Chapter 561 Marry and have a baby, farm and support your family

Coming out of her eldest brother's house, Dongmei walked on the pavement that had been paved with cement.

Dongmei lamented that in previous years, every time it was winter, the roads in the village would freeze hard in the morning, and walk on them straight to the feet.

And it melted at noon, and the mud couldn't walk at all, especially when pulling the frame car, it couldn't even pull it.

Now, the roads in the whole village are all paved with cement, which is not only smooth, but also spacious, not to mention how comfortable it is to walk on it.

Dongmei walked to the entrance of the village, glanced back at the gate of her eldest brother's house, and thought to herself, Yongyong called herself over, but it didn't actually play a role, Juanjuan was still beaten, and the eldest brother and sister-in-law were still half angry with their daughter.

Dongmei let out a long sigh, she thought to herself, people say that there are more children and more daughters, and more children and more blessings, but how do you feel, as a parent, it seems that she has never enjoyed blessings from her children, but she is worried and angry.

The thoughts of parents are all on their children, but the thoughts of children are on the distant South Mountain.

Fortunately, my two children are not in love yet, and if they fall in love and get married in the future, they will definitely face a bunch of problems again.

Dongmei thought about the situation of her eldest brother and sister-in-law, and then thought about the things she was about to face in the future, and couldn't help but feel heavy.

Dongmei frowned as she walked forward with her head down.

Suddenly, a woman who came over from the opposite side stopped Dongmei: "Sister Dongmei, is it you?"

Dongmei looked at a rich lady wearing a mink coat in front of her, she thought for a long time and said, "Who are you?"

The woman stepped forward, hugged Dongmei and said, "Sister Dongmei, I'm dexterous, have you forgotten me?"

Hearing the dexterity, Dongmei thought about it, and she said, "You are the youngest daughter of the second mother and the third uncle, Yin Lingqiao?"

Hearing that Dongmei recognized herself, she said happily: "Sister Dongmei, I'm just smart, you finally recognize me." β€œ

After hugging, Dongmei looked Lingniao up and down, and said, "Twenty years ago, when I was separated from you at the entrance of the village, you were dark and thin, and your face was full of freckles, why now, suddenly become Bai Fumei?"

Dongmei's impression of dexterity is too deep.

Dexterous has been sloppy since he was a child, and he is not only slow to do anything, but also loses everything, and is often scolded by his second mother and beaten by his third uncle.

When Lingqiao was twenty years old, he took the college entrance examination for two years, but he failed.

Like many rural girls, under the arrangement of her parents, she is also ready to marry and have children, and then farm to support her family.

However, when Dongmei held the six-month-old Taotao and came to her parents' house to visit relatives, she inadvertently chatted with Lingqiao for an afternoon, which completely changed Lingqiao's fate.

More than 20 years ago, after Dongmei and Wei Guo's mother quarreled, she came to her parents' house with six-month-old Taotao.

Dongmei lived in her mother's house for half a month, until Dongmei's mother persuaded Dongmei and told her that as a daughter-in-law, it was enough to make trouble with her mother-in-law and father-in-law, and there was no need to stalemate for so long, so she took the initiative to go back to apologize, and then reconciled, and she was ready to go back.

At that time, in the rural areas of Guanzhong, marriage was not called marrying, but to people, and marrying a woman was called a woman, as the name suggests, as long as the daughter who married out, even if she was close to her mother's family, she was also a member of her mother-in-law's family, so whether she was dead or alive, had a great relationship with her mother-in-law's family.

After being persuaded by her mother, Dongmei relented and was ready to take back her things. 、

Dongmei was packing her things and preparing to go home.

Seeing that Dongmei had packed up her things and was about to go home with the child, Lingqiao came.

Dexterity is often ridiculed and abused because he is naturally stupid and does not know how to do housework or farm.

Lonely and dexterous, I like to come to Dongmei's mother's house when I have nothing to do.

Because Dongmei's mother likes to do homework, whenever she is bullied, Dongmei's mother gives her examples, reasoning, and always makes her smarter mouth stop and wake up like a dream.

When Lingdex approached Dongmei's house, he saw Dongmei coming, and hurriedly leaned over to see Dongmei's child.

Dongmei was ready to leave, but when she saw that Lingqiao was coming, she put down her burden again and prepared to talk to Lingqiao for a while.

Dexterously holding Taotao, I like it very much.

She looked at Dongmei and said, "Sister Dongmei, I really envy you women who have married out, with children, this walk, that string, so free." β€œ

Hearing this, Dongmei hurriedly corrected dexterity and said: "Dexterity, you are the freest and happiest time now, once you get married, you will know the hardships of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and you will know that no matter how good it is in your in-law's house, you will not stay comfortable in your own home." β€œ

Lingdexterity couldn't believe it and said: "Sister Dongmei, don't lie to me, after getting married, is it really not as single as now?"

Before the dexterous words were finished, Tao Tao in Dongmei's arms began to cry.

Dongmei hurriedly took Taotao, picked up her clothes, fed him, and said, "I'm saying it now, you don't understand, when you get married in the future and live in your in-law's house, you will know it completely." β€œ

Lingdextrous looked at the lovely Taotao and said, "Sister Dongmei, I am now facing an important choice, can you help me get an idea?"

Hearing the important choice, Dongmei immediately thought of getting married, she said: "Lingqiao, isn't your mother going to find your in-laws for you?"

When Lingqiao heard that she was looking for her in-laws, she said shyly: "Actually, my mother gave it to me, and I haven't started looking for it yet." β€œ

While breastfeeding, Dongmei looked at the nursing Taotao from time to time, afraid that the child would be choked by the milk.

Dongmei said: "Since you are not facing marriage, what choice are you worried about?"

Lingdex sat on the edge of the kang, like a tumbler, shaking back and forth, and said: "I don't know now, should I continue the college entrance examination, or listen to my mother's words, find a mother-in-law to marry, and then have a baby?"

Hearing this, Dongmei immediately made a decision, helped Lingqiao get an idea, and said: "Then do you still need to ask, of course you will continue to take the college entrance examination." β€œ

Hearing that Dongmei let herself continue the college entrance examination, Lingqiao thought of the kind of life in the third year of high school, and her scalp was numb.

She said: "However, I am tired of the college entrance examination, I sit in the classroom every day to study, I have to study at night, and when I return home, I have to light a kerosene lamp to read, it is too bitter, and I feel that it is not as easy as getting married." β€œ

Hearing this, Dongmei shook her head, thinking to herself, after all, a girl in her early twenties, she is too stupid and naΓ―ve.

Dongmei hurriedly corrected her and said: "Dexterity, if you say that the third year of high school is hard, then you come and listen to my life, you will know, is it the third year of high school or the hard time of getting married?"

Hearing this, Lingdex said disapprerovitously: "Sister Dongmei, I see you for a day, you are dressed cleanly, the person is white, and the child is cute, what else can you suffer, do you have the hardships of my senior year of high school?"

Dongmei saw the thirsty appearance of the smart marriage, she said: "Before you get married, you are full of food alone, and the whole family is not hungry, and when you get married, you will know what it means that the whole family is full and the daughter-in-law is not hungry?"

Lingqiao couldn't understand Dongmei's words at all, she said, "Sister Dongmei, what do you mean?"

Dongmei said with a smile: "Then you listen, I will tell you about my daily life, and then you will make a decision whether to marry and have a baby, plant the land for a lifetime, and be a farmer for a lifetime, or continue to take the college entrance examination and go out of the countryside in the future?"

With dexterous expectant eyes, he looked at Dongmei and said, "Sister Dongmei, you say, I'll listen." β€œ