Chapter 1014: Newcomer
The more he thought about it, the more sad he became, the more sad he was, the more sad he was, and the more he couldn't stop thinking about it, and the tears couldn't stop coming out, but then he came back to his senses, shook his head, wiped away the tears with his right hand, and said secretly: "No." Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info I can't be distracted by my own negative emotions.
The most important thing now is to find out the truth about that year. And in order to find out the truth, we must clarify the things of that special era. And to figure out the things of that era, it is still necessary to understand the instructions of those parents to their children when they are looking for jobs. That's right.
That's the most important thing. Those children will be amazed to hear this kind of teaching from their parents. Because, although they have learned how to calculate others early on, and then, at the same time, how to guard against other people's calculations, but in any case, this is a very surprising thing.
The reason is simple. In the past, calculating others was tantamount to making a show, or even lying, and preventing other people's calculations would most likely require lying and acting. However, whether these lies should be fulfilled or not was not required in the past. In other words, when they were still students, it didn't matter if they lied casually, even if they were exposed.
They're students anyway. Therefore, the punishment is basically unlikely. Even if there is, it will definitely not be serious, at most, it will be a fine of a few dollars, and it will be dozens of dollars. Even some of the more lenient schools just let students stand on their feet.
Therefore, when these punishments are not severe, the parents of those children do not need to teach their children how to lie. There is another side of concern. If you let your child learn how to lie at a young age, you will become too smart
And it's not a good thing for a child to become too smart. The biggest difference between children and adults is that children are always children, and children will not mature without experiencing too many setbacks. Without mature concepts, children will become very rebellious.
Once the child is smart enough to be rebellious, he can ignore his parents, or even make his parents speechless and unable to discipline him, then the child will be finished. Because, in this world, there is no one who can discipline him. Outsiders don't have any intention of disciplining him.
And as long as a child is not disciplined well. When he reaches the top of society, he will become a terrible being who acts arbitrarily and recklessly. I don't know what to do and what not to do. I don't understand what to do and what the terrible consequences are, so it's easy to waste my life.
So, what did the child's parents do when they gave birth to him? So, when you are young, you can't tell your child that lying needs to be true. It is only when they are older, especially in the period before they become full-fledged employees, that children must be taught this truth.
Because, this was a special survival skill of that era. You must learn that if you can't master it, you will suffer a lot of losses after you arrive at the company, and you may even suffer a loss and never get up. It's hard to bear the consequences. It's unbearable for the average child.
Of course. Some special children are not excluded here. For example, children who have received a rigorous education from an early age. Although those children can lie and know how to lie, they will never lie easily. Relatively speaking, they have to calculate that others use a more advanced technique.
That skill needs to be taught only after the children have learned to lie, otherwise it will be self-defeating. Therefore, it is not considered for the time being. It's better to think about how parents should tell their children lies at this time. That's right. So to speak.
Kids. Don't think we're talking nonsense, and don't underestimate lying. Lying may seem easy, but it's hard to make it difficult for others not to see that you're lying. You know what that means? It means that people don't know what you do. And if you don't know your details, you will think that you are mysterious.
You don't understand the meaning of the word mysterious, do you? Then let's change the word and you'll understand. As long as you make the other person think that you are mysterious, their impression of you will change from a newcomer to an unfathomable one. You understand what that means now, right?
As long as you let others understand that you are unfathomable, then in ordinary interactions and at work, everyone will not dare to frame you easily. As long as those who are more stupid and show others the details at a glance, they will become the target of bullying by others. People don't bully you precisely because it's better for you to lie.
That's why it's important for us to lie and it's a skill that you have to learn. Because, if you don't lie, others will easily debunk you. And as long as others expose your lies, do you dare to guarantee that you are very calm?
If the lie is exposed and the heart is weak, then we are not worried. After all, there are such people, but such people can never be born. In other words, such people are only likely to be those who are older. Because, they have lied to others too many times, to the point of being innumerable.
This means that their feelings have long been numb. Therefore, they will not have any heart deficiency is not that they have never been weak, but that their heart has been weak for too long and too long, and they have long been numb, in other words, in fact, they have long been slow to react. Even if the heart is weak, you can't see it. No one could see it but themselves.
This can also make others dare not bully you easily. It's just a pity that it's absolutely impossible to do this at your current age. So, in order to avoid this unfavorable situation for you, a better way is that we can make everyone understand that we are not lying.
Of course. It's just an illusion created for others. And this delusion is only known to you. In other words, others don't know, they will only know before they debunk your lies, which is the so-called truth. It's like what I want to tell you. The importance of a round lie.
And to lie well, you must first learn a little, calm, quite clear, not to calm you, but to be calm. Because, when lies are exposed, you can't be calm. Only the kind of people mentioned earlier can do it. So, you just have to calm yourself down.
