Everyone has emotions, and there will be times when they are unhappy, and they will bring their emotions to others, and they will also be affected by other people's emotions. No matter how mature a person is www.biquge.info it is impossible to face a person who is in a bad mood, who is blind and not affected by anything, who is not a fool or an abbot, who has no thoughts and who is empty.

So Su didn't come back with Minshan, no matter how young the child was, he would see the faces of adults, but fortunately, the master went out today. It's also very innocent to be sprayed by someone who is in a bad mood without making a mistake.

But now Su doesn't know why, if it is caused by the sixth grandmother, she is also very innocent, she didn't say anything excessive, she is still a good daughter-in-law in front of Su.

Maybe it's like what Su Niang said today, the body is damp, the spleen is weak, the bad things can't be discharged, the good things can't come in, the liver is hot, and there seems to be a fire in the heart that wants to burn, and it's all in the throat, and a fuse will erupt out.

Su Shi walked around the house a few times, thinking about how to tell his daughter-in-law that she can't make old mistakes, her daughter-in-law has not accused her of anything since she got married, and in terms of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she has not been angry with her mother-in-law like other people's daughters-in-law, it can be said that she is still glass-hearted, and she wants to say it well.

After a while, the second grandmother came, and Su Shi took a deep breath a few times, this is the daughter-in-law is not a son, or a son can't spray indiscriminately.

The second grandmother didn't dare to sit, Su didn't let it, there was no politeness, and she ran directly to the topic, since she was not a person who could speak tactfully, it was better to open up and say, and then she said: "The second family, this child doesn't know what moderation is, that is, adults are rarely able to do everything in moderation, if you don't cultivate habits from an early age, relying on the child to control himself, it is impossible, you see just now you said who only let Sister Liang play for a while, didn't she say no, play for a while?" You start to obey her, and she thinks that you will follow her in the future, and if she begs you or crys, what are you going to do then? Do you continue to follow her or do you stop her?"

The second grandmother said: "The daughter-in-law will not follow her anymore, she will stop her"

Su Shi said: "Well, you also know that you can't follow her anymore, otherwise it will be endless, and she won't stop playing until she is tired of playing, so if you stop her, she will obediently listen to you? Maybe you have to hit her twice, you see, the result is that you started to follow her, and then did not continue to follow, she was unhappy, and you beat her and got angry, why not let her abide by what she said in advance at the beginning?" Said that the time is good, she will be happy, after playing, she is also happy, you don't have to be angry, next time she will know to wait until the time of Shen to play, isn't it good to develop a habit of compliance?"

The second grandmother blushed and nodded yes, this is the first time that her mother-in-law has said her so harshly when she has married.

Su Shi said: " I'm not not going to let Sister Fence play, I built this for the children in the third room to play, but why let her play when she is in the middle of the day, just after the nap, the sun is not so positive, the child goes to play in the sun for an hour, it's good for the body, just once a day, develop a good habit of compliance, and, I told Sister Column, to listen to her mother's words, if you make your mother unhappy, then you can't come to play, then on the contrary, if she does a good job, then you can reward her, so you can also use this to restrain her, blame me, forgot to tell you this first”

The second grandmother raised her head and said gratefully: "It's the daughter-in-law who is not good, I don't think so much, I always think that Sister Column is still young, and it's not too late to restrain her when she is older, it's my mother who thinks thoughtfully."

Su Shi said: "Sister Liang is a lively, active, and anxious temperament, this must start from a young age, start from small things, don't ignore those small things, only focus on big things, how many big things can a child have? Think about yourself, have there been five major events since you were a child?

Looking at the tears of the second grandmother in her eyes, Su Shi said: "Don't think that what I think is too bad, what I said is too serious, I shouldn't have said the words of the elders in front of the juniors, how much do you know about the third aunt and grandmother, your eldest aunt and aunt have said that Sister Column is a bit like the character of the third aunt and grandmother, smart and lively, do you let her grow up like her aunt and grandmother without restraint?

This one is ruthless, the second grandmother trembled, she is an ancient woman, and she will not accept the style of the third aunt and grandmother, the second grandmother hurriedly said: "Mother, Sister Liang will not become like that, in the future, I will have to teach my daughter-in-law more, and my daughter-in-law will listen to my mother."

Su Shi said again: " It is said that the third aunt and grandmother are very smart when they are young, and they are very lively, and they are the youngest, and everyone in the family loves her, and they all follow her, and the children are nothing more than eating, drinking and having fun, and it is not a big deal to follow them, and they will get used to it, and everything must be happy with her, even the marriage must follow her, otherwise it will be turned upside down, if she is young, someone will restrain her, tell that not everyone has to follow her, and that living in the world is to abide by some rules, not that the third aunt and grandmother are not good, she is very enthusiastic, treats people well, and does things generously, and I have been concubine for 20 years, and the quarrel is over, or continue to come and go, in this house, or the third aunt and grandmother are all helping to be sisters-in-law, but why doesn't everyone accept her?"

The second grandmother didn't squeak, and she couldn't speak to the elders, but she agreed with her mother-in-law's words, she ignored it herself, and always thought that it was not impossible to make Sister Column happy to play with such a trivial matter, and her heart softened when she looked at you with her eyes open. But now that she thinks about the third aunt and grandmother, she is really afraid, if Sister Lan becomes like that, she really doesn't want to live.

Su said: "You think about it yourself, let Sister Column have an expectation, you can also restrain her, where you can't do well, you can cancel the day's play, do a good job reward, but, can't everything rigidly, children should play when they should play, I originally wanted to build a mud pool, there are no children who don't like to play with mud, think too dirty to build." This restraint is also for children with such a temperament as Sister Column, maybe after the tiger girl is older, you don't have to restrain her, she will listen to anything, every child has a different temperament, when the fifth master was a child, I wish he would stay outside to play, if this is the fifth master, I guess I will say, if you play in the garden for a day, you can carve objects the next day"

Speaking of the last witticism, the second grandmother smiled, and Su Shi said something briefly, and let her go back and think about it for herself.

It's really a headache, the grandchildren don't care about anything, they all leave it to the daughter-in-law to go by themselves, but if you can't see it, you still have to stretch out your hand, if the daughter-in-law doesn't like to listen, shouldn't it be time to chop off this outstretched hand?