Jin Yue asked herself if she couldn't find a more suitable partner than Hong Tao, and being with him not only could you get the funds needed for a comfortable life and a career development, but the most important thing was that sense of security.

It's not something you can afford to live alone, and you're not a person of Diane's kind in the first place, so you have to think about how to downplay this matter and avoid letting two people go to that state.

This is not called having no principles, nor is it called wronging oneself, nor is it called having no self-esteem, on the contrary, it is a manifestation of wisdom. People always want to live, always want to live a better and more meaningful life, this is the ultimate goal of life. Anything that is beneficial to this goal should be maintained in a way, otherwise it is tantamount to harming oneself.

Someone said that when I choose, I will choose thousands of choices and not allow myself a chance to catch up with this kind of thing. Those who can ask such questions are far from the wisdom of life.

There are ways to avoid disadvantages in everything, and even the weather can be predicted, but people alone cannot be predicted. Today's he or she may be a kind of thought, and next year, due to various unpredictable factors and people, he or she may make a 180-degree turn.

Then someone said that I have found a daughter-in-law or husband, and it has been more than ten years or decades, and he or she has not changed, I will just choose people.

People who talk like this have even worse brains, pure afterthought and standing and talking without backache. Suppose you made a pact at the beginning of your choice of her or him, and if she or he changed in the next twenty years, you would be put to death, how many would dare to sign a contract?

Besides, is it really based on what you see whether he or she has changed or not, doesn't seem to be likely? It should be more in line with the actual situation to say that you don't know whether he or she has changed or not, and you can't say that you don't know just because you don't know.

So is Hong Tao's practice worth advocating? The answer is that it is not worth it, or it cannot be advocated. Because the person who can do this must be significantly higher in ability than others.

There are not too many such people in the real society, and even if we can know, see, and hear, what we can usually see, and what we hear is their glorious side, and there are few media to expose their background.

The reason is very simple, their ability is too strong, so strong that whoever exposes it will be unlucky, just ask the people who mix the media are all King Kong is not bad, the whole family can not eat or drink, and they are idle and have nothing to do to make trouble for themselves?

But this kind of thing should not be criticized, from ancient times to the present, the strong people will naturally get more resources, which is also in line with the theory of evolution and the principle of fairness. You can't just ask powerful individuals to create social wealth, and don't allow them to get the corresponding rewards, rights and obligations are meant to wait. Power, money, beautiful women, etc., these are all part of the resources of society.

This is not a fallacy summed up by Hong Tao, as long as we look through history and look at those strong people in history, we can come to the same conclusion. Whether it is a successful politician, businessman, artist, or thinker, you can't say everything, but most of them occupy more or less social resources than ordinary people. Of course, those who became famous after death don't count.

For example, we always criticize negative people, but we don't know that Comrade Lu Xun, a great writer in the modern world, has never had anything to do with his original partner for a lifetime, but lives openly with Xu Guangping outside.

So much so that after Lu Xun's death, his original partner Zhu An had a very miserable life, and he had to count on Xu Guangping to help Lu Xun with Lu Xun's manuscript fees, and it came and went. In the end, he died lonely and poor.

On the contrary, a large number of literati have worked hard to defend Lu Xun, come up with all kinds of reasons, and even deduct the basin on the feudal arranged marriage.

Obviously not, there are still many people who are married to their wives under the same conditions, and they grow old.

But why don't people stick to their principles? Because everyone needs Lu Xun to come out and stand up to the thunder, because no one's buttocks are clean. As long as Lu Xun makes sense of this matter, everyone will follow suit, and they will all be pure in character.

I used Lu Xun as an example, not because I didn't like him, nor because I wanted to take the opportunity to slander me, and I was not qualified to slander me. On the contrary, I prefer Lu Xun's style of writing, he criticizes whoever he catches, never chooses sides, and always takes a stand on the side of the people.

This sentence is easier said than done, and it can be successful, and it can't be convinced. Personally, I also want to be like him, but unfortunately, even if Comrade Lu Xun is alive now, he has to tremble in front of the river crab god.

In a word, if you are born at the wrong time, it will be summed up. This is an era of rampant materialism, and our food, clothing, and waste have already belonged to the world's advanced level, but our spirit may not be as rich as Comrade Lu Xun's time.

Of course, since Jin Yue is known as a female bandit, she naturally has her stubborn side. can take into account her feelings and the future and not tear her face with Hong Tao, but she must let Hong Tao understand in her heart that it is not that she is stupid and ignorant, but to save face for him, and what to do in the future to ponder.

"Tang Jing, do you have time?" But how to tell Hong Tao about this, and let him understand the burden of his endurance and humiliation? Thinking about it, Jin Yue thought of someone.

"Sister-in-law, you say, just call me if there's anything. It's all a bunch of bastards here, what do you mean, sister-in-law, you're still shirtless, what do you want to do?"

Jin Yue basically didn't come to the basement, and her sudden appearance made Tang Jing very nervous. Everyone knows Hong Tao's attitude towards Jin Yue, if she goes to blow the pillow wind with Hong Tao, she may be unlucky again.

"Come out with me, I want to ask you something......" Jin Yue didn't come down because he couldn't get used to seeing these black and white people, but they were all friends or brothers of Hong Tao, and they couldn't talk too much, so they couldn't see it. At this point, she and Hong Tao have a very big disagreement, Hong Tao himself is a little evil, but Jin Yue is a very well-behaved person.

"Sister-in-law, sister-in-law, just talk about it here......" Tang Jing was even more nervous, Jin Yue took him back to the courtyard, and it happened that Hong Tao was not at home now......

Originally, it was a bit taboo for my sister-in-law to find my brother-in-law, Liu Yuanchao and the two children were in the basement, and Tang Jing's feet were like a thousand pounds after entering the yard, for fear that Jin Yue would let him into the house.

There is an old saying in the capital that says that it is better to sit on the lap of the eldest uncle than to live in front of the younger uncle. What does this sentence mean, that is, the husband's elder brother generally loves his younger brother, and his daughter-in-law is in charge, so he generally does not beat his younger siblings. But the husband's younger brother is usually young and does not have a daughter-in-law, so he must be careful to avoid suspicion.

"It's sunbathing outside, go sit in the house and talk. Jin Yue didn't know much about the rules in the bastard, and she didn't think about it this way, she was indeed a little silly on these issues.

"It's okay, I should have more sun when I stay in the basement, you stand in the shade and say, I'll listen. Tang Jing was really anxious, her big body board was one gear in front of Jin Yue, and she didn't want to enter the house, she would rather let herself be a visor for Jin Yue.

"That's right, there are some rumors about Hong Tao these days, and they have said some very unpleasant things. I wonder if it's not groundless, is he offending people out there again? So I want you to help find out who is behind it, do you have time?"

If a woman is cunning, it is really soft, Jin Yue wanted to convey a message to Hong Tao through Tang Jing, but she did not have this hint at all, and said it beautifully, which was very in line with the identity of a wife.

When a wife sees someone slandering her husband, shouldn't she find someone to investigate? It is too right, especially to carry her husband behind her back, this is not a lie, but a kind of strong love, and she does not want her husband to be distracted, and she has the momentum of the head of the family.

Of course, Tang Jing's candidate is a bit intriguing. If Jin Yue went to Diane, Qi Rui, and Ouyang Fanfan for help, no one would be able to say anything. But Tang Jing, this is Hong Tao's shadow, Hong Tao said that he would not go west in the east, and asked him to investigate secretly, I am afraid that the first person to know is Hong Tao.