084 A daughter-in-law is the one who plucks the fruit
After returning to the Hou Mansion, Su Shi slept well for a while. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info
At the end of the month, no matter who is busy, Su handed over the housework of the third room to the second grandmother a year earlier, and now, she has a big belly, the second grandmother is still in confinement, she can't, she can only ask the sister-in-law, let the fifth grandmother follow as a helper, and Chuncao also shifted the focus to this.
Here the New Year's gift is tired of the housewife, the man only cares about the outside entertainment, but, the trivial is more busy than the entertainment, the housewife is to entertain to prepare the annual gifts of each family, the annual gifts are not the same inconvenient, some can follow the old routine, but some should be combined with the situation at the time to increase or decrease, who should give what gifts, all have an account in mind.
If the eldest daughter-in-law is not inconvenient, it is not easy for the Su family to push the second daughter-in-law up, that is, to block the two concubines, oh, the eldest daughter-in-law is here, the mother-in-law pushed out the second daughter-in-law, is it not to slap the eldest daughter-in-law in the face, think she is useless?
Now it just so happens that this second daughter-in-law is a little meek and lacks exercise, so she won't push her out at this time.
A few days later, it is the full moon of the second granddaughter Tiger Niu, if the first of the second grandmother is a son, and the second is a daughter, the Su family doesn't want to do a full moon wine, and then it will be good to do it for a hundred days, but if you don't do a full moon wine, it is estimated that everyone wants to have three rooms, this is not happy and gave birth to a little girl? Su's headache, the New Year will be celebrated in a few days, isn't this adding to the chaos, not to mention the chaos at home, you have to let relatives and friends come to socialize, and other people's families are also busy.
I had to only invite relatives in the third room, otherwise the eldest son-in-law's family would have to mumble.
As the old saying goes: on the twenty-fifth day of the lunar month, push and grind to make tofu. Spring is coming back and we are about to enter the new year. It is also a good day to have a full moon wine on this day. Su invited his mother's family and in-laws, just let Chuncao go to the second grandmother to say a word for this, and the banquet will be handed over to the fifth grandmother, let Chuncao follow to assist, such a small family banquet, the fifth grandmother can do it alone, and just let Su take a look to see what the fifth grandmother lacks, and what aspects will be strengthened in the future. Su sighed, his previous life was a worrying life.
On that day, the in-laws came early in the morning, Su's eldest son-in-law's mother-in-law Cen's second wife of the Shaoqing family, Sun is her eldest daughter, and she befriended her through her mother's sister-in-law, and they lost their temper with each other, Su also saw her upright, and was willing to intersect with her, and gradually the two of them had been in contact for more than ten years.
Cen is fancy Su's temperament, in a small chat, Su to some mothers-in-law have to add blockage between sons and daughters-in-law, when Su smiled and said: between this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is like you buried a seed, hard fertilization and watering, every day to see it sprout and grow, from the thin pole to the small strip, slowly draw, slowly grow into a strong tree, how much effort you have spent in the past ten years, you know. When the tree bears fruit, ripe, you are relieved to breathe, just want to reach out to pick, at this time, next to the stretched out a hand to take it away, after that, you look at the fruits of your hard work, being held in the arms of others, are you angry? So the mother-in-law looks at which daughter-in-law her son marries, she is uncomfortable, because the son no longer belongs to you, but most of the time and energy to live with the daughter-in-law, when the mother-in-law's heart is empty, even if I am not happy, I will make you unhappy.
Most women will have some such thoughts when they become mothers-in-law, the difference is that some people are not right, some people are right, no matter how uncomfortable they are, they also know that this is nature, and they can't wait to live with their own small family, if they stick to his mother all day long, it will be normal, and a reasonable mother-in-law will think so.
If you don't want to be reasonable, that's the tragedy of your daughter-in-law. Of course, Cen is willing to let his eldest daughter's mother-in-law be a mother-in-law with a righteous and reasonable heart, when Su said, the kind of person who is a mother-in-law is all about her son, so after her son gets married, her heart has nowhere to go, looking at most of the women whose husbands and wives are not in harmony, and the women who are loving and harmonious in the family are rarely like this, because she has not only her son in her heart, but also herself, and her husband. Su sneered and said that she would never interfere in the affairs of her son and daughter-in-law in the future, and she would not do anything that harmed others and herself.
At that time, after hearing Su's words, Cen was moved, but the child was still young, and she didn't dare to make a decision, her mother-in-law was good, and her son couldn't do it. That's because she is stubborn against her husband's opinion, let others see, the third master of Xuanping Houfu is not angry, and his children and grandchildren are not promising, why should she give this kiss to the eldest daughter.
But now it seems that the Cen family is very fortunate to have this relationship, if it is another family, two daughters are born in a row, and the daughter-in-law does not know how to live with her tail between her tail in her mother-in-law's house. The day after his daughter gave birth to her second daughter, Cen came to visit, and met with Su Shi affectionately, seeing that Su Shi didn't mean to be unhappy at all, this heart was put down.
This time the full moon wine is not to do three rooms, even if it is to give birth to a son, at this time the mother-in-law has a big belly, and it is the year before, and there is nothing to say if you don't do it to outsiders, but the family can do it, Cen knows that this is for the woman's mother's family to see, for this, Cen is full of gratitude.
Cen and her husband's concubine took the little ladies to the Hou Mansion and asked them to see Sun's family, and they came to Su's place first, and entered the house to see Su's wearing a silver-red long shirt, combing an ingot's hair bun, and only pasting a silver-blue Huasheng on the right side of the bun. She walked around the room with her stomach up, and when she saw Cen Shi, she greeted her with a smile on her face.
Cen Shi also smiled and took Su Shi's hand and said, "Why don't you sit down and rest?"
Su Shi said: "Didn't I wait for you, I knew you would come early in the morning" pulled Cen Shi to sit on the bed, "Sister come here to sit, it's hot here"
Then he said, "Have you gone to see the tiger girl? I haven't seen it since I was born."
Cen said with a smile: "I can see you after today, I haven't gone there today, let's take a look at you first, last time I saw Xiaohu Niu, it was your name, she looks really round, looks like a son-in-law, her eyes are big, and her nose and mouth are like her mother."
Su Shi smiled: "It's good to be like a mother, and she is a beautiful lady when she grows up, you look at Sister Lan, she is also more like her mother, and now it's not better to look better the longer she gets."
Listening to Su's praise of his daughter's granddaughter, Cen couldn't stop laughing, and he was even more satisfied with this in-law.
While they were talking, Guan Song and Song's cousin's wife also came, and Su got up and sat down around the table with Cen and introduced each other. Everyone nodded to each other.