304 Negative emotions
Su Shi listened to Yun Niang's words and teased: "Do you think that I am also not good-looking, and the master is a concubine?"
Yun Niang said embarrassedly: "How can it be the same, it is the old man's generation, and besides, the wife is very good, how rich, I don't see which wife is comparable to the wife, the slave and the maid like the wife, it looks comfortable, besides, it looks good to eat, the foxes before the third room are good-looking, and they are not sent to Zhuangzi by the master, this life is not good-looking, just the appearance of the slave and the maid, the slave and the maid are not disgusted, and the slave and the maid are good."
Su Shi is happy, this Yun Niang is an optimist, with her, she will always be happy, and she is like a living treasure when she is young, and these children are still living treasures. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
After Yun Niang left, Su Shi thought that a negative person like Grandma Six should be with someone with a character like Yun Niang, otherwise it would be bad for anyone to always see negative emotions.
Some people are too negative, and everything is negative first, so that they don't say it happily, and they also bring depression to others, so Su likes cheerful and lively little ladies like Song Fifteen Niangzi Wu Niangzi, and also likes Yun Niang who is self-satisfied and happy to live happily every day, and the most feared and annoying thing is a negative person like the sixth grandmother.
There is a simple example, half a glass of water, positive people will say that there is still half a glass of water, which is good. Negative people say how to have half a glass of water, it's annoying. Different mentalities bring different endings. Negative people bring depression and even distortion, while positive people bring sunshine. Negative mothers have the greatest impact on their children, there has been a survey, a child raised with negative emotions, most of them are psychologically abnormal, although some look silent, but deep down in the psychology also say that life is too depressing, there are depression, one day can not think about the first step.
If this kind of person says it herself, she also thinks about it, thinks about it clearly, but it is habitual to look at the negative thing, and think about the bad thing, it is estimated that the sixth grandmother is in her mother's family when the experience made her become like this, let's not say that she married the sixth master wronged, if she still does not change, let alone the sixth master, whoever marries her is unlucky, and it will affect future generations. No matter how good a person is, she will find faults, and it will be more of a blow to the child than an encouragement, and the shadow and pressure brought to the child will last a lifetime.
Su sighed, why are there few normal ones? Fortunately, although his son is not outstanding, although he has his own strange personality, he is always sunny. The fifth master just doesn't like to talk, he is not melancholy, he put his enthusiasm and words on the wood carving, he has a positive spirit in his heart, his happiness is also invested in the wood carving, his heart is happy.
Negative people are never happy, not only that, some people also want others to accompany her to be negative, unhappy together, she can't control others, she has to control her children, her unhappiness and negativity are instilled in the child, and then the child is depressed either depression or unformed perverted people, such as alcoholics, with the help of another medium to vent themselves, and the mother still feels that she is very wronged, and the child is not angry and she did not teach.
The more Su Shi thinks about it, the more he thinks that the sixth grandmother has this possibility, look at it in the future, if she is still pessimistic and negative, and the same is true for the child, then Su Shi doesn't mind intervening in his hand, this kind of mother is the sadness of the child under the mother, since he was a child, he has never heard of the mother's positive energy, and all he hears is negative energy, it is better to stay away from the mother with such a mother.
The third master has not come back, Su Shi was also affected by the sixth grandmother's affairs in a bad mood, so he didn't hug Minshan over, sitting at the desk, where the pen and ink don't know what to write, suddenly a boredom came up, and thought Minshan is still so small, I don't know how to teach, the first few are a little laissez-faire, after getting older, and did not invest all the energy, although the previous life of himself invested all the energy, but not necessarily good for the child, the child does not necessarily accept, the wrong way to invest more energy, the more harm to the child。
Su Shi just wrote and painted, and also drew a cartoon kicking ball shape, drawing, painting, I remembered that the mascot came, if you simply carved a palm-sized wood carving of the juju action, one is the representative of Minzhuang, and the other is to advertise Mindiao.
As soon as he was excited, Su drew a few rough sketches, and when the third master came back, he asked him to tell Mr. Cai, carve a model out, and let his two sons carve a lot of it, anyway, now the work of the decoration is not much, too late to find someone outside to carve, the bottom should be engraved with the word Min carving, anyway, it is given for free, not too exquisite.
After drawing a few pictures, having new ideas, and forgetting the unhappiness brought by the sixth grandmother, Su went to hug Minshan and went to the garden, but saw that the second grandmother was also holding the tiger girl in the garden, and Sister Liang was playing happily on the slide.
When the second grandmother saw that her mother-in-law was also coming, she greeted her with a smile and said, "Mother is also here, and Sister Lan is clamoring to come to play, and it just so happens that I haven't seen these either, so I brought them to see."
Before he finished speaking, he saw that his mother-in-law's face was not depressed, so he stopped, but he didn't know why his mother-in-law was.
Su called Mrs. Zheng and asked, "What time is it?"
Mrs. Zheng said embarrassedly: "It's just past noon."
Su Shi said again: "What did I tell you that day?"
Mrs. Zheng lowered her head and said: "Mrs. said that only Shen Shi can let Sister Lan come to play for half an hour, and she can't do it at other times."
"And why is that?"
Without waiting for Mrs. Zheng to answer, the second grandmother also knew why her mother-in-law's face was not depressed, and hurriedly said: "Mother, I saw that Sister Liang was making trouble and wanted to play, so I let her play, Zheng's mother said that she could only play for half an hour, and her daughter-in-law could play for a while if she wanted."
The second grandmother hurriedly shouted at Sister Lan'er: "Sister Lan'er, hurry down and go back with your mother"
Sister Column was playing happily, turned her head and said, "No, Sister Column still wants to play"
Su Shi handed Minshan to Qiu Teng, who followed behind him, and hugged him, walked to the slide, and said, "Sister Lan, tell your grandmother, what did your grandmother tell you that day?"
Sister Lan saw that her grandmother looked serious, so she obediently slid down, stood up, and ran to the second grandmother, the second grandmother pushed her and said, "Come back to grandmother, what did grandmother tell you?"
Sister Liang said: "Grandmother said that only Shen Shi came to play for half an hour every day"
Su said: "The first time, grandmother will be forgotten by you, if you come by yourself next time, grandmother will play the handboard."
Sister Lan nodded yes, raised her face, her eyes were full of tears, she had never seen her grandmother treat her so harshly.
Su Shi said to the second grandmother: "You send Sister Lan back first, and I'll go to it later."
The second grandmother blushed, blessed herself with a tiger girl, and the nurse led Sister Rail back in a hurry. Before I went far, I heard my mother-in-law's voice, "Zheng family, this time you will be fined a month's money, and if there is anything like it, don't do this job"
Mrs. Zheng knelt down and kowtowed: "Madam, the slave doesn't dare anymore."
Su Shi turned around and left, this big fire, the mood was just right, so he destroyed it again, and asked Akito hand over Minshan to the nurse, he was in a bad mood, and he didn't affect the child.