"The best way for you to deal with this matter is to leave it alone, because I can't manage it myself, our whole family is not independent now, I mean you don't have to think too much about this matter now, you first have to realize that this matter is far beyond your ability. ”

Go with the flow, how society demands him in life, what punishment he should accept. Then accept it, if he goes to jail, he will come out if he has a chance.

Because to be honest, if it's because the expression is very heavy. The opinion is clear, if he loves you enough and the promises you make in the future you make now, he may be a little more resolute in their attitude. Wait a while he's really resolute, and if you do, you can't rub salt on the wound anymore?

"If you want to be a family with him, what do you say? I heard it hurts a little bit. It's possible for me to have that power now. I've seen it in my life, because I'm honest, I've done it a few times. ”

So I'm going to ask this today, how should I grasp this, I'm the real me this time, who really likes to treat him with real heart, who brought up the child's name?

I'm older.

We all have to be cautious about this matter, I thought about it for him like this, and they didn't admit it.

The situation in my family was not good, and then the relationship between the two of us was relatively weak, and then a small incident happened in the family.

If you can't get it together, it's also the kind that is easy to fit and disperse, and then you say today how are you going to grasp it? If you like it, you think it's just you so far, but I don't mind settling down so early?

I just said to give people enough time to let everyone get to know each other, be friendly with each other, get to know each other, run in, and make the words sound better, and you have to be able to take care of her concerns.

I said you and my temper, now you say this, I really can't remember when I talked about the second ah, his mother was what I said, to get such a one, there must be relevant content, but am I ugly?

I remember, I kind of had a special son say I was ugly. At that time, I told his mother the same thing, and I thought that we should consider the time and image. If you think it's pretty good in the process of dating, let's use time to explain. But I don't take the attitude that his mother said about his brother and his brother, because if you say it's because of your appearance, he is against it.

I felt very comfortable, and it turned out that I really listened to it for a long time, and I never did, and then his mother said let me do it.

"We talked last night about getting up tomorrow morning and going back to my hometown to get a divorce, but I didn't want to leave in my heart. Why? I'm very cold now, but I feel that the first thing is that he is hiding from you to speculate in stocks, why can't he speculate in stocks, you think he said that it is his hobby in life, in fact, stock trading is not a bad thing."

So you want to divorce but the children are really cute at home, because they are all after you divorce now, have you ever thought that these two children will enter a more pitiful experience, how miserable a child is is already distressing, two children and the youngest is just two years old.

"How do you do as parents? Are you worthy of your children by doing this? I want to ask! Most children can't be compared with other people's children, and other people's children's fathers love their mothers, and they accompany your children every day, this is not a stay-at-home, and the parents have to divorce me I want my children to video with them every day, what's the point of saying this?"

What about the problem between you, see if it is possible not to divorce, you don't want to get divorced, but how do you think this problem should be solved?

"You are in a long-distance relationship for two years and married, your hometown is a place, and your fellow villagers are all working outside, so you have more trust in him, you think about it carefully, whether he is reliable or not" Ask for a demon TXT

When you talk to him, he feels very good, do you feel completely right? How often do you see each other in a long-distance relationship? You really get along for a long time, even if you really know each other when you get married, even if you say I know him, do you really know yourself.

That's why I said I just said this proposition, you are fellow countrymen, you trust him a little more, can he become a cause and effect relationship, just because you are fellow countrymen, you can recognize them first, you know that your fellow countrymen can all be trusted?

So he is your fellow countryman, you trust him a little more, I don't think this can be established as a thing, he is because he is your fellow countryman, so you can trust him more, I think it can be changed to your trust in him, a little more trust and a little more.

"But whether it's really worth your trust a little more, this may need more to test, maybe some people are not your fellow countrymen, but more reliable, not long after getting married, you inadvertently found out that he was trading stocks"

You tell others, you think that stock trading is a thing that people with better conditions do, this feeling, I also want to refute it, I also think differently from you, it may be that I recently read about I don't know how to speculate in stocks, I don't understand it at all, and economics is also a layman for me.

He only votes for those industries and enterprises and factories that he understands very well and has studied thoroughly, such as the most successful Coke, because he understands that he knows the operation mode of the factory enterprise, he knows his way of making profits, he knows what kind of group he has, what kind of future he has, and she will never vote for her.

And he has if I want to invest in a company, he doesn't look at the recent statements, he wants to look at the regular development of the long, this person is her vision is different from others, so he once had a suggestion for him, if everyone thinks they are not familiar, don't rely on luck and cleverness to go,

"It's a kind of investment, what kind of law should be grasped by this investment, but some people and many people regard it as something, as a place to try their luck, in other words, in fact, they don't understand these at all, and they put it in that big taboo, I don't understand it, I still want to invest. What's that? That's luck, and I say it's not just for your husband."

It's a little insight to share with you, I don't understand the economy, I've never fried it, but I suggest that your husband say that he likes it so much, right?

But he actually bought it, and then you generally have no spare money in your financial capacity, you didn't ask him what money to use at the time, you think he should use the salary, you don't have too much restrictions, because you said it's useless, last year you saved money to buy a house and saved some down payment, when you wanted to pay for the house, you found that the money was wrong, he told you to take all the money, you paid less interest, and the down payment was more than some mortgage.

You always quarrel because of his stock speculation, you just want to ask if you want to divorce whether you should do this, in fact, when I heard you talk about this just now, I told you about that method, you may not be easy to listen to, but you can use it as a reference suggestion, because I often do shows with my lawyer's sister, and he once provided us all with a method.

"It's everyone's AA system in marriage, to this AA system in marriage, we need to write this contract or agreement, which is a document related to the relevant aspects, and we need a lawyer to witness or notarize this, so as to prove that I spend my income after marriage, and I also pay for it. ”

On the other hand, there is also such a will, and then two people are holding hands on such a contract, so how to sign this contract and what kind of format may have to consult a lawyer, but what do we mean? Although we are married, it stands to reason that if there are no special requirements for marriage, if there is no special explanation, it should be two people who use the joint property of the husband and wife, but we don't know about your husband's situation. As long as he doesn't agree with the rules of marriage, I will borrow money if I want to.

I don't say hello to my wife at all, he doesn't have any right to know, in fact, he actually breaks the rules of marriage, so if you want you to borrow money to speculate in stocks, right?

So can we think of a way, or through some agreements and contracts to really separate the income and expenses of the two of you, so as to avoid divorce, then the two people's spending is to say that each earns and spends its own money, but every month you have to take out for example, 12 of the income or a fixed amount, this money is used for the family and raising children, because after all, you still have two children, for example, he is a month, he may be this month.

Then I think maybe it won't bring too much imbalance, two people may still have two money in their hands, so wait until if it's really a child, after all, for example, the child is going abroad, then the parents can get together and everyone can take it out, and they have a little savings, which is not bad, which can make you in a reasonable situation without too much friction, because of this quiet framework.

I just had such an idea that two people can maintain this marriage, and they also have common savings every month, and they also take out some money to raise children together, and the rest is that the two of you don't interfere with each other. I can think that this is all right, you can use this way without necessarily and, using this way to give me the last sentence first, what are the advantages of using this way?