Love is pure, but marriage is complicated. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info even if you were married to love, after marriage, you will definitely be exhausted by intricate kinship, trivial things, such as the pressure of life with a heavy cow, etc., and there is no interest.

So, marriage is like a piece of sandpaper, it will grind off your edges and corners, so that the couple will become smooth and round, of course, this is not for the sake of good looks, but just so that they will not be too sharp and sharp in future gladiatorial fights and hurt each other. It will also wear away all the elaborate dressing and whitewashing before marriage, and if anything is lost in embellishment, there will always be a not very good side exposed, and the marriage and the other half of the marriage relationship will suffer deeply.

That's why some romance writers write: "If you love someone, you must never marry him and maintain a wide distance." This is probably the truth that has been summed up after being tempered by life.

Sun Lili's marriage to Qin Dabao is certainly not married to love. The reason why she married him was because her father Sun Quangen liked Qin Dabao very much and felt that he was honest and reliable, and secondly, Qin Dabao still had a bit of an economic foundation, and marrying him didn't have to work hard together, buy a house and a car. Therefore, Sun Lili's marriage to Qin Dabao can only be regarded as an expedient measure, she is not sure if she can really meet a man who makes her tempted and willing to endure hardships with her, regardless of gains and losses. She couldn't afford to wait and didn't dare to consume it, so she still wanted to marry steadily.

Qin Dabao more or less spied on a lot of these things in his later marriage, he used to be annoyed that he was like a spare tire, but after thinking about it, whether Lily really loves him or not, but in short, she has become her own wife, and she has also been the mother of her own children, or two children, this is like double insurance for his marriage, anyway, marriage is originally the grave of love, so whether there is love or not is not a very important thing now. Being able to live a good life with peace of mind is something that an ordinary man like him dreams of.

Therefore, Qin Dabao does not have many requirements for Sun Lili, as long as he can "be practical and at ease, and can live", and his so-called "can live" is nothing more than "being diligent and thrifty". Sun Lili had already discovered how tight Qin Dabao's fists were before marriage. This is definitely a shrewd man, and in Sun Lili's eyes, he is still a little too stingy and calculating. When the two of them were in love, Qin Dabao rarely took her to the restaurant, he always said that the food outside was unhygienic and unhealthy, so he would rather cook it at home. At that time, Sun Lili's cooking skills were not good, and Qin Dabao was in charge, but he set a rule: I cook the dishes, and you wash the dishes. Refuse to suffer in the slightest. As a result, the most dating content of this young couple in love is grocery shopping, cooking and washing dishes. When it comes to grocery shopping, Qin Dabao will never go to the supermarket, he must go to the vegetable market to pick and choose, Sun Lili pretended to be willing to go with him at first, but after many times, she finally couldn't stand it, which girl came to date her boyfriend and didn't dress up? She wore a small dress, stepped on high heels, walked around the vegetable field with sewage and bad smell all morning, and when she got home, her shoes were dirty, and her feet hurt badly, and there was no beautiful and romantic atmosphere at all, so after just a few efforts, she shirked various reasons and never accompanied Qin Dabao to the vegetable market again.

Sun Lili actually likes to shop, she just doesn't like to go to the vegetable market, if she goes to a shopping mall, then the situation is different, she walks in high heels for a day, and her feet don't feel pain. And Qin Dabao, like most men, has a certain fear and resistance to accompanying his girlfriend to go shopping, he is not afraid of the process of "shopping", but cares about how much money will be spent in the process. Once the two went shopping and passed by a brand clothing store that was on sale, Sun Lili was very excited, and plunged into it, she chose three coats and two pants by herself. Qin Dabao kept frowning, "Why are you buying so much, do you still have less clothes?" Sun Lili didn't understand what Qin Dabao meant, she only felt that it was a little unreasonable to just choose for herself, so she chose another suit for Qin Dabao. When Qin Dabao went to pay, he was frightened by the bill of more than 5,000 yuan, so he had to return his suit, saying that such a style was available at home, and helped Sun Lili brush her more than 2,000 loot.

When he got home, he still felt distressed, and when he went online at night, he couldn't help but complain to a netizen: "My girlfriend spends too much money, and she spent more than 2,000 to buy clothes as soon as she went shopping today." This chat record was later coincidentally seen by Sun Lili, she was furious, and took out the money to return it to Qin Dabao at that time, no matter how Qin Dabao appeased and explained, she still dropped the money and turned around and left.

