Chapter 28: Strange Talk in Bed
Nietzsche said not to reason with women - of course, Nietzsche said a lot, and was fabricated to say a lot, and the phrase itself, because of the translation problem, has many or even very different ways of expressing it.
In the 80s or early 90s of the last century, the Chinese people's "Chicken Soup 1.0" liked to make up what Nietzsche, Kant, and Hegel said - the status of these three people in the world of fabricating chicken soup is roughly equivalent to the later Ma Yun Lu Xun***.
Stop the nonsense.
However, from the above words, whether Nietzsche intended it or not, it can also be seen that the young lonely man and widow actually have some academic debates that require a rich posture level on the soft bed with warm and ambiguous lighting and feminine body fragrance, how strange this scene is.
If it weren't for the fact that Feng Jianxiong and Tian Haimo were both professional debaters and famous trolls, I am afraid that there would be no second group in the world who could spray while doing foreplay in bed.
"Maybe the first issue of "Wonderful Story" should start counting here. The debate is weird enough, exciting enough, and nonsensical enough, but it's worth spraying. Unfortunately, it can't be recorded. Feng Jianxiong's mind actually flashed such a strange idea.
He struggled to drive distractions out of his brain and into a troll's flow state:
"Please don't change the concept of 'the other side', what I just said is that 'the evolutionary instinct of human beings leads to the rejection of sexual disgust between the opposite sex who have grown up together', and you have expanded the scope of 'German orthopedics'.
Don't you think that these two concepts have no relationship with each other at all? The former talks about people's life experiences, and the latter talks about people's blood. ”
Tian Haimo was stunned.
Originally, she was just on a whim and wanted to have a casual argument with Feng Jianxiong. Hearing Feng Jianxiong actually call her 'the other party's defense friend', she was a little unhappy.
However, for just a moment, she thought it was quite interesting, and there was an inexplicable sense of excitement.
So, she pretended to get up and wash, then secretly took her computer and quietly took a look at the scholars mentioned by Feng Jianxiong.
Baidu is not.
You can only Google it and look it up in English directly.
This time, I had it, and I was able to retrieve a lot of related literature along the way.
Tian Haimo is also a professional debater, and he is very good at pulling the banner of the tiger, and after reading it for a while, he knows how to refute.
"Friend of the other side, do you think that the decisive attraction or sexual rejection is mainly due to lifestyle and has nothing to do with blood relationship? How do you explain the discussion of 'hereditary sexual attraction' in the British-Journal-of-Medical-Psychology (1995-7)?
The above research clearly shows that the sexual attraction brought by the high similarity of genetic traits between the opposite sex is very strong. The reason why there were so many cousin marriages in ancient times, and most of them were harmonious, was because of the sexual attraction between men and women. It is only because of ethical constraints that more terrible consequences have not occurred.
Now you directly deny the existence of hereditary sexual attraction, so where do you put "Thunderstorm", "The City Full of Golden Armor" and even those Qiong Yao dramas? Do you think they are all scripts and are made up blindly? But those tragedies of 'wishing lovers to become brothers and sisters in the end' do exist in history and have a prototype background!"
Tian Haimo said a lot of things, but it wasn't really strict - no way, she just pretended to wash her face and secretly Googled it. It's remarkable to be organized like this.
"I didn't expect you to have a wide range of knowledge. It's a pity that you only know one thing, but you don't know the other. Feng Jianxiong praised.
In the era when there was no compulsion, being able to answer these ready-made answers so quickly by relying on Google alone shows that the adaptability is already very strong.
Feng Jianxiong continued to explain: "The concept of hereditary sexual attraction certainly exists, and I didn't deny it just now. I'm just saying that 'life experience and bloodline' are two categories that work independently.
Based on the Psy Woolf "A Review of Inbreeding Aversion and Genetic Attraction" that I quoted, as well as the related research in the issue of British-Journal-of-Medical-Psychology, which you just cited, this question can actually be described as follows:
First of all, it is indeed easy to attract and favor people of the opposite sex, for people who are particularly similar to their own genetic traits. The probability of such attraction and favorability, if quantified, is about dozens of times that of ordinary people who have no genetic similarity at all.
However, the fact that human beings did not become extinct due to inbreeding shows that in the process of human evolution, there is a natural negative mechanism for human beings to counteract this hereditary sexual attraction - that is, what I just said, 'the experience of living together from childhood, especially during the years of sexual maturity and development', which leads to sexual disgust and rejection that is more powerful than 'hereditary sexual attraction', thus preventing siblings or siblings from having that kind of thought.
