Chapter 1013: Making a big fuss
The doorman nodded affirmatively, and said in his heart, "It must be so." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info can't be wrong. If it weren't for that, there would be no such outcome. Of course. More importantly, the child's parents will continue to teach him this, not just to make him understand that he should not be a gentleman in school.
When he graduates, his parents will tell him that when he is going to college. Kids. You're eighteen years old now. Compared to the past middle school period, you have matured a lot, and finally understand that you can't be a fool in front of your classmates.
Rather, it is necessary to calculate others at all times. We must not forget the sinister nature of this world. It's also important to understand that you're not just counting these classmates. What Mom and Dad want to tell you now is that when you go outside, that is, when you go to college in another place, you must not forget our instructions.
Going to college and going to secondary school are two completely different concepts. When you are in secondary school, you can go home often, so that we can always advise you, supervise you, and help you become a qualified person. But by the time you get out there and go to college, we won't be able to do that much.
Mom and Dad have to go to work in order for you to have a good life during college. And it's because we have to go to work that we can't go that far with you. So, at that point, you have to learn to take care of yourself. As for doing laundry, making beds, and bathing, Mom and Dad didn't worry about it at all.
Because, since you were a child, we have trained you very well in this area. Mom and Dad are worried about other things. It's like the calculation I just mentioned. This is the most important and the most worrying. Because, you kid is too easy to trust others.
Now mom and dad don't trust your classmates easily, which is what we are happy about. But you trust us too much. That is, you believe that we have something right, but also something wrong. The right place is that we are your relatives and you believe that we are right.
If you can't even trust your loved ones, it will be very difficult to survive in this world. But at the same time, you believe in us too much. If you're being used by us, you don't know anything about it. In other words, Mom and Dad don't want you to get too close to anyone. See what we mean?
Don't understand? That's okay, we knew you weren't that smart. Otherwise, when you were in middle school, your parents wouldn't have taught you every night after dinner. All right. Now for the main ado, let's move on to your class. Remember what Mom and Dad just said, right?
Let's move on. You're going to wonder why you're being told that. Actually, the reason is very simple. When you get outside, you're going to have to live alone. But if you really live alone, Mom and Dad don't worry about it. Do you know why? As long as you live alone, you can't get close to anyone.
We still have this confidence. But this is not the case. When you get to school, you're going to live in a dormitory. And if you want to live in a dormitory, you will definitely have roommates. Those roommates and you don't look up and look down all day long. You're all mixed up, are you really going to count them like you did with your classmates in middle school?
Mom and Dad can say for sure, you won't. You don't think of them as close to your own loved ones. And as long as you have such an idea at that time, it will be quite dangerous. Would you easily tell someone your secret? Don't answer us in such a hurry.
We are your parents, we have lived with you for more than ten years, and we know you too well. You're a kid who is good at everything, but you're too soft-hearted. And people who are too soft-hearted tend to become fools for others to take advantage of. So, before you leave us, we have to give you this lesson.
You have to understand that even roommates can't be trusted. Because, the present is different from the past. In the time of our ancestors, everyone's IQ was still relatively poor, so few people could calculate at that time. If you calculate, it will be too consuming of brain cells.
Now, however, everyone is calculating. Your classmates are calculating you, your teachers are calculating you, even the dormitory administrator you live in is constantly calculating you, and the only person who doesn't count you is yourself. So, your roommates are also calculating you.
You actually have only one purpose for getting close to you, and that is to deceive your trust, and then deceive you into more benefits, such as useful information, then your handle, and then your living expenses. All in all, none of those people are good. You have to take that to heart. Do you understand?
Mom and Dad are forced to tell you this. Don't think we're verbose. When you become a parent, when you reach our age, when you face the same situation as us, you will definitely do the same. All right. It's useless to talk about this, and continue with the topic just now.
Roommates are just the first topic Mom and Dad have to talk about today. The next topic is the most important thing. You have to hear clearly. Got it? The second topic is girlfriends. What? You say you're not going to have a girlfriend? That's for the best. Mom and Dad were relieved to hear you say such things.
Because, Mom and Dad are actually most worried about this matter. When you were in middle school, you had the two of us supervising you every day, so you couldn't have a girlfriend. But when you get to university, it's different. When you get to university, you're free. We can't control you that much.
If you do have a girlfriend, we have no way of knowing. However, whether you are dating or not, Mom and Dad have only one request, and you must not trust him. Do you know what that means? It means that you absolutely have to keep some distance between yourself and your girlfriend.
If you get too close, you're doomed. If a woman wants to blow the wind in your ear, you can't resist it. Especially those beautiful girls. If it's ugly. Mom and Dad weren't worried. That's right. If you have to find a girlfriend, we don't mind if you find an ugly girlfriend.