That time was the first time she wanted to break up with Qin Dabao.

"This is not married yet, just so stingy and slamming the door, clenching his fists tightly, refusing to spend a penny for me, and getting rid of an iron rooster that does not pull out a hair! How can this kind of man marry!" she complained to Su Qing.

When people in the world encounter this kind of thing, most of them are persuaded and not persuaded to leave. In fact, how many marriages ended in tragedy, when there were problems and disagreements at the beginning, if you can sit down and analyze rationally and make a correct judgment, instead of blindly persuading peace, maybe there will be no more mistakes later. Unfortunately, the Chinese have always believed in the theory that "it is better to break a temple than to break a marriage". Most people don't want to be the ones who persuade them to leave. Su Qing was naturally reluctant to persuade a pair of lovers to part ways just because of the fact that they were slamming the door.

"He picks on you, and he will not be generous to other women, this situation may be annoying before marriage, but it is also an advantage to be a husband after marriage, what do you say?"

"It makes sense, as long as I have the financial power after marriage, I can't let him have the final say if I pick it or not, but I don't have to worry about him spending money with other women. Su Qing persuaded Sun Lili to change her mind in just a few words, and she quickly agreed with Su Qing's point of view, and returned to the role of Qin Dabao's girlfriend with sincerity.

Many times, people quarrel or complain just for a reason or a step.

Although his family is not poor and the only son in the family, but because he has been weak and sickly since he was a child, and he was seriously ill at the age of thirteen, Yao Guiying was always reluctant to spend money on himself, and at that time the Qin family did not start their small business, relying on the husband and wife to work outside to earn money to support the family, so all the expenses in the family are based on Qin Dabao's body, and his mother is careful every day, and the appearance of saving money everywhere has left a deep imprint in Qin Dabao's heart, and since then he has also been exposed to it, and has developed the habit of spending money to calculate。 This can't be said to be a shortcoming, but being too calculating and saving in a relationship with a girl will inevitably leave a bad impression of being stingy, he doesn't know this, but he has his own ideas, if the other party can really accept and agree with his thrift and stinginess, then such a woman is the most suitable and ideal life partner he is looking for.

Sun Lili decided to take the initiative to find Qin Dabao to express her position after being inspired by Su Qing, and the next day she sent a sincere text message to Qin Dabao, feeling that she should not regard such things as diligence and thrift as shortcomings and shortcomings, and said that she would definitely carry forward this virtue with him in the future. When Qin Dabao saw this text message, he cooked a table of good dishes for Sun Lili that night, that is, that night, the two put the marriage on the agenda.

Now, Sun Lili has been Mrs. Qin for five years, and she will do an important thing every month, which is to take out the money from Qin Dabao's salary card and then save it into her own card. She went to such great lengths but did not take any trouble at all, and for her, the monthly event was like a ritual that emphasized and highlighted her status as a hostess. And Qin Dabao has no objection to this, he is originally a person who consciously and voluntarily saves food and clothing, and it is naturally good to have someone to help save the money every month, and through the observation of the past few years, Sun Lili has indeed fulfilled her original promise: to carry forward the thrift.

Although Sun Lili also loves to buy brand-name bags, her bags are basically A goods, just to put on a façade, and the clothes she buys are only bought at discounts in shopping malls, she has no friends in Hangzhou, except for drinking tea with Su Qing on weekdays, there is no other entertainment, her only high consumption may be those high-end skin care products and cosmetics, although they are quite expensive, they do not need to be updated every month, Qin Dabao feels that she can bear it. He sometimes finds out in his conscience that he feels too bad to his wife, and always wants to give Lily some compensation or surprises, but it was only later that Sun Lili became pregnant and quit her job, and the burden on Qin Dabao's shoulders suddenly felt heavy, so he put the surprise on hold.

