Dongmei told Lingqiao: "When I first married to Wei Guo, I got up at seven o'clock every morning.

After getting up, I didn't care about washing my face and brushing my teeth, and the first thing I did was to go to Wei Guo's mother's house and pour the urinal for my in-laws......"

Dexterously interrupted Dongmei's words, she said, "Wei Guo's mother doesn't have long hands, why do you want you to pour a urinal for her?"

Looking at the dexterous and stunned expression, Dongmei felt very normal and said: "The new daughter-in-law has passed the door, you don't go to the urinal for your in-laws, are you waiting for your in-laws to pour the urinal for you, be careful that your mother-in-law puts small shoes on you, you can't stay in this house at all." “

Hearing that Wei Guo's mother was so powerful, she couldn't believe it: "Sister Dongmei, it's not that I haven't seen Wei Guo's mother, she is not tall, she has a smile on her face all day long, she is a good mother-in-law at first glance, how can she treat you like this." “

Dongmei sighed: "You're right, Wei Guo's mother is in Cuijia Village, and she is a relatively good mother-in-law, and she treats me like this, not to mention those mothers-in-law with bad character and mothers-in-law who beat daughters-in-law, there are a lot of people." “

Hearing that the new daughter-in-law passed the door, she might be beaten by her in-laws, and she pouted smartly and said: "When I was at home, my mother didn't dare to beat me, if I got married, whoever dared to beat me, if anyone beat me, I would fight with her and kill her, an old witch." “

Dongmei listened to the clever words, and felt that she spoke very childishly, Dongmei said: "When a daughter-in-law marries, she is born to serve her in-laws, otherwise why is there a saying that daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law, and they are all mixed qualifications." “

Dexterity hugged Dongmei and said, "If it were you, I wouldn't go to serve that old witch." “

Dongmei saw Taotao in her arms, and after eating, she fell asleep, so she gently put the child in the middle of the kang, and then said in a low voice: "If you don't wait, there will be conflicts at home for three days, do I think you can stay?"

Lingdexterity said unashamedly: "If you can't stay, I'll divorce, who is afraid of whom?"

Dongmei's back hurt when she hugged the child, she simply lay down, chatted with Lingqiao and said: "Divorce? Where is it as simple as you think, you first pass your parents, his parents, let's talk about it." “

After speaking, Dongmei continued to give Lingqiao an example and said: "Before giving birth to a child, all the housework in the family was done by your daughter-in-law alone, and after giving birth to a child, your in-laws will share part of it for you.

You work in the fields during the day, do a day of physical work, and when you come home in the evening, in addition to cooking for the whole family and burning the kang, you have to continue to take care of the children.

The child is small, not only does he have to feed, but he also has to smell and smell urine, so you can't sleep all night. “

(For mothers with children, diapers are truly the greatest invention of our time, at least to allow them to sleep a little longer.) ）

However, in those days, there were no diapers at all, only diapers.

Therefore, no matter how tired and sleepy Dongmei is every night, she has to sleep for a while and get up, then hold the child, go down from the kang, and take the child to the urinal.

This alone can cause you to not sleep well at night, not to mention it, and you have to breastfeed your child, or your child has a fever in the middle of the night and takes your child to the clinic to see a doctor.

When she heard that a mother with a child was so hard, she swallowed a mouthful of saliva and said, "Sister Dongmei, since you work so hard with your children that you can't sleep all night, then you can sleep lazily the next morning and don't go to work in the fields?"

Dongmei was amused by the clever words, and she said: "We croppers, if you don't go to farming or working in the fields, are you waiting to starve to death?"

Hearing this, Dexterity fell silent.

She looked at Dongmei and said, "Sister Dongmei, then you say, when I get married and have children, will I have to be like you, working hard every day and dying of work during the day, and dying of taking children to death at night?"

Dongmei looked at the stupid dexterity and said, "No matter how hard and tired you are, you have to do it, everyone is like this, and no one can escape." “

Lingqiao also lay down, she slept next to Dongmei, and said, "Sister Dongmei, according to what you say, it is really not easy to be a housewife." “

Dongmei sighed: "I only told you about one-third of my pain, you can't stand it, if I tell you all the pain, won't it make you cry." “

Lingdexterity said: "You are so tired, so busy, is there anything else to torture?"

Dongmei said indifferently: "There are many, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most torturous place." “

Lingdexterity didn't understand and said: "Mother-in-law has passed mother-in-law, you have lived yours, what conflict can there be?"

Dongmei pointed to her dexterous forehead and said, "You are stupid, don't you eat in a pot, don't you use a hoe to hoe the ground, don't you use a rack cart to pull farm tools, the conflict is simply constant, from morning to night." “

Lingqiao couldn't believe it and said: "Then as the new daughter-in-law, don't we have to be angry from the morning and late?"

Dongmei said: "That's not it, as long as you dare to refute your mother-in-law, this matter will be a big problem, maybe your husband is still looking for your mother and looking for you." “

Lingqiao gasped and said, "Sister Dongmei, did you come to your mother's house to stay temporarily this time, is it because you have a conflict with your mother-in-law?" “

Hearing this, Dongmei said sadly: "Taotao had a fever in the middle of the night, so I took Taotao to Weiguo's mother to ask for money, and went to the village health center to see Taotao." Wei Guo's mother not only didn't give money, but also scolded me with her head and face, are you angry?"

Lingdexterity said angrily: "The child has a fever, such a terrible thing, why does she scold you if she doesn't hurry up and get you money and let you go to the clinic to see the child." “

Dongmei spread out her hands and said: "I don't take care of the child well, I think the child is a waste of money to see a doctor, and I don't find out in advance during the day......"

Dexterous for Dongmei hugged and said: "The child is sick, that's a normal thing, she also came from that stage, can't she understand you?"

Dongmei shook her head and said, "Hey, if my mother-in-law can understand her daughter-in-law's words, then the sun will come out of the west." “

Lingniao said in a cold sweat on his forehead: "Then you will stay at your mother's house, don't go back, unless he comes to apologize to you, you go back." “

Dongmei snorted coldly and said: "I have only lived for half a month, and my mother urged me to go back, and took the initiative to apologize to Wei Guo's mother, and dare not go back, the woman who married out is someone else's family, where is our parents." “

Hearing this, Lingqiao felt helpless and said, "Sister Dongmei, is it so serious?"

Dongmei said bluntly: "If you don't go back, Wei Guo's mother will write a letter to Wei Guo, who is digging a well in Xinjiang, and ask him to come back and divorce you directly." “

Hearing this, Lingqiao felt that she had fallen directly into the abyss, she didn't expect that as a rural girl, after marrying someone in the future and becoming a daughter-in-law, it would be so difficult?

She looked at Dongmei, and began to murmur silently in her heart, instead of being like Sister Dongmei in the future, suffering and suffering, and swallowing her anger for a lifetime, it is better to grit her teeth and hold on for another two years, go out of school, and become a knowledgeable and educated woman.