"What if it's a lot of fun?" Sun Lili probably never thought that there were such strict procedures to follow in the relationship between men and women, and it had to be gradual, and her curiosity was high at this time. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

"Then we have to move on to the next stage, in order to get to know each other more deeply and make sure that two people can complement each other when they live together, you can try to live together for a period of time. People can pretend for a while, but not for a lifetime. For example, you can use makeup to make yourself fancy every day, but you can't go to bed with makeup when you go home at night, right? Even if you are cruel to yourself and have a black heart to lie to me, and go to bed with makeup, what about the next morning? Can you still not wash your face? For example, I can pretend to be humorous and funny, and my mouth is not idle all day to amuse you, but when I always have troubles and sorrows in my daily life, what will I become at that time, can you usually see what I will become? No matter how beautiful you are, as beautiful as a fairy, after two people have been together for a long time, I will have the habit of looking at it, and I will no longer feel how amazing you are, will I get bored at that time? Will I go out to hook up with three or four? This requires a long time of close contact to be tested, there is no second way!"

It was the first time Hong Tao had talked about these things with someone else, a peer, or a beautiful woman of the same age. This theory is the best plan he came up with after combining his own past experiences, seeing the experiences of others, and consulting with his uncle's gang many times, or at least he thinks it is the best. The reason why I can talk to Sun Lili now is mainly because Hong Tao thinks that her experience is more special, and it is possible to understand her own thoughts. If it were an ordinary girl, Hong Tao would never have made it so clear, so she could only do it according to this concept. This means that there are some things that can be said but not done, and some things that can be done but not said.

"If it's not suitable, separate again?" Sun Lili's expression was clearly telling Hong Tao that she couldn't accept this kind of procedure, although she was already a more open woman in this regard, she still had a bad feeling about Hong Tao's explanation.

"When two people get married, it's actually like a partnership doing business, and it's a long-term partner, and a cooperation is the kind for a lifetime. If you don't do a solid job in the early stage, you are not responsible for yourself, and at the same time, you are not responsible for the common cause of two people. Divorce is a very troublesome thing, it is physically and mentally devastating for two people, and it is a bankruptcy crisis for the family, and if there are children, the impact can even extend to the next generation. Rather than doing this, it would be better to go through the trouble for a year or two to minimize this huge risk as much as possible, and I think this is the most reasonable solution. When it comes to divorce, Hong Tao feels more emotional, although he has not personally experienced that kind of taste, but thinking about what happened to Jin Yue, he can almost empathize.

"You're not a hooligan...... It's been a year or two of living together, but as a result, you said that it was not suitable, and you got rid of other girls, and it was you men who took advantage, and it was always women who suffered!" Sun Lili began to move physically, with a foot on Hong Tao's leg, and defined Hong Tao's statement as rogue logic.

"If I wanted to be a hooligan, I shouldn't have said that, just talk about you and get you into the house. When I'm annoyed, can you still rely on me? Your point of view is not right, there is no such thing as anyone suffering and taking advantage of this matter, and both sides have to invest emotion and energy. If a woman can recognize what kind of virtue her partner will live with for decades in the future, how can it be said that she will suffer a loss? If this is the case, after five or ten years of marriage, you will no longer be able to live and get a divorce, and you will become a yellow-faced woman, will you suffer even more? In our current social environment, the longer it drags on, the more unfavorable it will be to the woman, and a man in his thirties is nothing, and a woman in her thirties is nothing unless the conditions are particularly good! What do you say?" Regarding Sun Lili's accusations, Hong Tao resolutely cannot admit it. If you want to say that you have some hooligan habits, you will admit it, but if you say that you have the intention of being hooligan in this regard, it is absolutely an unfounded accusation.

“…… You're so annoying! It's a beautiful thing, but how can it be a deal in your mouth! Don't you think it's very boring for the two of us to talk about terms in such a serious way face to face? In addition, I wonder where all these ideas come from? How do you give me the impression that you have been married many times, otherwise how can you think about everything so comprehensively and calculate everything. "If Sun Lili at the dinner table just now was a spring heart, now she is almost cold. Whether I like the man in front of me or not, I was uncertain before, and now I am even more uncertain, especially after listening to him say this. He's terrible, too rational, too cold-blooded, and too inhuman.

“…… I don't know...... Some of the ideas came out of nowhere, and I pondered and pondered, and they did make sense. If it makes sense, and I can't find a reason to oppose it, why should I oppose it? As for the good feeling...... I think so, everything should be considered first about its end goal, not to think about whether the process is good, as long as the goal can be achieved, the process is not important. For example, a plate of fried rice and a table of good dishes are similar to me, both are used to fill my stomach. If I have time to enjoy a table of delicious food, of course I will choose the latter, but if I don't have enough time, I don't think it's okay to eat fried rice, and my goal is to have a full stomach. It's the same with marriage, I find a girlfriend, the purpose of marriage is to cooperate with two people for a lifetime, it doesn't matter whether there is vigorous love or not, as long as the final goal can be achieved, I will be satisfied. Of course, if I can do both, the problem is that I don't have the ability to control both within the controllable range, so I have to think about the end goal first and give up part of the process. If you have a better way to do both, I'd like to try it, do you?"

Hong Tao really doesn't know where his ideas come from, originally his concept of love and marriage was not so systematic, or he didn't know what kind of woman he wanted at all, as long as it looked good, he wanted it. But these days, some strange ideas often pop up in my head, and these ideas do not contradict my own concepts, and they are easily integrated into my own outlook on life, values, and worldview, and gradually let myself have a set of opinions about the world.

"I ...... I'm sleepy, do you sleep on the sofa or the bed?" Sun Lili wanted to say yes, but when the words came to her mouth, she found that she couldn't say anything.

In her mind, love is a very desirable and beautiful thing, but if she really wants to say how to carry out love with quality and quantity, she really can't say it. The main reason is that what Hong Tao said is not all unreasonable, if it is implemented according to his method, it will indeed be a lot more secure. In fact, this idea is more suitable for women like themselves, the more men they contact at work, the more they look forward to the real love life, and at the same time, the more fragile they are, and they easily dare not touch the emotional thing, because the psychology is only such a clean thing, if you smash it again, you will really become a walking dead bastard. But how does Sun Lili think that what Hong Tao said is not called love, she doesn't know what it is called, and now her mind is in a mess, where is there any spring heart, it's all bad.

“…… "Hong Tao originally wanted to say that it was just past nine o'clock, and it was not difficult to take a taxi outside. But considering that she has been serving her for most of the day, and she has just been mentally devastated, she is disillusioned, she must be physically and mentally exhausted, and it is obviously inhumane to kill her again.

Before going to bed, Hong Tao took another antipyretic pill, then covered himself with two quilts, opened his mouth instead of his not-so-ventilated nose, and tossed and turned on the sofa like a big maggot. Sun Lili in the bedroom obviously didn't sleep peacefully, and she could always hear the sound of turning over. finally stayed up until about twelve o'clock, and Hong Tao finally fell asleep in a daze with a sweat, but his brain was still not idle, and the dream came again......