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In fact, Lu Ran guessed that Guo Xiaosi would come.

But I didn't expect that after he came, it would be like this.

Lu Ran still didn't know why he wanted to learn hypnosis.

Hypnosis is not something that can be mastered in a short period of time, and if the foundation is not strong, blindly self-hypnotizing without professional guidance may cause bad results.

Lu Ran did not sue Guo Xiaosi for these words.

He didn't know why he hadn't said it.

Instead, he made a judgment on him in his heart, this Guo Xiaosi has a secret.

It's a secret that Guo Xiaosi himself can't tell.

What he needs now is not hypnosis, but a counselor.

"But it won't be me. Lu Ran said to himself.

……

Lu Ran found Zhang Xiaoming and told him about Guo Xiaosi.

"If it can't be you, why don't you tell him directly, you can't teach, let him find another counselor?" Zhang Xiaoming looked at him and asked.

He saw that Lu Ran had doubts in his heart, this was looking for him to find help, but Lu Ran didn't realize the hesitation in his heart.

"This ...... At that time, I wanted to find out why he wanted to learn hypnosis. Lu Ran replied.

"Now it's confirmed?" Zhang Xiaoming smiled.

"I'm only sure he needs counseling more than hypnosis. Lu Ran said his judgment.

"Oh, why can't you help him?" Zhang Xiaoming asked again.

"Have you forgotten the teacher? In the professional norms of counselors, if the client is a friend, relative, or enemy of the counselor, as long as there is such an inextricable relationship, it is not allowed to consult. ”

"I remember. ”

In the counseling industry, there is indeed a rule that if the person who comes to the counseling happens to be a friend of the counselor, even if it is just a friend of a friend, the counselor should refer the counselor to other counselors, and cannot help himself.

This is determined by the nature of the counselor's profession, and the first rule of counsellors is that they cannot disclose their conversations without their consent and must keep them confidential.

More importantly, the counselor should try to be objective and neutral in the counseling process, and should not have a blind impression of the client, let alone prejudice or disgust.

Because this will affect the objective position of the consultation, and then affect the effectiveness of the consultation.

If there is a relationship between the counselor and the client outside of the consultation, then the counselor and the client may be biased against each other and the confidentiality of the information may not be favorable.

"So, you've already thought about it, why are you still asking me?" Zhang Xiaoming asked with a smile.

"I ......" Lu Ran wanted to say that I had no doubts. But stopped.

"Do you want to help him?" Zhang Xiaoming looked into Lu Ran's eyes.

"I ......" Lu Ran wanted to say no, but stopped again.

What kind of mood is this?

"By the way, Mr. Shen is not in the country for the next class, so I will substitute in advance. Don't forget to come to class. Zhang Xiaoming interrupted Lu Ran's tangled thoughts.

"Good. Lu Ran replied.

The hypnosis class will invite different teachers from Blue Ocean to give lectures, and each teacher will have a different number of class hours.

Zhang Xiaoming is one of the designated training teachers and his own mentor, so Lu Ran will naturally take it seriously.

……

The time soon came to the day of class, and Lu Ran came to the classroom very early according to his usual habits, and helped Sissi occupy a front position, next to him.

When Sissi saw that Lu Ran helped her occupy a seat, she trotted to Lu Ran's side and quickly sat down.

"Brother Lu, I received another call from Guo Xiaosi today. He said he wouldn't be coming to class and that he was going to wait for your reply. ”

"Who he thought he was. Leave him alone. Lu Ran was still hesitating in his heart.

"Today, I'm here to teach you. Some of my classmates are more familiar with me, and some are still strangers. My name is Zhang Xiaoming. ”

Teacher Zhang's voice appeared on the podium.

The classmates all applauded Teacher Zhang, and he saw Lu Ran and Qianqian sitting in front of him.

"Before I talk about hypnosis, I'm going to give another class to all the students here. A more basic course than the hypnosis technique itself.

Whether it's a child I know well, or a classmate I don't know. I haven't taught this lesson before: about the good and evil of human nature. ”

"Human nature, why did the teacher say this?" asked Lu Ran.

Lu Ran also shook his head.

"At the beginning of man, nature is good. Do you agree with what the three-character scripture says?" Zhang Xiaoming asked.

Some of the students nodded, some shook their heads.

"Why did the teacher ask this?" "Is this a philosophy class...... everyone didn't quite understand, and they all started to discuss in the audience.

"Lu Ran, what do you think?" Zhang Xiaoming looked at Lu Ran.

"I ......" Lu Ran stood up, he thought for a moment and said, "I think so." ”

"Oh? I don't think so. If human nature is good, then why do we need to make laws, regulations, and bind people?

In other words, why does one person become annoying to other people?"

Lu Ran did not answer.

"Is human nature evil?" Zhang Xiaoming looked at Lu Ran again. "I don't think so.

How can a bad word sum up the selfishness, love, and hate in human nature?"

"I think goodness is a collective term for love, joy, and tolerance. Whereas evil is various generalizations of hatred, disgust, greed.

Sex is similar, Xi is far away. In life, both good and evil exist, and they are not expressed, but because the things they have experienced are different and the habits they have learned are different, there is naturally a deviation, some people are more open-minded, some people are more cunning, some people love more, and some people hate more. ”

"Teacher, you say so much, are people good or evil?"

"Human nature is chaos. Zhang Xiaoming gave an answer.

Lu Ran listened thoughtfully.

"There are a million possibilities for human nature. The first thing a psychological counselor should do is to accept these thousands of possibilities. Zhang Xiaoming continued to interpret.

Lu Ran's eyes lit up.

"We ask counsellors to be as neutral as possible when dealing with incoming clients.

Did we all do it?"

This rule, which everyone is usually accustomed to, was asked by Zhang Xiaoming, and everyone was a little at a loss.

"That's what we all demand of ourselves. One of the students stood up and replied.

"That's right. This classmate said, "That's what we ask, but how many people can really do it?" Zhang Xiaoming asked further.

"In the face of a person who is rude in language and speaks insulting to you, can you not be concerned and not get angry? In the face of a criminal who does all kinds of evil and commits murder and theft, can you not be disgusted? In the face of people who have different positions and have contradictions, can you also let go of the self in your heart?"

The last question, Zhang Xiaoming looked at Lu Ran and asked.

"But Mr. Zhang, this is too difficult to do, each of us has love and hatred, how can we give it all up?"

Some people feel embarrassed and want to refute it.

"This is also a cultivation, and we are all on the path of cultivation. ”

"Doesn't that mean we'll never be completely neutral?"

"Yes. ”

Zhang Xiaoming's crisp answer caught people off guard.

Why persist in a cultivation that can never be completed, walking on a path that will never see the end?

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