they received a call from Sun Quangen that afternoon.

"Father-in-law, mother-in-law, what happened to surprise you?" Yao Guiying pushed away her son, who was standing at the door with a stunned look, and shouted at the top of her voice when she entered the door.

Sun Quangen was angry, after he was dragged back to the room by his wife, he sat on the edge of the bed alone and sulked, as soon as he heard that Yao Guiying was coming, he immediately rushed out of the room, and before he had time to say hello, he yelled at Yao Guiying.

"Gui Ying, our two families are more or less fateful, Lily and her aunt are old friends with you, she still gave her introduction back then, you said that I married my daughter to your Qin family to know the roots, rest assured, even if Lily is not here to enjoy the blessings, she can't let her suffer such a crime!"

"Old Sun, old Sun, don't you spew blood and say things so ugly, what is the crime of your Lily?

"You go and ask your son! Why are you asking me? You let him have the face to say it himself!"

Yao Guiying glared at her son fiercely, and slapped Qin Dabao on the head, of course, she was not willing to use much strength. "Come on, don't just eat with a mouth, tell me everything that happens, don't leak the ins and outs at all, let me and your father listen carefully, how you abuse your daughter-in-law!"

Although Yao Guiying reprimanded her son viciously, anyone could hear it, but there were still words in it.

Qin Dabao had already put the mixed emotions just now behind him, he stood in front of Yao Guiying respectfully, like an obedient child, and seriously told his mother everything about Lily's low blood sugar illness in the morning to the slap he had just slapped Linglong.

Sun Quangen listened on the side, he raised his chin high, his hands clasped around his chest, and after Qin Dabao finished telling the whole story, he glanced at Yao Guiying with his spare eyes, and a faint "hum" floated out of his nose, as if he was waiting for something with a haughty attitude.

"Dabao, Lily almost fainted from low blood sugar in the kitchen, and you didn't hear any movement?" asked Yao Guiying.

"Really no, it was still so early, I did a project last night, I worked overtime until the early hours of the morning, and I slept heavily in the morning, besides, Lily was in the kitchen so far away from the bedroom......" Qin Dabao said aggrievedly.

Yao Guiying's nervous expression suddenly relaxed, the corners of her mouth rose slightly, and an imperceptible smile crossed her face, fleeting.

"Father-in-law, you also heard how hard Dabao works, in order to support this family, he has to work until the early hours of the morning when he goes home at night, how do you let him wake up at six o'clock in the morning?" Yao Guiying was obviously very proud.

"This pregnant woman is easy to get hungry, easy to low blood sugar, Lily doesn't go to work, she can't sleep too late at home, she has to get up to eat when it's time, she has to sleep until she wakes up naturally, and she only wants to eat when she is hungry, then it's too late!

Sun Quangen heard it, the core idea of this series of cannon-like lines is that her daughter doesn't make money if she doesn't go to work, and she has to be served at home. His high chin slowly lowered, and he asked incredulously, "You mean, my Lily is lazy, that's why she has low blood sugar?"

"Haha, father-in-law, I didn't say that, you see, Lily is also in her thirties this year, and it is hard to take care of the family at ordinary times, this pregnancy is just the beginning, and what is even more annoying in the future is that after the child is born, I think Lily's physiology and psychology are not suitable for having children again. You're here to persuade her!"

"You fart!" As soon as Sun Quangen heard that Yao Guiying had turned the topic to the abortion again, the fire didn't hit one place, "Do you think my daughter's belly is your ploughed field or a broken clothes?"

"Grandson, father-in-law, how do you know that it must be a grandson? I think Lily is probably still a daughter like this!" Yao Guiying said leisurely. "However, our old Qin family is not a patriarchal family, and we think it's good to have Qin Linglong's eldest granddaughter! Why do you have to have another grandson? My father-in-law, your feudal thinking must also be changed!"

"You...... Don't talk about it in a big way!" Sun Quangen was choked by Yao Guiying and couldn't speak. He thought to himself, I don't know you like a shrew. He turned his head and pulled Qin Tian, who was standing behind Yao Guiying and didn't speak for a long time, and asked, "Old Qin, you are the head of the family, you made a clear statement today, what do you Qin family think about the child in Lili's belly?"

"This ......" Qin Tian looked at his wife and then at his son, and finally he decided to tell the truth.

"Old grandson, I welcome the child. But......" Qin Tian paused, looking a little embarrassed.

"Lao Qin, if you have any ideas, you just say it, you don't need to spit it out!" Sun Quangen's temper came up again.

Qin Tian swallowed his saliva, as if he had made up his mind, and said: "You also know how big the living expenses are in Hangzhou, just one house is enough to keep people busy for most of their lives, have you considered this problem after giving birth to a second child?"

Sun Quangen and his wife Tao Cuiping next to him glanced at each other and said, "What do we need to consider?"