But Sun Lili gave him a surprise first, Qin Dabao clearly remembered, that day when Sun Lili put the two-bar pregnancy test stick in front of him, he thought it was an April Fool's Day joke, when the news was confirmed, he suddenly felt five thunders, the family was planning to let Linglong learn the piano, these days they are planning to buy a piano to go home, in addition, the teacher's tuition should also be budgeted separately, these seven, seven, eight or eight add up to tens of thousands, and another child...... Qin Dabao only felt that he was like an ox carrying a weight, and it was difficult to move an inch. So, he called Yao Guiying.

Indeed, Yao Guiying is a risky move of Qin Dabao, he knows that he can't persuade Sun Lili to abort the fetus, so he wants to ask Yao Guiying to come forward to help him say this, put this pressure, he thinks that the elders come forward Sun Lili is always embarrassed to be too tough, but he does underestimate the instinct of a female animal to protect the fetus, this battle not only failed his wishful thinking, but also made a mess of the relationship between Sun Lili and her mother, and even the two parents' families, instead of persuading his wife to kill the child in the womb, he also recruited his father-in-law and mother-in-law, so he was always silent in the first few quarrels, and he was annoyed and helpless in silence, he, the initiator, can only reap the consequences now.

After the failure of the persuasion to abort the fetus, Qin Dabao quickly recognized the reality and adjusted his strategy. So, he began to take on some private work, and outside of the eight-hour working day, he had to go home to complete the private work, and after a while, he often felt exhausted. Sun Lili's hypoglycemia was like that on that day. After a long time, he found that overdrawing his time and physical strength was obviously a bad move, and he began to set his sights on some things he didn't want to do on weekdays, such as taking back the buckle.

It is not difficult for Qin Dabao to recover the buckle, in fact, he has the opportunity, as a designer, he naturally needs to put forward requirements for the materials and accessories required for the product, many suppliers have approached him in the past, hoping to focus on mentioning or recommending their products in his design instructions, and Qin Dabao has always been based on the needs of the product, and has refused some "cooperation" requests. Now the situation is different, supporting a family is the first thing, Qin Dabao began to lower his stature, self-esteem and even principles, and he really gained a lot.

On this day, after getting the other party's 20,000 yuan in the card, Qin Dabao decided to surprise Sun Lili, firstly, this is his long-standing wish, and secondly, to ease the tense atmosphere between the two recently. He went around the mall, and finally chose a necklace with diamonds, he knew that Sun Lili liked jewelry, and most of her jewelry was gold jewelry purchased when she got married, which was too old-fashioned and dull, and she usually wore some bargains, so Qin Dabao bought it for Lily.

When he put the necklace around Sun Lili's neck, Sun Lili's eyes widened, and her excitement was overflowing. Isn't it, it seems like her husband has given her the first decent gift. "What's wrong today? What day are you going to give me such a valuable gift?"

"I've made a bit of extra money, and I think I should buy you something. ”

"How do you make extra money?"

"I took a kickback. ”

Qin Dabao said the word kickback very lightly, although there was no one else in the room, he seemed to be afraid of being heard by others.

"Kickback?!" Sun Lili was obviously also frightened by these two words. She couldn't believe it anyway. Qin Dabao, who is honest and timid as a mouse on weekdays, dares to take kickbacks?

"You're so bold, do you have to be careful, are you sure it's okay?"

"No problem, you can rest assured!" Qin Dabao patted his chest and said.

Sun Lili looked at herself in the mirror, the diamond necklace around her neck was shining, her face was flushed, and the whole person seemed to become radiant. "It's beautiful. She couldn't help but sigh.

"Wife, you can do it if you like. I ...... "Qin Dabao is only submissive."

"If you have anything to say, just say it. Sun Lili has a good temper.

"Wife, can I sleep in the bedroom tonight?" Qin Dabao finally asked.

Sun Lili couldn't help but burst out laughing. "Go ahead!" she said.

Qin Dabao's eyes revealed infinite disappointment and grievances. My wife rejected herself like this, the money was spent, the gifts were given, and good things were said, but Sun Lili was still so stubborn. He turned silently and prepared to leave without saying anything.

"Go, go, get your pillow and quilt back!" Behind him, Sun Lili's voice came.

Qin Dabao turned his head in surprise and saw Sun Lili looking at him with a smile. He hesitated for a moment as if he understood something, and trotted to the study, and after a while, Qin Dabao's pillow quilt finally returned to his long-lost bedroom.

This is Qin Dabao's most beautiful counterattack so far.