Chapter 1257: Established
The doorman shook his head and said to himself, "Definitely not." After all, this method is too cruel. Or rather, there is no humanity. After all, at this time, even Xiaohong was very happy, surprised, and satisfied, but she couldn't show it. Because, if she shows it, her character will be questioned in the future.
As long as her character is questioned, it will have a direct impact on her business. Although she has so much money now that she can't use it up, it doesn't mean that two people can't use it up. In other words, if Xiaohong doesn't have children, she won't have a psychological burden.
And as long as there is no psychological burden, she will not make any mistakes, even if she is unlucky. She usually saves habits, too. So, money is enough. However, if there is one more person, it will not be established. Because, if there was one more person, she needed that person to think about things for at least a hundred more years.
And as long as you consider the cost of living for a person for a hundred years, it will definitely be expensive for Xiaohong to bear. Therefore, in order for her soon-to-be-adopted godson to be able to live at the top of this society in the future, she still needs to maintain her business.
And if she wants to maintain her business, she can't easily promise this child here, at least she can promise the child, but she can't be so anxious and cruel. You have to find a good node. And this node is that it will neither bring any bad fame to her reputation, nor will it let her adopt a child go to naught.
In other words, if you want to accept this child, you still have to find a way to meet his mother, only then is it more perfect. But this kind of thing is easy to say, but it is too difficult to really do. It could even be said that it was not just difficult.
It's even a little harsh. Because, in general, it is impossible for anyone to accept such a thing. After all, how much courage does it take to accept this kind of thing? And the pressure on your back is too heavy. If only it weren't. It's just a pity that it doesn't exist.
So, that's how she should react. What do you say? You tell me, don't go with other people, just go with this person? That shouldn't be good? Or, little friend, you say, it's better not to live with your mother, or I'll wait until your mother dies before I can adopt you.
We'll have to wait until sometime. Now that federal medicine is so advanced, it will be at least fifty years before she dies. Am I going to have to wait another fifty years before I can adopt you? Because, at that age, do you think you are still a child?
You've already become an adult. Since you're all adults, would you still be willing to be my child? After all, I haven't had any feelings after so many years. What's more, your family conditions are not good, and it's just the current situation. If I don't help you, there will be someone else who will help your family.
In that case, won't I be the unlucky person at that time? The person who helps you will definitely be more acceptable to you as your mother or father. Am I right? If so, what do you think of my feelings? Am I going to have a very good time?
No. Not at all. Not only is it unpleasant, but it will be very regretful, very painful, and I don't want this outcome, so I want to adopt you now. It's just that I can't. Oh. No. Don't get me wrong. I don't mean that I can't adopt you now, but I can't promise you right now. Can you see what I mean?
It seems that you don't understand too much. It doesn't matter, Auntie doesn't have much of anything, the most is time. Auntie will explain it to you well. You hear me clearly. Auntie actually thinks so, you think, if you adopt you only after you and I discuss it, it will definitely cause your parents to be dissatisfied.
Therefore, after careful consideration, the aunt finally decided that it would be up to the aunt to come forward and talk to your mother in person. No matter what the outcome is, Auntie will adopt you, okay? You don't have to worry about what your mother will do. You can rest assured. Auntie can give you a guarantee.
If your mom says yes to me, that's certainly for the best. But if your mom is against it, you don't have to worry. Auntie will adopt you as well. It's just that at that time, my aunt will secretly adopt you.
Definitely won't let anyone else know. So you don't have to worry about it, right? If you accept it, take your aunt to see your mother now. This is the answer that Auntie has thought about for a long time. If you disagree, give us your opinion. If you have a better way, Auntie can also consider using your method, this is always okay, right?
These words are really powerful, and the key is to be beautiful. No loopholes can be found. Not to mention that children can't find it. Even I, as an adult, can't see the loophole at all. So when things get to this point, the little kid who pretends to be is going to be very embarrassed.
The reason for this is simple. Because, if he wasn't so embarrassed, it wouldn't be normal. However, it's not good to be too difficult. After all, if it's too difficult, it will make other people unhappy. It's just that it doesn't matter if this unhappiness is or not, or rather, it's better to have.
If not, I don't know what to do next. But even if there is, it is actually very difficult to develop. It's easy to understand that not anyone has the time to pay attention to other people. Not all children are capable of dealing with this kind of thing.
If it's an ordinary child, I'm sure I'll cry when I hear this. That's right. Why can't this kid cry? My preconceived notions are too serious. I've always unconsciously thought of him as an adult, because adults don't cry easily.
But the opposite is not the case. If that's the case, it's not normal. Therefore, from this point of view, there will definitely be no problems of this and that, and it is better to let other people understand us and appreciate us. That's what we need to do. It's something we're going to deal with anyway.
