"What is the right man for me? Find someone who is the first to look after me? Be obedient to me? I don't need to, I have the energy to spend some money to hire a few male servants, and I will let him do whatever he wants. ”

"You don't understand what I mean. What I mean is that both parties have a good feeling, just like me and your brother, he is willing to make concessions for me, you can understand that he is obedient to me, but this premise is based on the fact that I think he is very good, you think about it carefully, is there a man who will make you feel that you don't look annoying. ”

"I have a lot of male friends around me, but they are all ordinary friends. ”

"In this way, we use the elimination method, you imagine that the end of the world is coming, you are a small boat, your family and all your male friends are soaked in the water, after you drag our family members onto the boat, it can only accommodate one place, which of your male ** people do you want to come up?"

"Is it okay to kick Yu Lao Mo down? He swims very well, it is estimated that he will not drown, and the eldest brother will also kick down, he is so fat and will definitely float, Yu Lao Er will also kick down, he flies the plane, and he still needs a boat?"

“... I thank you for your kindness in keeping me on board. Xiao Qian sighed, you have to learn to think backwards when communicating with artists.

"You can only bring one, tell me who it is on your instincts?"

"Haizhao. ”

Yu Mingxi immediately regretted it after speaking, she blamed herself for speaking too fast.

Xiaoqian was satisfied.

"That's because we've been playing since we were kids, don't think too much, besides, this kind of hypothetical thing has no reference at all, you psychiatrists just like to dig holes!" Xiao Xi was annoyed and angry.

"I've played so much with you since I was a child, why do you have to take him?"

Xiaoqian is sure that even if Yu Mingxi doesn't like Hai Zhao even if he doesn't like men and women, he must be better than ordinary friends, at least he has a good impression, which means that Comrade Hai Zhao still has a play!

"I'll just say it casually, it doesn't count. Yu Mingxi immediately denied it.

"Then why don't you just say Sun Xia?"

Xiao Qian stabbed Yu Mingxi in the heart.

That's right, why didn't she say Sun Xia? Yu Mingxi also wondered.

"You go back at night and think about it yourself, I don't stimulate you now, I'll help you analyze your upbringing from a professional point of view, you were born in a family that is loved by thousands of people, and you had a crush on someone when you were young——"

"I don't have a crush! I'm just an ordinary teacher-student relationship! We haven't even held hands!"

"You're a doctor, I'm a doctor? I said that if you have a crush, you're a crush, why don't you have a crush on you, why did you run so far to join the army? But the question is, do you love him, or do you love your music? Yu Mingxi, admit it, you solidified music into a person, and then pinned too many emotions on it, and then the next series of things was already logical. Let me be blunt, is this crush of yours real or fake?"

Hey, why is this line a little familiar? Xiao Qian remembered that she seemed to have said the same thing to Hai Zhao.

These two people, tsk, have a similar thinking pattern.

"Chen Xiaoqian, what are you talking about? What do you really like fake likes, what you like is likes, how can there be real or fake?"

"Look, your reaction is the same as his!This means that there is a door!" Xiao Qian found that Yu Mingxi's reaction was too similar to Hai Zhao's now.

"Like whom?"

"It doesn't matter who you look like, it's important that we analyze it, which involves an adolescent relationship problem. When many parents encounter their children's adolescent early love, they will be like facing a great enemy and a thief, for fear that their children will make mistakes if they are not careful. ”

But how many children spend their youth in abortion?

There are indeed there, but there are not many, some of those are also the parents' previous guidance work is not in place, the vast majority of underage girls who have abortions have varying degrees of existence The problem of insufficient parental attention, even if they don't have a fetus, there will be other things, this pot of early love is not back.

If someone had positively guided Yu Mingxi at that time, she would never have such a serious psychological disorder, and she had a restrained attitude towards marriage and feelings.

She didn't admit that she had a crush on Sun Xia, but the feelings that should have been beautiful and simple caused serious psychological damage after being distorted, making her restrain herself at an age when she should have enjoyed love.

It's not so much that she tortures Hai Zhao and gives away the gift that Hai Zhao gave to symbolize loyalty, but that she is punishing herself, and her heart is trapped in that relationship and can't get out.

Then poor Haizhao became cannon fodder.

"It's not a forbidden area, should it be encouraged? Chen Xiaoqian, do you hope that when you have a daughter in the future, you will like others when she is a teenager?

"Your tutor made you take the sense of responsibility too seriously, so after the incident happened, you have been trying to straighten it all out, you think with the thinking of a soldier, why is this, what is the root of all this, and then you can't understand it all in a circle, so it all goes around yourself. ”

"I don't understand you. ”

"You understand, it's just that you refuse to think now, and after you go back and think things through, it's simple for me to treat your psychological disorder. Let's go on to say that if I have a daughter in the future, she will bring me the love letters she received at school and share them with me, and the little boys will tell me when they ask her out to play, and we are very calm about the ignorance of adolescent boys and girls, and it is not normal for people to become interested in the opposite sex at a certain stage? This is human instinct, as long as parents guide correctly and do not follow the foolishness, 99.99% Children can deal with emotional problems appropriately, and they are polite and polite, which is a very simple matter, and the fake drama made by some 205 parents come true. ”

Just because the parents followed the hat and even severely criticized the child, which led to the child's fake play in the end, and everything had to happen.

When human beings reach a certain stage, they will naturally have a good impression of the opposite sex, which is a normal thing, when puberty begins to develop, the attention to the opposite sex will awaken, such as Yu Mingxi watching Sun Xia, but sometimes this kind of feeling is just an ignorant good feeling, and there is a difference between the feelings of adults.

"Is it still useful to say this to me now?" Yu Mingxi mocked, she felt that even if the Great Luo Immortal came, she would not be able to save her.

She just has a repulsive attitude towards marriage and love, even if she finds the reason for the formation of her character?

"How can it be useless? If you have the heart to change this state, I can help you, your heart knot is on Sun Xia, as long as you let me treat you, maybe after a year and a half, you can face your true emotions again. ”