Chapter 187: You have low self-esteem

Xiao Budian held the doll, and Father Mo touched her head. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

"Xiaoyu is so beautiful today, is it the dress that my sister bought for you? Like a little princess. ”

"My sister said, I'm a princess. Xiao Bu said coquettishly.

"Yes, yes, you are. ”

Father Mo looked at his daughter, and the love in his heart was about to overflow.

Only then did he stand up and explain to Teacher Liu, Lu Ran, and Xia Lan: "I'm really sorry for causing trouble to everyone today, I was thinking that I would come over in the afternoon, but I worked overtime temporarily, and I was a little late, and when I got nearby, I thought about buying a gift, so I walked away." Who would have thought that the phone was out of battery again. It was getting dark, and I walked down another path, no, I was a little misguided. ”

He patted his head and said apologetically, "I'm worried about everyone, I haven't been here for a while, and I haven't walked that path before." At night, there were fewer people on that path, and I didn't find anyone to ask for directions. It's, alas, it's all my fault. ”

Hearing him say this, everyone breathed a sigh of relief, and dared to be nervous for a while.

"Xiaolu, but Xia Lan and I also turned around and walked in the direction of the path, but we never saw you. Lu Ran scratched his head and asked.

"Have you been on the trail just now?" asked Teacher Liu.

"Oh, no, I was walking in the direction of the station, but I didn't find it, so I went in the opposite direction, and later, I came to the path. Lu Ran replied.

"Hey, it's really not a coincidence, I guess, we happened to be divided into three ways. I went to the mountain road, and you went to the mainland, and at this time, he touched the path, and just when we were leaving, he found it. If you choose the path the first time, you may run into him. ”

As soon as Mr. Liu said this, everyone understood, it turned out that Uncle Mo's mobile phone happened to be out of battery, and the two groups of people who went out to look for him happened to miss the way he came.

After Lu Ran understood, he didn't know what to say.

I was so nervous along the way, afraid that he would have an accident, and even more afraid that natural and man-made disasters would fall on the shoulders of this weak, overwhelmed little girl.

Lu Ran thought about a lot of results and made all kinds of psychological preparations.

But I didn't expect it to be such a big oolong.

He wanted to laugh happily, and he wanted to cry with joy.

He felt that he understood the mood of Xiao Xiao, and her tears must have been a mixture of joy and sorrow.

A big stone finally fell to the ground in his heart, and Lu Ran was much more relaxed.

Sissi put her hands together on her chest, looking at the picture of the reunion of father and daughter, and was doubly moved.

However, at this time, Xia Lan silently left the crowd alone and walked towards the darkness of the corridor.

In the corner of her eyes, she happened to see this scene, she walked to Lu Ran's side and asked softly, "What's wrong with Senior Sister?"

Lu Ran found that Xia Lan was gone, and he said to Qian Qian, "I'll go and see." ”

Then, he also walked into the darkness deep in the corridor on the left.

"Xia Lan, are you there, where are you going?"

In the night, Lu Ran vaguely saw Xia Lan's figure at the end of the corridor.

Hearing Lu Ran's shout, she turned her face and glanced at Lu Ran, who also had only a black shadow.

"It's nothing, just stand here and rest for a while. Xia Lan's two arms were propped up on the railing and stopped there.

"What's wrong with you? Aren't you happy that your little dad has found it?"

Xia Lan did not answer.

Lu Ran walked up to her and put his arm on the railing.

Seeing that Xia Lan was silent, Lu Ran thought about it and asked her, "Why does the little father call her Xiaoyu instead of Xiaoqing?"

This question caused Xia Lan to think for a while, and she said:

"Xiao Bu's name, in the past, was not called Mo Yuqing, but only two words, Mo Yu. Xia Lan recalled, "It's just because so many unpleasant things happened to her that his father thought of adding another Qing character to the original name."

I hope that her heart is no longer gloomy, and the sky will be sunny after the rain. ”

Hearing Xia Lan's explanation, Lu Ran understood a lot.

Xia Lan lowered her head, thinking back to today's birthday party, recalling her immature little face, and sighed lightly: "I thought that with my care and encouragement, she would be strong." ”

As she spoke, she smiled bitterly, "But look at her, she is still so frightened, so vulnerable. What would happen if she didn't see her dad today?

I'm not blaming her, I'm just ......"

Xia Lan paused, "After all this time, have I really helped her get out of the magic barrier and made her accept her inadequacy?

She was not blaming Xiao Budian, but blaming herself, she did not have the courage to answer this question.

She felt that she hadn't done enough, not good enough.

Hearing Xia Lan's series of questions, Lu Ran was also silent.

Xia Lan suddenly felt that she was a little out of shape, exposing her own heart at this moment.

"I'm nothing, I want to walk alone. Xia Lan calmed down and said.

"Big night, don't be alone, just walk around the playground, I'll accompany you. Lu Ran said uncomfortably.

Xia Lan didn't answer, and walked to the bottom of the stairs by herself.

When they arrived at the playground, the two walked silently, and the runway was almost halfway through, but Xia Lan still didn't say a word.

Lu Ran didn't want to be embarrassed all the way, he suddenly asked, "So, have you figured it out?"

"What?" Xia Lan didn't understand.

"Xia Lan, have you forgotten. Counseling, in the final analysis, is the influence of one personality on another. ”

Lu Ran's truth about one personality to another was not made up by himself.

This is the experience that has been recognized and circulated by many peers in the field of psychology, and it has become a universal law.

Teachers often mention this phrase when teaching.

The counselor is also a human being, not a god.

In the face of the counselor's persuasion, sometimes the client still helplessly says, "I understand what you say, but I can't do it." ”

Therefore, in the end, the consultants will not advise, convince, or reason.

Rather, it is through the constant conversation between the counselor and the client, so that the other party can be subtly and subtly influenced by their own positive and positive influence.

Hence the saying.

Xia Lan had also learned this truth that Lu Ran said, but she didn't know why Lu Ran wanted to say it at this time.

"Xia Lan, you really didn't do well. ”

Lu Ran's sudden words made Xia Lan stunned for a moment.

Really......

"Xia Lan, you are very professional, but you can't understand your own problems. Lu Ran stopped.

"What do you mean?" Xia Lan turned to look at him.

"You always think you're bad, that's your problem. ”

Lu Ran looked at her solemnly and said.

Xia Lan frowned, thinking about the meaning of Lu Ran's words.

"What do I have to do with this matter whether I am good or not. ”

"Because you have low self-esteem. Lu Ran said simply and directly.

Xia Lan was stunned for a moment. (To be continued.) )