74. The Choice (5)

"Master of the Fu family, you are too high-minded! You are just an inconspicuous young lady of the Gao family, how can you be worthy of being called 'aunt'? Besides, even the sister of the family, doesn't she call you 'mother-in-law' in a regular manner? How dare you go beyond the list of 'little sisters'? Let me call you 'Master of the Fu family' below! In this way, I can also be more down-to-earth in my heart......

Gao Ran said this, in fact, she wanted to convey two meanings to Fu Tong: first, she wanted to find a reason that sounded "reasonable", so as to widen the "distance" between the two a little; second, in order to "remind" Fu Tong, no matter what her purpose was, for the younger generation who had just met for the first time, her overly enthusiastic attitude was not suitable in the end, and besides, she had to take into account the feelings of "another person" - Gao Qi - a little bit, right?!

Fortunately, Gao Qi is not present now, so Gao Ran doesn't feel that there is anything bad to say directly about using her as a shield at this time - anyway, he didn't say anything wrong, let alone any gossip that seemed to be playing right and wrong behind people's backs, so even if Gao Qi knew about it afterwards, Gao Ran was not afraid that she would come to her for trouble.

In addition, because she was very careful with the wording, this also made it so that when Fu Tong listened to her prevarication, even if she knew in her heart that she was refusing to get close to her, but what she said was the truth and there was nothing excessive...... Even if Fu Tong is unhappy, she really can't immediately show the dissatisfaction in her heart - otherwise, it will seem that she is an "elder", and she is not as self-contained as the little girl in front of her!

However, being "reminded" by Gao Ran, Fu Tong suddenly realized that she was indeed negligent just now - she did have concerns about Gao Qi: at the beginning, when she decided to give her eldest son to Gao Qi, she was already inclined to believe that Gao Qi would be the next head of the Gao family!

With such a preconceived prediction, Fu Tong thought that it would indeed be a little inappropriate to let Gao Qi continue to call her "aunt" as before......

If you have to wait until Gao Qi really becomes the head of the Gao family to let her change her name, then, who knows that by then, a "belated" change in attitude like Fu Tong will become a suspicion in the hearts of the two of them that can never be erased? !

The reason why there are such concerns is mainly due to Fu Tong's own conclusion after "comparing his heart with his heart......

Fu Tong will always remember that at the beginning, after she officially became the head of the Fu family, she began to mind more and more about the existence of those who had offended her, but were still alive and well—even if she knew, the other party was not wrong, they were just talking about things, or they were just misunderstanding...... However, when they pointed out her "mistakes", the way they used - especially their attitude - inadvertently hurt her self-esteem, so that she had a more or less grudge against those who hurt her!

And, once such a grudge arises, even if she endured it and suppressed it at that time, after she became the head of the family, when she had the power and status that she did not have before, the past disputes that she could not count and settle clearly because her strength was not strong enough began to be re-turned by her one by one......

The result is that no matter how well the other party does in the future, she will still look at the other party unpleasantly, and will still often pick bones into the egg; even, in the end, as long as the other party does not have too much use value and becomes a kind of dispensable existence, then she will start to think - thinking, what should she do to completely get rid of the other party without damaging her own interests and reputation? !

For her very resentful character, Fu Tong actually "reflects" on herself from time to time in private, but in the end, she found that the fundamental reason why she actually had to really get rid of the other party and really let go of the "grudge" was unexpectedly "simple" - it could even be said that she was making trouble unreasonably - in order to maintain her "self-esteem" that was far more fragile than she originally thought!

However, even if he knows the shortcomings of his character, it still doesn't help......

For Fu Tong, no matter whether she should hold a grudge or not, as long as it hurts her self-esteem, then no matter who it is, she will hold a grudge! Then, because of the grudge, she will repeatedly think of the pain and frustration she once had, and then she will be annoyed and angry......

Even though she hated it so much that she remembered the pain of that time over and over again, she still couldn't help it, even uncontrollably, and kept remembering it over and over again......

In order to completely get rid of this feeling that she is extremely disgusted with, Fu Tong can think of the only way that she thinks can "cure the root cause" is to completely get rid of the person she hates!

In her opinion, only when those people are completely gone, can she no longer think of the past that she least wants to think of the past that hurts her self-esteem because of those people, and only when she no longer remembers it, can she no longer have to endure the repeated torture of her spirit by those memories full of "humiliation"!

In Fu Tong's eyes, other people's lives are far less important than her own "self-esteem"! Therefore, if someone dares to hurt her self-esteem, even if she may not have an immediate seizure at that time, but afterwards, if one day, that person has no use value for her, at that time, if she finally only wants this person's "life", instead of making his life worse than death, then, in her opinion, this is actually a very cheap person!

Although, Fu Tong doesn't know if the real Gao Qi is also a person with a character like her?!

However, in order to avoid leaving unnecessary troubles for herself, Fu Tong still decided to find a suitable opportunity to let Gao Qi change her name as soon as possible, before there were too obvious signs that Gao Qi was the next head of the Gao family!

So, this is the scene on the day when Gao Qi and Fu Wenhan got married: Fu Tong did not pose as an "elder" in front of Gao Qi at all, and when the newcomer saluted her, she also exempted them from kneeling, but set a precedent for them to only bow deeply to her in front of everyone! Not only that, but she also called her "mother-in-law" in front of everyone, and then changed her name to "mother-in-law" after "mentioning yì" Gao Qi, so that everyone knew that Gao Qi was different from her other "nieces"!

After all, Fu Tong has four husbands, and the so-called "nieces" who can call her "aunt" are not many, but they are not many...... However, none of them are qualified to call her "mother-in-law" like Gao Qi.

And the various overt and covert meanings behind this title are naturally clear to Gao Ran, who has lived in this world for almost a year - the titles used by people in this world, and the various universal meanings behind the titles, are actually very different from her original world......

(To be continued.) )