Today's opportunity is not accidental, but created by Zhang Yuanyuan, or pointed out to her. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info When she heard that Hong Tao was sick, Zhang Yuanyuan encouraged herself to come to Hong Tao's house to see, she could hide this little bit of thought from others, but she couldn't hide it, the two of them were too familiar, and every small emotional change could be felt by the other party. Since that day I returned to the office with two bags of DVDs, my best friend and leader directly asked this question, do you like our Director Hong?

Sun Lili has also asked herself many times in her heart, and the answer is...... Not so sure. Because I haven't tried this kind of subtle feelings that normal people have for a long time, it can also be said that I have tried too many times and am insensitive. The nature of my work dictates that I must pretend to be a person with this kind of affection every day, and I will give electricity and flattery to every guest. Even if he was a pig-headed, pot-bellied, wrinkled-faced, vulgar man, as long as he wanted to make money out of their pockets, he had to stick to it.

There is another question that Sun Lili is not sure about, that is, what Hong Tao thinks. No matter how unprofessional, flamboyant, and unable to see a bright future, he is a normal young man in a big city after all, even if he is a hooligan, his reputation is much better than his job. His advantage is that he is still good looking and has a little savings, but this thing is okay to fool young people who are not deeply involved in the world, and it is no problem to find someone to play, but for Hong Tao, it seems to be a little unattractive.

He is a child who grew up in the capital, his parents are still intellectuals, and he is a college student himself, so he is not in line with this part. In addition, Hong Tao is not a young man who doesn't understand anything and is full of hormones, he is more mature and rational than his peers. In fact, he does have a good impression of himself, which Sun Lili can feel, but does this good feeling just stay at desire? Or will it develop further? Sun Lili herself can't answer this question.

"We can't do night games all our lives, sooner or later we have to get out of it, and sooner or later we have to face this kind of problem. Just ask him, I don't have much hope, but it's better to have a little hope than nothing. Director Hong is a very assertive man, and from the bottom of his heart, he doesn't particularly reject our work, maybe you will get a more perfect answer. It doesn't matter if it's rejected, are there still fewer of our sisters who are usually rejected?" This is Zhang Yuanyuan's advice and encouragement to herself, but when she said the last sentence, her resolute face also showed a trace of sadness and helplessness. She didn't have a backache when she stood and talked, and encouraged herself to take this step, but she hasn't taken it yet.

"If you get out, you can still eat me!" This is Sun Lili's character, with Zhang Yuanyuan's encouragement and support, she put away a bunch of worries, and went directly to Hong Tao for the reason of visiting the patient. And if you come, you have to get results, whether you drink or not, this question is going to be asked today.

“…… Are you sure this is the question you want to ask, not a joke? Let me first state that I am a very thin-skinned person on some issues, and if someone plays tricks on me on these issues, I will definitely not be able to keep my face, and the consequence will be that I will treat the other person as an enemy, and it will be difficult to reconcile. Because I am not only thin-skinned, but also small-minded, I hold grudges very much, and flaws will be avenged!" Looking at Sun Lili, whose face was a little red and her eyes didn't dare to look at her, Hong Tao felt that she really wanted to know the answer. But before answering her question, you must first explain that some things can be joked about, and some things are better not to do it, there are all kinds of harm and no benefit. This is not only for self-protection, but also for everyone to live together peacefully in the future. These girls have very serious occupational diseases, and many things that are very serious in the eyes of normal people are very indifferent in their eyes, and they can all be used to tease.

"Don't talk nonsense, if it's a joke, I can't come to your house to be alone with you, who can see it!" Sun Lili's courage has been leaked with the question just now, and now her heart is very empty, and she is afraid that the answer is not what she wants, so she wants Hong Tao to answer quickly, but she is afraid that Hong Tao's answer will be too direct, too crisp, and too ruthless. But Hong Tao didn't answer, but said a lot of nonsense, which made her a little angry.

"I think you're asking this question too unskillfully. It's too direct, putting the two of us in an absolute situation of either yes or no, and there are only two extremes to choose from. In fact, the emotions between people are very responsible, liking, liking, hating, and hating are all conditional and processed. The words "love at first sight" and love at first sight are only describing emotional impulses, and do not conform to rational thinking...... "Hong Tao himself may not have realized it, but the way he lit a cigarette and frowned and whispered softly at this time was very, very much like his father. Every time my father was going to tell him about his life, it was basically like this. Hey, the action of pinching the chin with his hand is even more the same, except that my father has a very heavy beard stubble, and he doesn't have it yet.

"Do you believe it or not, I put this pot of soup on your head! Why do you talk so much, can you give me an answer first?" Sun Lili's feeling at this time is basically the same as when Hong Tao listened to his father's tirade before, irritable!

For her, now it is like a death row prisoner waiting to hear the verdict, and Hong Tao is the judge. But in the end, whether to shoot the judge or not is to consume it, not to mention, this kind of torment between death and immortality is very uncomfortable, Sun Lili now just wants to give herself a good time, whether it is life or death.

"You see, this means that the two of us don't know each other well enough, you only see my usual giggling side, and you don't know if I have another side, and I don't know if I only have these two sides or a third and fourth side...... I like it, whether it's you in the past or you now, I can count it as liking. But this kind of liking is only preliminary, most of it comes from instinct, and there is not too much rationality, because I don't know you very well......" Hong Tao still didn't directly answer Sun Lili's question, he felt that this question involved too many meanings, if he couldn't analyze it clearly, his answer would be perfunctory. But the problem is that as soon as he held down the soup pot, Sun Lili's hand grabbed the rice bowl, it seems that she really doesn't want to listen to her responsible answer, so she can only be irresponsible, which is no wonder to herself.

"Try the tofu I made...... Sun Lili smiled instantly, put down the rice bowl, and gave Hong Tao a spoonful of mapo tofu with her own hands.

"What does preliminary mean?" The thinking pattern of a woman is so peculiar, there is no logic to follow at all, one second ago she was happy, and the next second she frowned. When they listen to the questions, they swallow them first, pick only what they think they want to hear, save the others first, and then regurgitate a little bit.

The preliminary meaning is...... I'm full, why don't we go to the couch and talk, and we'll put away these dishes and chopsticks later. Hong Tao learned the lesson just now, there are too many sharp tools and hard objects in the kitchen, and this woman will be injured if she picks it up. So before answering her question, Hong Tao planned to change the environment first, because the answer to this question was likely to make her go berserk.

"The initial liking means that I see every beautiful girl, as long as it conforms to my aesthetics, I will have a feeling of liking. Then, if you have the opportunity to contact and feel that this person is not bad in nature, you will feel a little more like it, and then it will be preliminary. The two of them returned to the sofa in the living room and sat down, and Hong Tao crossed his legs and began to analyze the generation and development process of human emotions for Sun Lili.

"And then?" Sun Lili has already passed the initial nervous and apprehensive period, and her mood has stabilized, and she can listen to Hong Tao's nonsense. Although Hong Tao's answer was not what she wanted the most, it was not the least wanted, and the overall result was not bad.

Then it is to deepen mutual understanding, touch each other's temper and temperament, and see if the two people are more happy or distressed together. At this stage, it is best for both parties to be honest, and it is pointless to blindly hide their shortcomings and show their strengths. Hong Tao stretched out his second finger, these words are his understanding of love and marriage, and they are also the beginning of his honesty with Sun Lili. Lead by example, if you want others to be honest with you, you must first be honest with others.