In fact, even if we don't debate this issue from a serious academic point of view, just talking about life experience, the question is easy to understand: the emergence of sexual attraction between people of the opposite sex is very important to be mysterious and strange at the beginning.
As we often say, the real love period between lovers is only 18 months, after which the dopamine secretion will subside and the passion will fade. If a responsible man and woman have not broken up for 18 months after the snap, it is only because they use their sense of responsibility to transform passionate love into a long-term affection-like relationship.
And men and women who have lived together for a few years of adolescent sexual maturity will lack this kind of passionate attraction because of mystery and strangeness - think about it, if a man you have eaten and slept with him for several years in a row before you even think of having sex with him, he will line up in front of you to go to the toilet without even hiding his fart, will you still be interested in him?
"You say that...... It seems to make sense. Tian Haimo groaned, and actually forgot to refute, mainly because this truth did go to her heart.
Sure enough, for men, it is necessary to maintain a sense of mystery first, and only after going to bed can you slowly understand each other's living habits.
It's no wonder that those dicks who serve tea and water to the goddess every day and go to bed early have put so much effort into chasing, but they are always 10,000-year-old spare tires or even jacks.
The passion has not been adjusted yet, so take care of the other party's daily life first, isn't that the opposite?
Immediately, Tian Haimo thought of the relationship between himself and Feng Jianxiong - if the "passion period" has passed, he is still his lover, and he has not been able to prove that he is not a vase and settles down to be a "husband and son", will he be just his lover for the rest of his life?
However, she doesn't want to be regarded by the world as Wendi Deng's kind of watch goods who use despicable wrists to get on top.
I'm tired.
Tian Haimo walked for a while before she put her thoughts on the debate: "By the way, according to what you say, those stories of 'lovers eventually become brothers and sisters' seem to be really 'half-brothers', 'separated since childhood and don't know that they are brothers and sisters', and then wait until they finally fall in love, only to be told the truth and find out that it is a bad relationship?"
Is this because 'hereditary sexual attraction' has an effect, but the condition that 'sexual aversion caused by living together during sexual development' is not satisfied?"
"That's it," Feng Jianxiong admitted, gently rubbing Tian Haimo's smooth back, "Now it's time for you to admit defeat and know how unreliable your cranky thinking just now is."
My sister and I are not related by blood at all, so there is no such thing as 'hereditary sexual attraction'. At the same time, she has brought me up since I was a child, and she has no sense of mystery to me at all, so under the dual effect, how can she still be a younger brother? ”
Tian Haimo pouted and thought for a while: "I always feel that there is still a bit of a problem - how to explain the successful cases of those ancient childhood sweethearts? Aren't childhood sweethearts grow up together? What about Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai?"
Feng Jianxiong analyzed directly: "People like Jia Baoyu almost do not exist, and Cao Xueqin's portrayal is not based on real life. And most of the other so-called 'childhood sweethearts', combined with the social reality at the time, have a key point, that is, 'do not live together in the years of sexual maturity and development'.
The ancients paid attention to 'men and women are not at the same seat at the age of seven', so childhood sweethearts are only when they are children, which is equivalent to modern kindergartens and elementary school students. During the critical years of junior high school and high school, they lived separately and did not re-contact until the age of blind date, so that they avoided too much contact and dispelled the sense of mystery during the years when violent physical and psychological changes occurred between men and women, and there was no such thing as 'sexual aversion caused by living together' as I said.
Taking a step back, the ancients still paid attention to arranged marriages, and there was no need for love at all. Even if it is a few childhood sweethearts who have never separated, the parents of the parties feel that they are suitable and can live, so they just live a dull life. ”
Tian Haimo put herself in her shoes and thought about it, and asked: "Then didn't you also go to college and be separated from your sister?" In the past three years, you have occasionally come back to live with your sister, and she is also busy at work. Even if she didn't control you when you were a child, would it be because of the past few years ......"
Feng Jianxiong rudely interrupted this speculation: "You save it! I was 17 years old in college, and she was already 20 years old at that time, and she had already matured, and there was no change in people and no sense of mystery. How can you be suspicious!"
In the face of this kind of rhetoric, Tian Haimo could only stop talking.
However, she was silently complaining in her heart: "Who said that you won't change after you are 17 years old! I heard Mai Trin and Nicole say that when you first entered the university for military training, you would blush when you saw girls, and you would be as tender as a quail!
Feng Yiji's illness...... Is 20 years old considered to be mature? I see that she is clearly living separately from you in the years of puberty! Maybe she has become a stranger to this younger brother!"
However, these words mean that Sang scolded Huai is too suspicious, and Tian Haimo is embarrassed to say it anyway.
She can only be encouraged without anything, and watch carefully.