"Old Sun, our Qin family has a small workshop, but to put it bluntly, it is self-sufficient, barely maintained, since we are not rich and rich, the problem of having a second child naturally needs to be thought through in advance. Qin Tian cleared his throat, his gaze swept over everyone in the room, only Sun Lili had not shown up since the old couple entered the door, so he glanced at the closed door, and deliberately raised his voice and said loudly: "First of all, Dabao and their little two are now in this house, you have also seen it, although it is said that there are three bedrooms and one living room, but the study is so small that it is impossible to live well, will the two children have to have two rooms in the future?" Second, they have to have two children, and this food, clothing, housing, transportation, education and training, everything must be doubled, and the expenditure is at least doubled, and now the income of Dabao alone is barely balanced, what should they do in the future? Also, Linglong has to prepare a dowry when she grows up, it can't be too bad, right? This is it, if this baby is a son, then you have to prepare a house in the future, Hangcheng is now every inch of land, a house is often millions, and it will be even more unpredictable in the future, where will this money come from? Have you ever thought about these questions? Have you ever calculated how much it would cost to have a second child? Millions of dollars are too little!"

Qin Tian's words were loud, and everyone present was speechless, although Sun Lili was in the room, she also listened to it clearly, she calmed down and thought carefully about her father-in-law's words, I have to say, these words were like a torpedo, and exploded in her calm heart, in order to be angry with her mother-in-law, she has been avoiding thinking about these practical issues, today. Qin Tian said it slowly, although it was not slow, but like a fast train, it whizzed past her mind, and her brain was buzzing and chaotic. After a while, she heard her father's voice sound again.

"In today's society, when is it so difficult to raise a child? In the past, in our countryside, which family did not have two or three children running all over the place, and which family's baby did not grow up well, marry a wife and have children? What kind of delay?"

"That was in the past, in the past, we just had to feed ourselves and not starve to death, but is it okay now? Our next-door neighbor, Xiao Zhang's family, bought all the food and diapers from abroad when the children were born! When I grew up, I had to participate in various classes, and on that day I went to give my children to build blocks, what is it called Lego, and it costs more than 100 yuan for an hour in a class! In a year, I will need 30,000 or 40,000 yuan for this alone! And ......."

"Okay, okay, old man, why are you nagging, these things are best known to the two of them, how much money is made by children now! A doll's clothes are hundreds of dollars, more expensive than mine!" Yao Guiying also came up to help.

Sun Quangen and his wife looked at each other, they really didn't know that their children needed to be raised like this. When they were young, the country began to implement the family planning policy, each family only gave birth to one child, and every family loved their own family's single seedling, Sun Lili and Qin Dabao their generation of post-80s, almost already soaked in a honey pot, and now the country has opened up the two-child policy, but the thinking pattern left by the one-child period is so deep-rooted, the old people are used to the model of one child, and there are more children in the family are a little hurried and helpless. And this generation of only children gradually grew up and became young parents, and they themselves have not even learned what it means to share, what it means to be selfless, and what it means to retreat, and then they educate their children with a few parenting books and a few public accounts. They only know how to throw money at their children, as if the harder they smash, the happier and more productive the children will be.

Sun Quangen shook his head a little helplessly, he felt that Qin Dabao and Sun Lili were exactly like this, they didn't know what accommodation, tolerance, understanding, and communication were, they were still used to being pampered and loved, and they were centered on their own feelings, so they were like this. However, these are all social problems, and you shouldn't give up your life just because the whole society is sick, right?

Thinking of this, Sun Quangen gritted his teeth, and he came up with a way to have both worlds.

"Lao Qin, what you said has a certain amount of truth, I think we can do this. You see, Dabao and Lily are both only children, and there are no other siblings, and now that we six adults are working together to raise two children, I think we should still be able to raise them. ”

"How to raise it together?" asked Yao Guiying.

"That is to say, after the birth of this second child, I will pay for him, so as not to add a burden to your old Qin family, but also to reduce the burden on their little couple. Although the conditions of my family are not good, there is still a little cost saving. Sun Quangen said sincerely.

When Qin Dabao heard this, he immediately raised his head and stopped: "That's not good, our own children are raised by ourselves, how can we let our grandchildren come to gnaw on the old of our grandparents, this can't work!"

"Don't interrupt me in a hurry, I have one condition. Sun Quangen said. "When these two children are born, they have to follow the surname of our family Lily, and he has to be surnamed Sun!"

Sun Quangen made his own conditions, this idea was suddenly germinated by him just now, and he didn't mention it to anyone. When they implemented the one-child policy, looking at the female doll born by Tao Cuiping, he was sad for a long time, as long as he thought that the incense of the Sun family was about to be broken in his hands, he felt guilty in his heart. Just now, this flash of aura made him suddenly excited, Sun Lili's second child is like his last ray of hope, he can't give up no matter what!

There was silence in the room, and everyone, including Sun Lili in the room, was shocked by her father's idea. There is an unwritten rule in their hometown, when the only daughter in the family marries, the man must ask someone to go to the woman's house to ask whether to marry or recruit, this promise comes out, which means that the child will have to take the man's surname in the future, and the marriage room will be prepared by the man. Sun Lili clearly remembers that her father married her off back then, and today she actually asks the child to have the woman's surname, which is obviously unreasonable. At this moment, she didn't dare to step out of the door, she walked to the door lightly, and put her ear to the door to listen carefully to the movement outside.

"Hahahaha......" Outside the door, Yao Guiying suddenly burst out laughing. "Old grandson, old grandson. Did I hear me right? Are you planning to spend money to buy a surname? You don't have a son yourself, so you started the idea of my grandson?"

Sun Lili thought it was funny, just now she was still saying I don't want a grandson, but now she is shouting "my grandson, my grandson" again. But she couldn't see it behind the door, and her father Sun Quangen was so angry that his face was blue and trembling because of Yao Guiying's ridicule of "I don't have a son".