184 If you don't have that ability, don't be foolish
After a few days of scientific research, the third master took a few entourages to pick up the sixth master and seven lang and they came back, both of them were as if they were dehydrated, and they didn't wash when they came back, and they fell asleep after eating and drinking. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½
The sixth grandmother took the maid to serve wholeheartedly, and the next afternoon the sixth master woke up from a full sleep, and his spirit looked better, when he just came back, Su Shi glanced at it, and his heart was as if he had fled back from Syria.
After the third master asked a few words about how the test was, he didn't care. I want Su Shi to say, like the third master, no matter what is the best, if he is strict, he is confused, and he doesn't know what crooked neck tree to manage. Let the words of Su's friends in his previous life mean that if you don't have that ability, don't be foolish.
Su Shi had heard a friend say in his previous life that parents with unclear brains and low minds interfere too much with their children and discipline their children strictly in the way they think is right. They all grow into crooked neck trees, and they don't recognize that they can not grow into pear blossom trees, and they grow into tall poplars that are stronger than crooked neck trees.
This friend cited one of her clients, saying that since she went to school, she was guarded by her mother and was not allowed to interact with her classmates, for fear of delaying her studies, and she had never talked to outsiders until she graduated from high school.
Su's friend said that the client said that at that time, she was most afraid that a classmate would go to her house to find her, because her mother would pull her face and slam the door, and the sensitivity and rebellion of adolescence made her personality a little awkward and rebellious, and she was still melancholy and pessimistic about everything in middle age.
Su Shi listened and reflected, most of the parents of his generation were uneducated, and they happened to be teaching who were not afraid to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry all over the world, and most of the parents said that as long as you study hard, I can sell blood for you. What's wrong with painting well, crooked and heretical, if you like to read extracurricular books, that's not a good job, you can't play anything except textbooks, you can't read it.
Under the guidance of such uneducated parents, there are many people who grow into crooked neck trees, even the Su family also thinks that they have some problems in their hearts, they are most afraid of dealing with people, they don't like to socialize, even if they wear here, they don't like to go out, and they participate in this banquet and that flower party, and they can't shirk the contacts between relatives, and they can only show up, so when it comes to the third wife of Xuanping Houfu in the capital, many female relatives have a vague impression, they are not outstanding, and their temperament is battery.
In Su's previous life, the parents worked hard for their children, and the way of education was that they didn't know which was right, and only carried out it in the way they thought was good for their children. And although Su Shi has gone to school and is educated, he is still greatly influenced by his parents, and he is hard-working for the family and his children, and he has been somewhat influenced by the ideas of the older generation, and I also think that I am doing this and asking you for your own good, forcing the child to accept, in the era of information changes in the times, where is the child who has accepted the new point of view willing to listen to the words of a long-winded and outdated mother.
It is very important to be subtle, not to mention that parents are the first teachers of children, and what parents do will bring the biggest psychological shadow to the child in his life. I remember watching a Korean drama in which a man who became a father for the first time said that after having a child, you should pay attention to the posture of drinking water, because children first learn everything from their parents.
So wearing here, for the eldest son, the second son and the third son, Su Shi does not participate too much, there is a way to educate children suitable for this era, but in private, Su is more encouragement than criticism, more recognition than accusation, as long as it does not hinder moral character, Su Shi let them do it at will, because she didn't even think about herself, and she knew that she was a failed mother in her previous life, is she high IQ and high EQ in this life? No, Su Shi doesn't think so, she will only learn from her failures and change her mistakes, but she is still not an expert on what is right and the most beneficial way to educate children. Since you can't teach it well, it's better to let it go.
Su laughed at himself, it's not bad to be a fool in dress, he was a fool in his previous life, and he was a human spirit once he crossed over?
Therefore, Su Shi felt that the third master was wandering every day before, fooling around with Cousin Song, and she didn't care about the children, she was not angry, she didn't care about the ability to teach the children, she didn't care about it, he was an ordinary son, and if he was asked to teach the mentally handicapped, he couldn't cry or laugh.
After the sixth master, who returned home after the exam this time, woke up, finished washing, and came to the main room to greet his parents, but he didn't say a word about the food that Su prepared for him.
It wasn't that Su Shi was waiting for him to thank him, but that he thought, even if it wasn't to his mother-in-law, as a relative or an outsider, at least he had to be polite. I also gave my sister-in-law a copy, and at noon today, Qilang came to the door in person to thank him, and then his aunt also came to Yanmintang to let Chuncao convey her gratitude, saying that the soup was a great help, and it was convenient.
This is what Su Shi just made up for if he can't teach his children, don't teach blindly, the sixth master is a father, he ignores his mother, the biological mother is an aunt, and she is a concubine with crooked thoughts and not much level, what positive teaching can he give to the sixth master? It is estimated that he has not eaten what his mother-in-law has prepared, and he is afraid that his mother-in-law will drug him.
When the sixth master came to the main room, he also ate the food given by the Su family, but then he stopped eating it, and he didn't dare to drink the water. is also a concubine, although Aunt Luo has a soft temperament and no backbone, but she is not dirty in her heart, she is happy and approves of the seventh lady's frequent visit to her mother, and she is afraid that her wife will not take care of a concubine.
And the Su family is a laissez-faire for his sons, who talk a lot and become chattering, who talk less become silent, and who are picky become picky, but at least they live their own lives, live happily, and have no heart diseases.
The Su family in the brain supplement just listened to the questions and answers of the third master and the sixth master with a smile, inserted a few words of concern, echoed a few words of the third master's high talk, and didn't say a word of superfluity. She is not a virgin, she must use a hot face to stick to the cold ass of the concubine, it is not me who caused you to become a concubine, and you want to blame your biological father and mother, it is they who complain to each other to have you, what does it matter to me?
Sometimes looking at the yin and yang face of the concubine, the Su family doesn't understand why many concubines regard their mother-in-law as a great enemy, purely because they have something wrong with their hearts. Is it that some mothers-in-law are not good, but it is not good that your mother-in-law brought you to this world?
After the sixth master said goodbye, Su didn't want to deal with the third master because of the sixth master, so he turned around and called Chuncao at the door to come in, and told her to set the meal. I still want to think about roast duck, but Su doesn't like to eat duck, so I don't know what ingredients to put in the roast duck.