Just let him cry. Because, this is the temper of a child, and this kind of behavior is in line with the age. Of course. Sometimes some children are very well-behaved. This kind of child is a rare good child in the eyes of adults, but it is not. It can even be said that if a child is not crazy and does not cry, it is not good.
Because, the more well-behaved children are, the more serious their mental problems are, and the more likely they are to suffer from diseases such as depression, but the kind of children who are grinning and like to cry are healthier. The reason is simple, everyone can't have a smooth life, in other words, when they grow up, they will definitely encounter setbacks.
And whenever there is a setback, they complain. At this time, if it is a child who cries a lot when he is young, they will definitely cry as much as they did when they were young, and then they will even go out for a run or something in anger. Or buy a whole bunch of snacks to eat.
All in all, they're going to do some really crazy things, and things like that seem bad, but it's actually the best way to let off stress for themselves. The reason is simple: if they don't, they won't be able to cheer up.
At this time, those well-behaved children who are young will encounter psychological problems. Because, when they were young, they had already encountered setbacks and had psychological shadows, and when they encountered big setbacks, they would definitely choose to escape, and if they didn't escape, they would soon become autistic people.
Because, they are too well-behaved, they don't know how to excrete pressure, they only know how to withstand pressure, and when they reach their limit one day and can't bear it anymore, they will collapse and become bad people who are useless to society. For example, going out to kill people, or robbing, in short, such people will bring a lot of problems to society.
Therefore, it is better to make some trouble when the child is still young. Of course. At this time, it is actually necessary to control it, not that the child can be connived at repeatedly, it is not the case. That's not good. Because, it will affect his character.
will make his personality more and more flamboyant, thinking that he can mess around with anything. This is a no-no. When the time comes, the child will be lawless, so isn't it going to make trouble? Murder and arson will do anything. The key is to figure out what your child cares about the most.
When this is clarified, the next problem will be solved. Because, you know them. And the reason why children don't want to talk to adults, or play together, is because children find that adults don't understand them. To put it simply, there is no common language. Only when both sides resonate can the next step be possible.
Another point is that while this is an acceptable way, it is difficult to actually do it. And it is because of its difficulties that many of us overlook. Everyone thinks that there is nothing difficult to communicate with children, especially biological parents, if not, then it is reasonable.
But the truth is not like this, the truth is not only that it is difficult for outsiders to communicate with children, but also for real parents. After all, there has been too much time between two people, and such a large time gap has caused people to have a huge difference in their thinking. If only then could you communicate without barriers. It's not real.
Sometimes, though, something that isn't real can give us some enjoyment. It can even be said that it is precisely because there are some unreal things that human beings are getting better and better. Especially us Federans. Otherwise, this era is too realistic.
A society that is too realistic has no future. Because everyone relates to what they can see, touch, hear and smell around them. Those who do not hear, do not see, do not smell and do not touch will not believe.
And as soon as a person begins to disbelieve in these things, his life quickly becomes mechanical and boring. Otherwise, there wouldn't be so many people who want to do this kind of thing. Isn't the reason why everyone wants to do such a thing is to hope that one day there will be a happy feeling of one kind or another?
And that's what that kid wants to be able to enjoy. Even if it's not real, it doesn't matter, he'll be intoxicated and won't want to get out of it. Actually, don't say it's a child. Even Xiaohong is the same. If you suddenly tell Xiaohong, you can go back in time, or the kind with memories.
Will Little Red go back? 100 percent. No one's life is happy. There are no regrets in anyone's life, there will always be more or less regrets, but many people don't want to admit it. It is precisely because we do not admit it that we feel false.
But falsehood is not the same as hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is saying that a person is too bad. This person is a bad person in his bones, so even if he has financial resources, material resources and power, it will not last long. Only people with good character have a future. Those who have a bad character may temporarily gain a strong position and become very happy or something.
However, once the wheel of time begins to turn, then these people will wait to perish. Because there will always be righteous people who stand up and speak for the poor and disadvantaged people. Just like in the earliest period of earth civilization, when our human ancestors were not very strong, we would always be bullied in one way or another, and whether we could reproduce or not was a problem.
So, at that time, human beings were very afraid of those creatures outside, and there were natural disasters, but after so many years of development, are we still weak? Not at all. Maybe our personal physical fitness is still very weak. But as long as you practice well, you can quickly get rid of the situation of weakness, and isn't the monk the best example?
Of course, you can become stronger even if you don't have to be a monk. That's with your brain. The brain is a good thing, and it is the most precious treasure of our human beings. Without brains, we human beings would not have made such great progress, let alone give birth to so-called thoughts.
Without thoughts, we would all be animals now, and we would not have any wishes or dreams. These are the things that we Federalists advocate the most. People may have to have dreams to be happy. If we didn't have dreams, we would be like the animals of the past, even like some extinct creatures.
Of course. Saying this now is nothing more than creating some pressure on children. That's what Xiaohong thought, half of what she said was true, and half of what she said was to see the child's reaction. ”