If you can't calm down, that's normal, and your heart will definitely beat faster at that time. There is no doubt about it. If the heartbeat doesn't go fast, it's not normal. But it's okay for your heart to beat faster, but you can't show it to others. Why? Because everyone looks at it, and when they ask you, you get confused.
So how are you going to lie? You don't need to explain, people can already see it in your physical reaction. Your lies have been exposed, your heart is empty, and you are in great tension. So, just when your heart is racing, if you find that you can't calm down for the first time, try using this method.
Turn back first, with your back to the others. Only then will people not read from the expression on your face that you are already weak. And it just feels weird. Because there are many reasons for a person to suddenly turn around, such as you want to spit or you have something inconvenient. Or something that matters.
All in all, it's very well explained. But if you see your expression, it's hard to explain. That's the key. Don't you understand? I'll give you a very simple example. For example, sweating, your forehead sweats when you are nervous, as long as people see that you are sweating on your forehead, what else do you think can explain?
Is it hot? If it's summer, then it's easy to explain, it's really possible to use heat as a perfunctory thing. But what if it's cooler? You say you sweat more than the average person. Others will say, "Wouldn't it be nice if you wore less clothes?"
You go on to explain that it is easy to catch a cold if you wear less clothes. People will continue to make things difficult for you to say, "Don't you feel hot when you wear so many clothes yourself?" If you feel hot, why don't you feel uncomfortable? If that's the case, why did you insist on coming out before? Wouldn't it be better to just stay at home?
If you stay at home, you can blow the air conditioner at home. This is called being easy or not easy, and if you have to find sin, isn't it difficult to get along with yourself? How do you answer? You must be out of words, right? So what else are you going to do? You're going to be finished.
Once you expose a lie and can't argue with it, your reputation will quickly be hit by others. And as long as you get hit, then it will be too difficult for you to live a good life. Then comes the trouble. Not only will you be affected, but you will also be affected if you have relatives in the family or something.
If you have a girlfriend, your girlfriend will also break up with you because of this incident. Don't think we're alarmist. Because, continuing to be with you means that you will never be able to get ahead. As a special day in which money is the only sign of success, it is impossible to do without money.
And to get out of the way is to make more money. But you'll never get ahead. So, if that girl is still willing to follow you, there can only be one situation, and that is when she is in your dreams. Do you understand? Don't be naïve. This is reality, not a dream.
Nothing is so good. Mom and Dad haven't told you this all this time. How ugly reality is. If you can't remember this sentence deeply, you will not be able to move an inch in the future. So, the first point of the lie must be remembered, no matter what, you must not let others see your face.
If it's useless to turn around, cover your face with your hands. If your hands are too small to cover your entire face, you can use your sleeves. In short, the face is not to be seen. If you show it, it will only put you in a bad situation. Of course. You'd say it's embarrassing to cover your face with your hands or your face.
Moreover, if you do too much, people will definitely think that you have a problem. Otherwise, why would a good conversation suddenly cover your face? But it's very simple to explain. Even, you can just use a trick to fool the past without explanation. This trick is also quite crucial.
You must remember how girls would react when they were kids, if they were exposed? It's crying. You can do the same at this time. Start by covering your face. Then, just as others are questioning curiosity or expressing anger at you, you start crying.
And if you cry, other people will feel that they are bullying you. And as long as they have that idea, then they won't make it difficult for you. See what I'm saying? It's a very important skill, and it's very useful. If you learn this trick, you can withstand most of the situations in the future.
Of course. There is one thing that you have to pay attention to, and that is that when you cry, you must not fake crying. This is very important. It's best to squeeze out all the tears, if you can't squeeze them out, then you have to cry with red eyes. It's like being an actor.
Kid, you know what is the most important profession in our time right now? It's an actor. This is the reason why actors are so popular in this era. Because, an actor is a person who can cry anytime and anywhere. Therefore, the actor's income is so high because they brag about smallpox and get drunk, but they will not be exposed to others.
Their crying skills are too great. This is completely different from us ordinary people. All you have to do is train yourself. If you can make yourself cry anytime, anywhere. When you want to cry, you can't cry. That's perfect.
At that time, you can use this trick against someone who wants to expose your lies, and you can even try it a hundred times. However, we are your parents after all, and in order for you to be able to mix better in the company in the future, or even move up quickly, you must master the next skill.
Crying is important. But crying doesn't solve the underlying problem. You want to make others stop doubting you completely. In other words, let others understand that you are an unfathomable person, and you need to tell others this after crying again. You've gone too far. You don't believe me. Although I came from a very low background, I don't want to bully people like this.
In other words, that's the lines. Right. You heard it right. It's not about making you talk nonsense, it's about memorizing lines. In that case, a pre-set line is more lethal than what you come up with on the fly. Because, such words are carefully selected and summarized by countless experiments by countless people, which is very useful. You have to memorize them all. ”