Su Shi looked at this concubine who was still in the Suiguo Mansion, and she didn't have the right to choose herself, and she thought in her heart, in ancient times, the fate of a woman was first in the hands of her mother's family, and then in her husband's family, and only when she was an old feudal monarch, could she live a more wanton life. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info is also the unscrupulous and unscrupulous life of the third aunt and grandmother, or the people here will not be able to accept her.

Guan Song continued: "I look at my brother's daughter-in-law, and I only care about fighting with my younger brother, Song Thirteen Niangzi will be sixteen after the New Year, which little lady in Beijing is not thirteen or fourteen and began to look at each other, you see, my brother and daughter-in-law have worried about the marriage of the thirteenth lady, once I asked her, she was not happy to say that I let my sister-in-law Zhang Luo go first, is this what the mother said?" I can't figure it out, what is she worried about except for her younger brother and those concubines, when the thirteenth lady and her sister were also my sister-in-law and sister-in-law, relying on her mother-in-law, it is estimated that she will not be able to marry until now."

Su secretly said in his heart: I know the mentality of this kind of woman, love is the most important thing in their life, some women have no love, self-harm, either heartbroken fragrance and jade damage, or constantly make trouble, if they have love, with the love of men, then, they will live a very moisturized and radiant life, and their hearts are satisfied, so they have the energy to worry about other things. The third aunt and grandmother are also this kind of people.

Guan Song sighed and said: "This person is also fate, don't look at some women in their mother's house with unlimited scenery, married people are not to look at the husband or to see the husband's family, back then my sister-in-law, one heart to marry, said to move my father, to her coal matchmaking, married to Anyang Houfu, now see what, Anyang Hou won the knighthood, only a few sons in Beijing were left, the rest were sent back to their hometown, I knew so, it is better to marry low, relying on our Suiguo Mansion, which one dares to do her?

Guan Song probably said that he was tired, lying down crookedly like Su, and without waiting for Su to answer, he said again: "My other sister-in-law, now think about it, she is smart, she doesn't say anything, she only knows how to tie my mother, and she never rises among sisters, what happened later, marrying the son-in-law of a county in another province, or the eldest son, at that time I also told my mother, why marry her to such a family, let outsiders say what about the mother, and marry a concubine low." My mother said that a few candidates for marriage were the ones chosen by Sister Shu herself. You said why did the eldest son marry you, don't you just want to have a backer in Beijing in the future, these decades, the county has become the prefect, if there is no Sui Guogong top, who cares about him a broken county, Sui Guogong does not have to come forward, as long as he says that he is Sui Guogong's in-laws, which one does not give him face? This time my father's birthday, the prefect can't leave the place of his position, but my sister and brother-in-law came, and the one who laughed the happiest today, the chubby one, I can't see it, how smooth the day is, to eat so fat”

After speaking, Guan Song also gestured and said with a smile: "It's all top of the two of me."

Su covered her mouth and listened to her babble about some gossip in her family.

Su Shi has always been happy, and said in his heart: I am not only a spiritual trash can, but also a good listener.

In my previous life, I heard a friend say: when he was in college, he and a few classmates went to a fellow school in the city to play, and it happened that the classmate's father was at home, and he listened to his father alone, and the other classmates were playing in another room, and after a few months, the classmate asked him, what did you talk about with my father that day, and my father asked you several times, saying why I didn't take you home to play, and praised you, I was strange, my father was a quiet and serious person, and few people could talk to him. Friends listened to it was also very strange, thought about what to talk about that day for a long time, oh, remembered, he barely spoke, was embarrassed to go to the house with his classmates to play, and threw an elder in the living room, and then the classmate's father said that he was doing architecture, and the friend asked a question about architecture curiously, and then almost listened to the classmate's father, he listened to it for a long time and didn't understand at all, but he still nodded and smiled politely.

Friends said that after that, he understood that no matter how cold he was, he also needed to talk and need a listener, and in the future, especially for the elders, teachers and family members, he learned to listen, and being a good listener is also to give others a respect.

Friends say Su, but you, you always finish your words in a panic, always don't listen to what others have to say, you don't take what others say to your heart, you always complain that your husband and children don't pay attention to you, but do you pay attention to them? Pay attention is not only to give them good food and clothing, pay attention not to you rush to finish all the housework, let them all enjoy the happiness, pay attention is not that you save money for them to use, pay attention is more psychological, it is you who take what they think and like to heart, not everything has to be according to your meaning.

At that time, Su Shi was already middle-aged, and he was really embarrassed to hear those words. It was only after middle age that Su Shi slowly realized that she thought that her credit was only to aggravate other people's boredom with her.

Therefore, Su Shi has been a good listener in this life, which is also the reason why some women have a heart-to-heart relationship with her after they know her, because she doesn't like to socialize, and she won't gossip everywhere after listening.

Thinking of this, Su Shi smiled, and the eldest son's mother-in-law listened to it like this.

The two of them chattered crookedly, and the Su family was so sleepy that they couldn't open their eyes, and a maid came in and said that Mrs. Hou was ready to go back. Su Shi is excited, the spirit is good, I can finally go back, I usually listen to it, but now my body and spirit really can't get up to listen to the gossip.

Walking out of the door, Chuncao and Akito were waiting, and when they saw Su Shi coming out, they all stepped forward to hold him, and Guan Song said embarrassedly: "Originally, I asked my younger brothers and sisters to come to me to rest, but I listened to my chatter."

Su Shi smiled: "It's okay, I rest all day at home, and I finally go out today, besides, I also like to listen to my cousin, I think we are quite compatible."

Guan Song said happily: "No, when I came back this time, I felt that I could talk to you, and I felt that I would lose my temper with you, but it was a pity that I would have to go back after the year, otherwise I would see you in the future and have a chat, how good"

Su Shi said yes again and again, and said in his heart: Spare me, I don't have the energy to listen to anyone now, and with the little guy in the future, I won't have that energy.

Su arrived at the gate of the main courtyard, saw the maid lift the curtain to let Mrs. Tai come out, sister-in-law and seven ladies hurriedly stepped forward to help, the second wife and the sixth lady were about to walk to the gate, saw Su came over, Xia Qing went to hold Mrs. Tai, the seventh lady hurried to help the mother-in-law, Akito took a step back, the sister-in-law looked at the sixth lady standing behind the second sister-in-law, Su Yile, secretly laughed at the second sister-in-law, the old one has no eyesight, and he still expects the church to be small. At this time, it is the time for the little lady to behave, not to hold Mrs. Tai, and stand there as a plaster statue.

After leaving the prince and the wife, the group came to the gate, the Hou Ye and the second master, the third master and a few masters and sons were waiting, everyone got into the carriage, and the lady was also tired, and everyone hurried back to the house in the carriage.