That way, you'll throw up when you see your girlfriend, and you'll be sober when you do. When the time comes, I will remember the advice of the two of us, which is the best way. Of course. It's naturally better if you don't find a girlfriend, and we're afraid that you will find a beautiful girlfriend.
Do you understand what it means now? Mom and Dad are not against finding a girlfriend, but we are definitely against you looking for a beautiful one. The more beautiful your girlfriend is, the more detrimental it is to your growth. We're all here for your good. Don't think we're talking nonsense right now. Or make a big fuss.
This is a very serious matter. Because, you can find a girlfriend after graduation. However, if you miss time and waste opportunities, it will be difficult to study again. At this age, it is the age of your life when you have the best memory. If you don't take the opportunity to study hard and absorb more knowledge, when you get older, the difficulty will be increased by geometric magnification.
Of course. You don't have to tell us about finding a girlfriend. Or even deceive us. But if you do, we just want to say you're going to regret it. You're going to regret it, but don't blame us. We've already given you advice.
These are the words of advice that children generally listen. Because children who grow up with their parents are not the same as our ancestors in the past. In the time of our ancestors, because there were few calculating people, those who were more innocent or pure and kind children rarely suffered.
Even in comparison, those children have a good chance of being popular, so, in the old days, such people were very popular in schools, and everyone fought to be kind people, righteous people. But times are different now. If you continue to hold such thoughts, you will only suffer to your grandmother's house.
In this way, the children with a better mentality can still get through, but even if they do, they will definitely be hurt a lot, and no one knows if they will do some anti-social sabotage after graduation. Such as terrorist acts, or turning into a pervert.
All in all, the impact is certainly not good. And if those children are very poor in their mental capacity, it is even worse. Before graduating, it will definitely harm the other students in the school. Although in the current era, it is normal to calculate others, and it can even be said to be essential. But now there is justice in our federation.
It's not like I said, it's a little earlier than now, but it's a little later than the oldest period of civilization on earth, when our ancestors were still pure and kind. It was a special time, and it was also an ugly time. In those days, children were educated to be villains who were bent on harming those around them.
There is no so-called justice and people's hearts in the whole society. Everyone is selfish and thinks only of themselves, and as for others, they are perfunctory if they can be perfunctory, and they can deceive and never tell the truth. If you suffer a loss, you must take advantage of others in a hundredfold way. All in all, life in those times was sad and unfortunate.
But there's no way. After all, we humans have lived through that era, so we can't completely deny that era. That's the darkness that you have to go through before you can go to the light. In other words, in those days, everything that happened, whether it was big or small, bad or worse, was the best warning for our modern age.
We must not return to that mercenary era. However, children born in that era had no way to escape that fate. When they listened to their parents' words to study hard, gave up their girlfriends, endured until they graduated, and finally stepped into society, they still couldn't get rid of the word calculation.
Their parents will say, 'It's time to look for a job, boy.' You have to be more calculating to be able to do it. For example, when submitting a resume, you must not tell the truth. In other words, if you fill in your resume with the most authentic information about yourself, such as where you studied, whether you have work experience, and what you did during school.
These things are true if they are filled in. Then you will definitely lose. Because, in fact, everyone doesn't fill in the real one. Everyone adds fuel to what they do. It's like bragging, and the bigger the bull, the better. All in all, if you write your resume honestly, you will only be eliminated in the first round.
The reason is simple. Those interviewers will think that what you write is too ordinary. Compared to other people's resumes, it is too unobtrusive. Of course. They would think this on the basis of a more important premise. That's when they think your resume isn't real.
Because, in their opinion, there is nothing real about resumes, and the reason why they are all false is that everyone is just based on the psychology of wanting to seek a good position and PK everyone else. However, it is not possible to be all boastful, in other words, at least some of it is true.
It's just that many real things are actually not as high as written, such as the experience of internship in a certain company, who was rewarded during the internship, and what honors were received.
So, with that in mind, what do you think they're going to think of you when they look at your resume? Will they fully believe what you've written? No. Only fifty percent will be believed. It can even be said that people who are willing to believe in you 50% are already good to you.
If nothing else, I'll just trust you 20 percent. If you change to a more strict person, then you are willing to believe that 5% of your introduction is good. Your resume was very ordinary, with nothing outstanding on it, and now you have ignored 95% of the content for others, and the remaining 5% is definitely not dazzling.
So, do you think it's possible for you to stand out from so many competitors and be the one chosen by others? Child. You can't be too naïve. When writing a resume, you must remember two words, exaggeration. That's right. Don't think that writing a resume is all about writing the real thing.
You have to write your resume like one of those cartoons. Remember the movements and expressions of the characters in the comics? If you look at how exaggerated they are, you should understand how to write a resume. All in all, you can write as much as you can exaggerate. There is no best, only higher.
If you can, you can even blow the cowhide into the sky. As long as you can circle it back. And to come back is what we are going to tell you below. ”