His daughter exclaimed, "What does it mean to be high-style?" Dad, it's the first time I've heard of this word. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info Could it be that the man you want to introduce is very personable? If that's the case, it's not like I haven't met a man with good manners. What's more, if it's just graceful, it doesn't appeal to me at all.

I'm very fond of men with good manners. However, it also depends on the situation between men and women. If this man is very kind to me, of course I like it very much. But if he is kind to other women, then what am I happy about?

I just like men who have grace to me alone, and as for whether this man will be graceful to others, in fact, I mind very much. Because, if a man is only kind to me, it means that he just likes me alone, and he really wants to be nice to me.

In that case, at least it shows that this man is very single-minded. As a woman, who doesn't want their man to be single-minded, right? If it's a man with a heart, even if he can fall in love with him, or get married, the final outcome will be very miserable.

Because, men are hearty. Isn't this the same as a boyfriend I met on a blind date? In that case, I don't think his style is high-minded at all. Dad, why don't you speak? Did I say something wrong? Or am I right, you have nothing to say?"

"As your father, how could I have nothing to say? I'm just letting you voice your doubts and worries first. In this case, I can answer you one by one. You say that this style is not good, and that is not good. Actually, not at all. Style and demeanor are not the same thing at all.

What is style? Style is a way of doing things, not just a simple demeanor. In other words, demeanor means something very external, and style is something internal. To put it simply, style is naturally emanated, demeanor can be disguised, and demeanor is to show for others.

Why? You don't understand very well? So I'll tell you an example, and you'll understand. For example, if you get on a hovering bus, there is a seat at this time, and the seat is almost full, and there is the last seat, and you see that you will naturally sit on it at the end.

But at this time, a girl came over. At this time, you have many choices, if the girl is carrying a heavy burden all over her body and is very hard, then you give her a seat, which is not considered high style at all. Because, everyone will think that this is the case. On the other hand, if you don't let you sit, other people will say how ruthless and unrighteous you are.

Of course, it also depends, in the past, you wouldn't have done that, only will. In the past, people were kinder and more introverted, and even if they really had an opinion about you, they would never say it. That's not the case anymore. As long as there is dissatisfaction, everyone will show it.

This is also a feature of our federal education. Actually, according to me, this is a bit of a failure anyway. Because, education is not for everyone to be able to discuss right and wrong, if everyone is like this, then there is no quarrel all day long, and the quarrel is endless. Right? Okay. Let's not talk about education first, let's just give up my seat.

If the girl is very relaxed and doesn't carry anything, then you give her a seat, and you need to pay attention to some details. And these details are absolutely whether you are high or low. If the tone is low, it can only be regarded as personable. For example, you don't know that girl at all, and you want to give her a seat.

You immediately say hello to her and tell her to sit down. In that case, it is not style, but just graceful, proving your courtesy to women. If you look handsome and can do this, then your demeanor is even higher. The girl will not resist at all, she will be quite happy to accept, even blush.

However, there is also a premise, that girl is very ordinary, not beautiful, nor ugly, but only a public face. In that case, your concession will be successful. But if that girl is not an ordinary girl. That's different. It can even get into trouble.

For example, if that girl is very beautiful, then what will the people next to you think? People will not say that you have a demeanor, but only that you have a crush on that girl and want to soak her. Isn't that right? You agree with that, right? That must be the case. So, that girl can't be too pretty.

However, in fact, there are also requirements for the appearance of boys. If the boy is ordinary, it doesn't matter, the key is that the boy can't be too ugly, or in other words, can't be too scary. Because, if you look too intimidating, even the simplest of giving up your seat will make people think that you have bad intentions.

The girl who gave up her seat by you will definitely think the same way, and will resist you, resist you, and even hate you. If it's more serious, she calls you a pervert in the car and says it's possible for you to harass her. In this way, it becomes a good intention to do a bad thing. That's why I said that the man I introduced to you was quite handsome.

Only a man's handsome appearance can be related to his demeanor, and ugly men are not qualified to talk about demeanor. Of course, being personable is not enough. Because, people will only think that you are doing this very contrived. Because, if you really give up your seat, if you are sincere and selfless, you don't need to tell that girl at all, I will give you a seat.

This put a lot of psychological pressure on the girl. That girl will definitely feel that she owes you a favor. Although this is just a small favor, the debt is always the most difficult to repay. Therefore, she will be tempted, she will be entangled, she will hesitate, she will even be embarrassed, she does not know what to do, and in the end, she will nervously do something abnormal.

Therefore, the really stylish thing is to give up the seat in this way. When the girl comes over, you first observe her reaction. Is it laborious or easy for her? If it's easy, there's no need to give up your seat. If she's tired, give her a seat. However, how to give up your seat is still quite particular.

You should never ask her to come to her side to give up your seat, as you did just now, but you should take the initiative to stand up and walk to her, but you should never stay with her any longer, you should walk from behind her to the front, preferably out of her sight. That way, there will be no gossip.

Because, as long as someone gossips, it must be saying that you have bad intentions. Even if you are really sincere in giving up your seat, it is inevitable that you will make everyone suspicious. The reason is that you're going towards that girl, not towards you. In other words, if you turn your back on the girl, there will be no problem with the mission.

