Chapter 978: Women don't need men to live wonderfully
In her previous life, Xiaoqian went to the roof of the world, but she was a tourist, and she couldn't stand it for half a day in that cold, low-pressure and oxygen-deficient environment in all seasons, but there was a group of people who stuck there for the motherland.
"I was touched to see the warriors licking the glacier to quench their thirst, and I wondered how big the world is, so many feelings, why should I waste so much thought about the affairs of men and women? There are so many more things waiting for me to discover, and there is an unknown world waiting for me to explore. I saw the outside world and realized that there was a lot of cruelty that I hadn't seen. ”
That's why Yu Mingxi's singing voice is so varied, her strength singer is definitely not sitting and waiting, but she has used a lot of experience to feel, her art is not a soilless flower, the crystallization after experiencing wind and rain, no matter how good or bad Yu Mingxi's feelings are handled, she is indeed amazing in art.
"So far, all the changes in your heart are within the normal range, and the young rebellious and stubborn left home, but found better scenery and dreams in the distance, which is very inspiring - then why not go home later?"
Xiaoqian analyzed from a professional point of view, this period is still quite a normal change, the girl already knows that she has a problem after leaving home, why bother to be stubborn?
"I had planned to leave the army when I turned 20, but a few days before I was ready to leave the army, I called home. My parents happened to be absent, and my sister-in-law answered the phone, and she told me that a young man came to me a few years ago and asked my grandfather to take me away. ”
"Is it Sun Xia?"
"Yes, something happened at home and he quit his job and came home, and when he came back to me after he finished dealing with it, he was taken away by my grandfather with a very nasty word, probably because the toad wanted to eat swan meat or something. I was anxious to explain to Sun Xia, but I heard that he went to the border, but I didn't know where. ”
So for so many years, Yu Mingxi has been running to a difficult place, she just wants to try her luck and see if she can find Sun Xia, she owes someone an apology.
Sun Xia's family said that he was missing and might have died, but Yu Mingxi didn't believe it, she firmly believed that it was her family that stimulated Sun Xia and let him go away.
Therefore, as soon as the art troupe went to the difficult border to work in the army, she rushed to do it, but she won a lot of honors, but she never found Sun Xia.
"Can you believe my sister-in-law's words?" Xiao Qian had a fight with Yu Xiaogu, and the sister-in-law was abused to the end, which also made the sister-in-law's arrogant personality have a lot of restraint, and I have long heard that the sister-in-law was particularly annoying when she was young.
Yu Lao Ye Xiaoqian only met once when she was engaged, she was very stubborn but had the spirit of a soldier, this kind of thing is not quite like what he would do, but it is like Yu Xiao's sister-in-law took advantage of her brother and sister-in-law to go to work and no one at home made a claim and then threw the pot to her grandfather.
Yu Mingxi's glasses lit up, and Xiao Qian's words reminded her, yes, for so many years, why hasn't she forgotten this aspect?
But it's too late to think about it now.
It has been 4 years since she found Sun Xia, a famous military singer, who was a prisoner of life imprisonment.
When Yu Minglang was 24 years old, he met Chen Xiaoqian, the love of his life.
In the same year, his dragon and phoenix sister Yu Mingxi also found the enlightener who determined her artistic height, but a high wall separated her from Sun Xia.
"Drug trafficking, sentenced to life. I went to see him when he was in his first year in the detention center, and he told me that it was because of my grandfather's words that he had the urge to get ahead, but what could he do as a music teacher who was expelled from school? What could he do if he was tarnished on his back? My sister-in-law said that his expulsion was also operated by my grandfather, Xiaoqian, don't you want to ask me, why do you want to restrain your feelings? Now you tell me, a promising young man who should have a bright future, because I am ruined like this, what qualifications do I have to love?"
Yu Mingxi doesn't like to cry, she feels that her tears are all the fault of alcohol.
"You think too much, it's not necessarily your fault that he became like this, there are so many people in desperate situations, but not everyone will act aggressively. Want to get ahead but don't want to struggle in a down-to-earth way, always thinking about crooked ways to make a fortune, is it your fault for failure? Not to mention how credible my sister-in-law's words are, even if grandpa speaks something ugly and is wrong, it is also grandpa's fault, what does it have to do with you?"
Xiao Qian, from the perspective of a bystander, Yu Mingxi's burden was too heavy.
"If you want to say something ugly, Haizhao has heard a lot. His whole family looks at development, and at present, he is the worst, has he given up on himself?"
If it weren't for Yu Mingxi giving the green diamond given by Hai Zhao to others, Hai Zhao would still be a good young man who worked hard for the counterattack.
"It can't be compared, Hai Zhao is very good, and Sun Xia has nothing, and the two of them have different starting points. ”
When it came to Haizhao, Yu Mingxi's eyes were confused for a moment, but she soon returned to her usual appearance, and she should live like this in this life.
"Our dad said that grandpa can't remember some things clearly, and people of this age say something ugly, and it is unknown how long he can live. Xiaoqian said objectively.
The old lady's body was quite tough before, but since this year, it has been going downhill year by year, sometimes I don't even remember the people around me, and then I can't tell the old man about the past, not to mention that there is a sister-in-law tossing, what is going on in this matter is not necessarily, Xiaoqian decided to give her a hypnosis when she sees her sister-in-law in the future, and see what the truth is going on when she sees her sister-in-law.
I have a house, I have a car, I have a career, and I have a large family of relatives who treat me very well, so why should I find a man to restrain myself? At my age, I don't think about emotional matters, I just want to live my own life, my lover is my music, my husband is my art, I'm so good. ”
Yu Mingxi has never told anyone these words, Xiaoqian has treated her for insomnia for several years, and today, the critical point of emotional outburst, let Yu Mingxi tell these words to Xiaoqian.
"If you don't have a psychological barrier, I will agree with your choice, I agree with part of what you said, some women don't need men, to be precise, it should be a strong woman before she meets a man who is suitable for herself, there is no need to settle, but Xiaoxi, have you really not met a man who is suitable for you?"
For thousands of years, men have been inferior to women, so that many people's concepts can't be changed, the more important function of women in the hearts of many men is to give birth to babies and keep the house, and machismo makes some men can't see that their women's careers are better than their own, so with a strong woman like Yu Mingxi, if you don't meet a suitable man, there is no need to get married to meet others and yourself.
But Yu Mingxi already has a Haizhao by his side, and everything is different.