"Qiu Yueze, the reason why I want to tell you this is to tell you that if you really want to be happy and comfortable, then the first thing you have to do is to let go of your obsessions!

"Everything that has passed, for better or worse, you can't change it, and you can't change it. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 infoIf you continue to cling to it, it will only ruin your present moment. And your future that may be able to change will also remain unchanged because you don't face up to your present...... Your so-called "future" is, in a sense, 'never came'......

"If you really want to live happily and do everything all over again, then you can't cling to the past that is gone, or fantasize about the opportunity to do it all over again......

"You must know that as long as your obsession remains the same, then even if you can make up for your 'regrets' in other ways, then you will recreate the same amount of 'new regrets' that replace your original 'old regrets'!

"For, as you gain, you will pay a price for what you gain, and in these costs there will be no lack of things that you will regret in the future!

"But whether it's 'old regrets' or 'new regrets', they are actually the same in essence, they are only caused by your obsessions, and they become special because of the meaning you give them.

"Therefore, as long as you are still you, then those that you are destined to lose, you will not be able to avoid losing after all! Those that are destined to become your 'regrets' will eventually become your 'regrets'.

"Even if you can do it all over again, in the end, you will just take a different path, but in the end you will still come to the same 'end' as before, and then continue to bear another kind of 'regret' that may be different in the process but has the same weight. You'll still regret it in the end!

"Do you understand? Your obsession will only keep you in a circle!

"When you want to make up for it, you will create new regrets, and then in order to make up for new regrets, you will create another new regret again...... It's like you're falling into a bottomless abyss, and so on and on and on, with no end in sight - until you die.

In short, no matter how you choose, you have to pay the corresponding price for your choice, and those costs, more or less, will eventually become big and small regrets in your heart!

"To put it bluntly, the reason why you feel regret is because you never want to lose anything in your heart! You want to have to pay no price for any choice you make!

"As long as you still have such greed in your heart, then your obsession cannot really be eliminated, and your 'regret' will always exist!

"Do you know why I'm telling you 'past life', 'this life', 'reincarnation'?

"Because I want you to be able to understand what I'm really thinking!

"I think the key to reducing regrets as much as possible is not to get too attached to what you've lost. And if you want to let go of this attachment, you have to learn to recognize the fact that the 'past' is gone, and both good and bad are gone!

Only by truly facing this can one truly learn to let go of the past and live in the present.

"And people who really live in the present will not remember their past, or even their 'past lives', nor will they hope for their 'next life', or hope that everything can be restarted, but will live this life well as their 'present life' and their current self.

"I think that if the soul really has 'reincarnation,' then the arrangement of the Divine is also for the soul to learn to truly live in the present! Its 'past life' is like our 'past,' its 'present life' is like our present, and its 'future life' is like our 'future.'"

"Although each of its lives is different, if it can learn to live in the present, then each of its lives is not really different in essence - it is all fulfilling its 'mission' given to it by God in accordance with Providence's will, calmly and reverently, and that's it.

"Qiu Yueze, if you can take a broader view, look at the longer term, and regard your 'past life', 'present life', and 'future life' as the 'past', 'present' and 'future' of your soul, it is not difficult for you to understand, in fact, you are your own 'ancestor', you are also your own 'descendant', your 'future' is designed by yourself, and your 'past' can only be inherited by the present you.

"Think about what I said, and if you understand what I mean, I think that your 'regrets', if they will not disappear, will gradually become a kind of existence like other ordinary things in your life.

"As long as you don't overdo it and make good use of it, they won't interfere with you, they will only work you better.

"Because if there is no accumulation and accumulation of many 'little things' that are happy, painful, or mundane, there would be no existence of your so-called 'life', and without the precipitation of those 'life', you would not be who you are now, and you would not be what you are now. ”

Seeing that Qiu Yueze was no longer as calm as before, he was contemplating the words she had just said.

Gao Ran thought for a moment, guessing what else he might think...... Then he continued, "If you still think at this moment, if you have a choice, you would rather be an ordinary person, rather live like an ordinary person, than go through the pain you have experienced, then I advise you, it is better to give up such naïve assumptions!"

"You think like that, purely because you are the person you are now, you have experienced those pains, so you feel that a stable life like ordinary people who seems to be 'undisturbed' is the happiest.

"But if you are really an ordinary person, and have been living an ordinary life, then I have a sentence I would like to remind you that man is a very strange animal, and if you do not live in the way you want to live, then sooner or later you will be changed by your actual living environment, and eventually you will only think in the way you actually live......

"And in that case...... I think that unless you are really born with great wisdom and can get out of the mud without staining, I am afraid that it is difficult for you to really understand the preciousness of those ordinary little happiness!

On the contrary, you will complain about life because your ability cannot satisfy your endless desires well......

In that case, you will not feel that all your troubles are caused by your heart, you will only feel that everything is caused by the environment, by others, and you yourself, in your eyes, may not even be wrong at all......

With such a mentality, you will not think that such a life will be so happy!

"Moreover, as an 'ordinary person', you have not experienced everything that you have experienced now, and many of your current feelings and many feelings, if you have not really experienced similar pain, you will not be able to truly empathize! Not to mention, you will remember those lessons and pains with unforgettable hearts, and then you can see another form of 'happiness' that you can only really see in such a state of mind......

"In short, as long as your obsession is still there, you will always be able to find all kinds of 'regrets' in your life! This will not change everything because you have changed your identity and life. -- What only changes is the concrete process on the surface, but the essence never changes!"

After finishing speaking, unlike Qiu Yueze's immersion at the moment, Gao Ran's thoughts had gradually withdrawn from the conversation just now. She turned her head to look out the window at the night, only to realize that it was already late......

"Humph!" she snorted, and then gestured to leave, "Well, it's late, I'm a little tired."

"Besides, I guess you need some time to be quiet, right?

"Then I won't bother you!

"I'll go first, as for business...... That's all trivial! I'll come back to you again after I'm done with my own business in two days. We'll talk about that then. ”

After speaking, just as he was about to leave, Gao Ran was grabbed by Qiu Yueze's arm.

And when she turned to look at Qiu Yueze and was about to ask him what was wrong, she saw that he himself was also looking at her with a surprised face, but the next moment she immediately lowered her head and looked at his own hand...... It seemed that it was only then that he really came to his senses!

Only then did Gao Ran understand that Qiu Yueze's stop just now was all his involuntary physical reaction. Perhaps, he was actually afraid that she would disappear again and disappear......

It seems that she did bring him too much unease......

However, thinking about it like this, Gao Ran couldn't help but feel a little funny: he couldn't imagine that the dignified Heavenly Pavilion Pavilion Master was such an insecure person......

"Don't worry, no matter where you go this time, I will let you find me! I promise you, and I will never break my promise!

"What's more, as long as I don't go out of the city, there are your eyeliner everywhere here, are you still afraid that I will lose it?!"

"Hmm. ”

Qiu Yueze replied embarrassedly, and then looked away from her.

At this moment, his embarrassment could not allow Gao Ran to stay any longer-whether he wanted her to stay a little longer or not. Otherwise, he would be ashamed of himself.

Gao Ran naturally stopped embarrassing him with interest, and after listening to his response, he didn't say anything more, just smiled at him lightly, and then turned around and left without any nostalgia. (To be continued.) )