However, if you really carry him on your back, it won't work. Because, if you carry him on your back, who will know that you are giving up your seat? The same is true of that girl. In that case, people won't think you're doing something with grace, it's just actually going to get off.

Aren't you confused when you hear this? I don't understand it? It's strange if you understand it. It's really not strange that you don't understand. Because, if you don't understand it, you can reflect high-style things. Right? Okay. Without talking nonsense, I'll continue to explain to you what it means to be stylish.

Daughter. You know, if the man gets up and walks in front of the woman, he will be suspected by other people, and if he walks on his back, everyone will think that he is going to get out of the car, and then there is no way to give up his seat? But there is a premise that at the time of giving up the seat, it is inevitable to be criticized.

In other words, in any case, you must accept criticism first, so that you can make others think that you are very stylish. Because, the biggest difference between being stylish and being personable is that if you have a demeanor, you will care about the evaluation of others. And as long as you care about other people's evaluations, then your personable behavior may not have a next time.

However, if there is style, this is not the case. You're going to do it again and again. Because, the style is high. So, you don't mind other people's eyes and comments at all. Therefore, the key to giving up your seat this time is to get up and give up your seat to her when you see that girl is tired, and first walk in her direction.

When you get up, you should also be careful, don't mess around, if you get up suddenly, it will make people think that you are deliberately attracting the attention of others. That's not going to work, not if you get up too slowly. Because, if you get up too slowly, wouldn't it be embarrassing if someone else preempted you?

Therefore, it must not be fast or slow, just right, when the timing is just right, that is the moment of eye contact with the girl. That's right. You heard it right. It was at that moment when I looked at her. Because, as long as a girl gets in the car, she will definitely take a look at the surrounding environment.

This is not because girls have such a habit of cleanliness, but because girls must develop such a habit. In this way, you can know if the surroundings are safe or dangerous. It's a way to put yourself in a safe situation. If you find that the surrounding environment is dangerous, and the eyes of the people around you are fierce, then it is better to change to another position immediately.

That way, you don't have to worry about being harassed when the car starts. However, if you don't observe, when the time comes, there will be dangerous things around the man who is really in danger. Such as secretly filming or being harassed. Therefore, this is the most basic kind of habit.

It is also a habit that every girl will develop. Therefore, when you look at her, what you need to do is not to get up immediately, but to show your kindness to the fullest, to show it through a smile, to give her a gentle smile, the smile should not be too big, that will only play the opposite smile.

To have a faint smile and gentle eyes, the key is to make her feel comfortable. If she feels comfortable, then you can give her a seat. There must have been a reaction on her face, it was an accident. When you see her unexpected, you can get up. Get up at this time, and she will notice it immediately.

And as soon as she notices, she'll wonder if you're not giving up your seat to me. At this point, that's your chance to get close to that girl. However, it should also be noted here that it is absolutely not possible to take the initiative to go over and talk to her, and it is absolutely absolutely absolutely impossible to meet face-to-face.

Because, if you face to face, you will be suspected of bad intentions. Or rather, ill-intentioned. In a word, you can't face to face with that girl, talking is a must. Because, if you don't speak, who knows you're giving up your seat? If you don't speak, how does that girl know that you're giving up your seat?

Wouldn't it be quite embarrassing for that girl to sit on her own after she had sat down? If you wait for that girl to sit down, you suddenly turn around and ask her, "Hey, why are you grabbing a seat?" In this case, wouldn't that girl have to regret it for a day? No, if it's serious, it may even leave a psychological shadow.

Therefore, this kind of thing must not be allowed to happen. So, instead of talking to her face to face, you have to walk up to her naturally, and then, with a silent and natural expression, walk behind her, and the next step is the most crucial step. Just as he passed behind her, he whispered a word in her ear to give her a seat.

Of course, the content of the words here is also very important. Because, if it's wrong, it will only make that girl annoyed. Therefore, it is absolutely impossible to say, I will give you a seat, go there and sit down, such a straightforward word, you must make the girl feel comfortable. Daughter, do you know what to say?

I know that's the case, but it's normal that you don't know. Because, you're a girl. You're my daughter. Women's minds are inherently different from men's. So, if you know, that's not normal. Good thing you don't.

I'll let Dad tell you directly. Actually, at that time, just a simple sentence, I'm at the station, it's fine. In this way, the girl will not have any unpleasantness, but will feel that it is normal to sit in that seat. Because, when you arrive at the station, you are about to get off the train, so that seat is vacant, why not sit down?

She won't have any psychological burden. Because, if you say that you deliberately gave her a seat, she will only feel that she owes you a favor. Although you are very handsome and will make girls fall in love with you, girls will also have great psychological pressure. Unless you're planning to fall in love with her, then these mental pressures will disappear.

Otherwise, you're just going to make that girl feel like you're being teased. Then kindness helps. So, you must not say anything else, you can't do anything else. Here, in order to keep you stylish and make girls feel your style, I can only say this reason. "The planet is long. (To be continued.) )